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  • Nurturing Your Intimate Relationships with Vanessa & Xander Marin

    “Sex isn't really worth having without vulnerability.”

    Sexuality and intimacy can be sensitive topics, especially in long-term relationships. But what if these conversations could be transformed into pathways to deeper connection and more fulfilling, mutually satisfying sex? In this episode, we’re thrilled to welcome our first couple(!) to Hotter Than Ever: Vanessa and Xander Marin. Vanessa, a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience, and her husband, Xander, bring their unique perspectives together to foster honest, vulnerable discussions around sex and intimacy. Together, they’ve written the NYT bestselling book “Sex Talks” and are on a mission to help couples achieve true closeness.

    Join us for an illuminating conversation on the essential ingredients for a rewarding sex life and on dismantling long-standing misconceptions about intimacy. This episode is a powerful reminder that true intimacy—whether in long relationships or new ones—requires courage, open communication, and a fresh look at what we really need and desire. We discuss:

    1. Why open conversations about sex are crucial for fostering intimacy and connection between partners.
    2. Breaking down male expectations around intimacy and performance, and how these notions can block true connection and vulnerability.
    3. Prioritizing quality over quantity in sex—focusing on enhancing pleasure and satisfaction over frequency.
    4. Practical, small-scale actions to boost emotional intimacy, like expressing gratitude, embracing a 30-second hug, or sharing a 6-second kiss.
    5. Cultivating your own individual sexuality to reinforce a sense of self and desire, no matter your relationship status.
    6. Navigating sexual changes through perimenopause and menopause, with tips on staying connected to your body and sexuality.



    OUR GUESTS: Vanessa and Xander Marin are the dynamic duo behind the NYT bestseller “Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life”. Vanessa, a certified sex therapist, and her husband Xander, who left a career at Google to join her in this mission, combine their expertise and candid, down-to-earth approach to help couples kick shame out of the bedroom and embrace deeper connection, pleasure, and joy. Together, Vanessa and Xander have been featured in top publications like O, The Oprah Magazine, Harper’s Bazaar, Vogue, and Goop, and Vanessa has contributed to The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker.


    Want more Vanessa & Xander? Tune into their podcast Pillow Talks for practical relationship advice, real-life insights, and plenty of laughs as they share what truly goes on behind closed doors.

    Follow them on:

    1. Instagram: @vanessaandxander
    2. TikTok: @vanessaandxander
    3. YouTube: @vanessaandxander
    4. Facebook: @vanessaandxander


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    Mentioned in this episode:

    Broad Collective

    Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com.

    Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing

    51 min
  • Producing Your Best Life: Movies and Motherhood with Feigco's Laura Fischer

    If you’ve ever wondered why stories of women in midlife are so rare in movies and TV, you’re not alone. In a landscape where male-centered narratives often take center stage, Laura Fischer (Co-President of director Paul Feig’s feature film company Feigco) stands out as a force for change. In partnership with the iconic comedy director, Laura champions films anchored by funny women (think Kristen Wiig, Melissa McCarthy and Leslie Jones) and helps showcase the work of diverse creators while balancing the complexities of family life and career with remarkable grace and determination.

    Join us as we delve into issues impacting women today, from societal expectations to the untapped potential of stories about older women, all through the lens of Laura’s inspiring career. Laura’s journey underscores the power of authentic storytelling and the importance of defining your own priorities amid the many roles we, as women, navigate. Here’s what’s on the table:

    1. Embracing failure as a normal part of creative and professional growth.
    2. Practical tips for managing the ever-elusive work-life balance as a mother and professional.
    3. Why prioritizing YOU—and the pursuits that ignite your passion—helps you best show up for the people you love and support.
    4. Post-divorce insights: successful co-parenting and the liberating freedom of prioritizing yourself and your work.
    5. Breaking free from the constraints of corporate life to unlock personal and creative freedom.
    6. The ongoing fight for representation of women over 40 in media and why more female voices in decision-making roles matter.
    7. A reminder that at every stage of life, you have the power to choose your own path.

    OUR GUEST: Laura is Co-President of Feigco Entertainment, where she and Paul Feig oversee the company’s film and TV projects, currently including A Simple Favor 2 for Amazon. She also serves as CEO of Powderkeg, a content company dedicated to uplifting female, LGBTQ+, and BIPOC creators. Through Powderkeg, she has launched programs like Fuse, a short film initiative for emerging female directors, and Break the Room, focused on diverse writing talent. Previously, Laura led original series production at Yahoo! and worked on Emmy-winning projects at Disney-ABC. She is a member of the Producers Guild and the Television Academy.



    Want more Laura? Find more of her work at https://x.com/Feigco and https://powderkegmedia.com/ and follow her on:

    1. LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lcallen11/
    2. IMDb: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm10895092/


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    Mentioned in this episode:

    Broad Collective

    Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com.

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    1 hr 4 min
  • Straight Talk About Libido Over 40 with Dr. Maureen Slattery

    Ever wondered why some women experience low libido and what can be done about it? Or what orgasms look and feel like for different women? These questions often go unanswered, but Dr. Maureen Slattery—a board-certified OBGYN specializing in sex and menopause—is here to change that. A leading advocate for women’s sexual health, Dr. Slattery joins us in this episode to share her mission of empowering women through education and enhancing sexual well-being during perimenopause and menopause.

    Join Erin and Dr. Maureen as they dive deep into the complexities of women’s sexual health, exploring how reclaiming pleasure and purpose can be a transformative experience in midlife. We discuss:

    1. Why comprehensive sexual health education is often overlooked in the medical field, and the consequences for women’s health.
    2. How puritanical and patriarchal attitudes have shaped women’s sexual education and self-understanding.
    3. The effects of hormonal changes on sexual pleasure, desire, and overall well-being.
    4. Understanding low libido and Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder (HSDD).
    5. Tips for having open, productive conversations about sex and pleasure, especially in long-term relationships.
    6. The importance of raising sex-positive children and navigating talks about consent, relationships, and body positivity.


    OUR GUEST: Dr. Maureen Slattery is a board-certified OBGYN with 20 years of experience, specializing in sexual health and menopausal care. An AASECT-certified sex counselor, she has contributed to AARP and Rochester Regional Health on topics like sexual health and hormone therapy. Maureen teaches medical students and professionals about menopause and sexual health in Rochester, NY, and at the University of Michigan. Her passion lies in helping patients rediscover pleasure and educating healthcare providers about sexuality. She is a sex-positive, kink-aware, and LGBTQIA+ ally.


    Want more Dr. Slattery? Follow her on:

    1. Instagram: @drmaureenslattery
    2. LinkedIn: @maureen-slattery-md-csc-abs


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    Mentioned in this episode:

    Broad Collective

    Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com.

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    57 min
  • How Do you Measure your Value?

    "I think our value and our values get all kinds of conflated and mixed up."

    We often hear about self-love and its pivotal role in creating a joyful life. But defining self-love is subjective and multifaceted. It involves caring, self-respect, boundaries, and counteracting our harsh inner critic. Today, Erin delves beyond self-love to examine the societal and personal metrics we use to gauge our worth.

    Join Erin as she questions the conflation of material wealth, career success, physical appearance, and external approval with our intrinsic value. She asks us to reconsider what true value means in our lives and how our values may have been skewed by societal norms.

    In this episode, Erin discusses:

    1. The societal emphasis on material wealth and the pros and cons of caring a lot about financial success
    2. Whether career achievements and professional accolades truly correlate with self-worth
    3. The complicated relationship women have with physical appearance and desirability as we age
    4. The roles of daughter, sister, wife, friend, and mother, and how we assess our value within these relationships
    5. The deep-rooted cultural messages that impact our self-worth
    6. The internal qualities and strengths that may hold true value, such as creativity, resourcefulness, kindness, and impact on others

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    Mentioned in this episode:

    Broad Collective

    Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com.

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    29 min
  • How Astrology Just Might Help You Succeed with AstroTwin Ophira Edut

    “Astrology is a tool, not a rule. And when you use it as a tool, it can expand your power, your consciousness, your awareness.”

    Long-time listeners of Hotter Than Ever know Erin tends to be a skeptic when it comes to anything ‘woo’ (remember the episode “Woo Adjacent”?). So, it might come as a surprise that today’s episode dives deep into astrology. But after hearing from astrologer Ophira Edut, even the most doubtful minds might find themselves intrigued, if not completely converted. Ophira, along with her sister Tali, form the AstroTwins, the long-standing resident astrologers for Elle magazine, authors of over 20 books, and frequent faces on TV. Together, they’ve created a practical, digestible approach to astrology that goes beyond the stars and into your everyday life.

    Join Erin and Ophira to learn more about how astrology isn’t just about horoscopes, but a powerful framework to help navigate life’s mysteries, challenges, and opportunities in the second half of life. We discuss:


    1. Ophira’s unplanned journey into astrology, sparked by her first birth chart reading
    2. Bringing the ‘woo’ of astrology into a logical, business-driven world
    3. The difference between horoscopes and astrology
    4. Unpacking the historical skepticism and gender discrimination that astrology has faced
    5. How astrology can be a practical tool for women in midlife to make decisions, plan ahead, and design a life aligned with their values
    6. Understanding astrology’s personal archetypes to help identify strengths and areas for growth


    Take the I*AM Quiz, find out if you’re an Innovator, Authority or Maven: https://astrostyle.com/astrology-advantage/iam-archetype-quiz/


    OUR GUEST: Ophira and Tali Edut, known as The AstroTwins, are top astrologers and intuitive advisors, serving clients like Beyoncé, Dua Lipa, and Emma Roberts. As resident astrologers for ELLE Magazine and authors of over 20 books, they’ve guided CEOs, celebrities, and entrepreneurs worldwide. They've appeared on Bravo, MTV, Good Morning America, and the Today Show, and created the astrology-based dating show Cosmic Love (Amazon Prime Video, 2022). Their new book, The Astrology Advantage (Simon & Schuster, 2024), introduces their IAM System, which simplifies astrology into three archetypes. The AstroTwins have taught thousands through their platform and retreats.



    Want more Ophira? Find her online at astrostyle.com and buy her book THE ASTROLOGY ADVANTAGE: Use Your Horoscope for Personal and Professional Success


    Follow her on:

    1. Instagram: @astrotwins
    2. TikTok: @astrotwins_
    3. Facebook: @AstroTwins


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    Mentioned in this episode:

    Broad Collective

    Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com.

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    54 min
  • Exploring Non-Monogamy and Getting Kinky with CJ

    “How much fun can we have and what is that going to do for us as we age?”

    In this milestone 100th episode of Hotter Than Ever, we’re celebrating not only the podcast's journey but also the incredible community it has built around redefining midlife for women. To mark this special occasion, we’re thrilled to present an extraordinary conversation with CJ. CJ isn’t just a kink and non-monogamy coach; she’s an inspiring guide helping Gen X women embrace erotic evolution and neuro-expansion as they age. With certifications as a sex coach, life coach, and cuddle facilitator (!), CJ’s transformation from living a conventional life to embracing a kinky, non-monogamous lifestyle that meets her sexual and emotional needs is a great example of what is possible when we learn and pursue what we want.

    Get ready for an eye-opening and liberating discussion on sexual expression, breaking free from conventional relationship molds, and reclaiming your desires in the second half of life. Tune in as we explore:


    1. CJ's evolution from a serial monogamist to a liberated non-monogamous lifestyle.
    2. The vital role of sex and intimacy in personal well-being and relationship health.
    3. How divorce can offer the freedom to reclaim time, identity, and pleasure.
    4. Navigating kink, BDSM, fetish, and jealousy in relationships.
    5. The power of setting and respecting boundaries in both polyamorous and monogamous relationships.
    6. Rediscovering pleasure in your body and creating experiences that make you feel sexy and desired in midlife.
    7. Why midlife is the perfect time to explore new aspects of your sexuality, whether it's trying kink, exploring bisexuality, or finding new ways to experience pleasure.


    OUR GUEST: CJ is a kink and non-monogamy coach and mentor who is all about liberating sexual expression and cultivating new pleasure palates. She gets off on debunking the myths around female aging, desire and desirability as well as talking about the taboo. She loves welcoming Gen X women into alternative pleasures and lifestyles so that they can experience erotic evolution and neuro-expansion as they age. She is a Certified Sex Coach, Life Coach and Cuddle Facilitator and has lived a transformational kinky, non-monogamous life for the past 8 years.


    Want more CJ? Find her online at https://www.noshamewithcj.com/ and listen to her podcast ‘No Shame with CJ’


    Follow her on:

    1. Instagram: @noshamewithcj
    2. Facebook: No Shame with CJ
    3. YouTube: No Shame With CJ
    4. LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carmen-joseph-161a7a3a/


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    Mentioned in this episode:

    Broad Collective

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    1 hr 8 min
  • What The Golden Girls Teaches Us About Aging Well with Dr. Maria Carpiac

    It’s no secret that our culture often presents aging in a negative light, particularly for women, leaving many of us uncertain or even fearful about life beyond 40, 50 or (god forbid), 60. But one iconic sitcom has challenged these stereotypes with humor, heart, and authenticity: The Golden Girls. For Maria Carpiac, a professor of Gerontology at California State University, Long Beach, and an advocate for healthy aging, The Golden Girls offers a shining example of how we can view aging with optimism and a sense of humor.

    In this episode, Erin and Maria explore the complexities of aging, highlighting the importance of community, jou, and adaptability in leading a fulfilling life, with insights from The Golden Girls. From Blue Zones to finding purpose as we age, this conversation reveals how we can all live longer, healthier, and more meaningful lives—no matter what stage we're in. Tune in as we explore:

    1. How to embrace aging instead of fearing it—it’s a journey we all share!
    2. Why "anti-aging" is a myth, and why the focus should be on aging well.
    3. The key elements of healthy aging: community, stress management, nutrition, and movement.
    4. Creative housing solutions like communal living and co-housing to foster supportive, connected communities as we age.
    5. How the media shapes our perceptions of aging and why The Golden Girls still resonates, even in today’s TV landscape.
    6. Exploring the Japanese concept of "ikigai" (reason for being) and its role in aging well.
    7. Why retirement isn’t just about money—it’s about staying engaged and connected.
    8. The dangers of conflating normal aging with disease, and how healthcare biases affect aging women.


    OUR GUEST: Dr. Maria Carpiac is a Professor of Gerontology and Director of the Gerontology Program at California State University, Long Beach. She holds a BA, MSW, and PhD in Social Work from UCLA, specializing in Older Adults. A Fellow of the Academy of Gerontology in Higher Education (AGHE), Dr. Carpiac teaches courses such as Social Policy & Aging and Women and Aging. Her research focuses on holistic health programs for assisted living and Age Friendly Universities (AFU). Under her leadership, CSULB joined the AFU Global Network, and the Gerontology Program received Program of Merit distinction in 2020.


    Want more Dr. Carpiac? Learn more about her Gerontology program at www.csulb.edu/gerontology


    Watch some of her interviews below:

    1. Optimal Aging & Gerontology, Beach TV
    2. Women and Aging: Lessons from the Golden Girls, KSRO
    3. CSULB Class Uses the Golden Girls in Every Lesson, Spectrum 1 News


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    Mentioned in this episode:

    Broad Collective

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    1 hr 1 min
  • Getting Practical About Money

    As “Hotter Than Ever” nears its 100th episode, we’re reflecting on the impact this podcast has had since launching a year and a half ago, and the steps needed to elevate its vision to new heights.

    Join Erin as she candidly shares the realities of transitioning from a financially stable corporate life to the entrepreneurial hustle. This episode is about peeling back the layers of how Erin is supporting the show, the internal struggles she faces as an entrepreneur, and the financial realities that come with following your passion. We dive into:

    1. The challenges of self-funding as an entrepreneur, while navigating financial uncertainties and the practicalities of being a single Mom.
    2. Confronting and counteracting that harsh inner critic that tells us we’re not enough.
    3. How to confidently present your expertise and tangible skills to pave the next steps in your journey.
    4. Honoring slow growth and the organic process of building something meaningful amidst a fast-paced, instant results culture.
    5. Practical steps to generate additional income while growing your passion project into a business.


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    Broad Collective

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    29 min
  • Finding Success in Business and Love in Your 40s with Osea's Melissa Palmer

    If you’re searching for proof that our most successful chapters can unfold in midlife, look no further than Melissa Palmer, co-founder and CEO of the skincare brand Osea. While Melissa and her mother launched Osea 28 years ago, it wasn’t until year 20 that their business truly skyrocketed. And as her career soared, Melissa also found the most significant relationship of her life, showing us that midlife can truly be a time of profound rewards and joy.

    In this episode, we dive into Melissa’s unique entrepreneurial path and the empowerment that comes with embracing change. It’s a reminder that age doesn’t put a limit on reinvention, personal growth, or love. Tune in as we discuss:

    1. The dynamics of building a business alongside your mother and how trusting each other’s strengths creates balance.
    2. Why success is as much about persistence, patience, and luck as it is hard work.
    3. The invaluable perspective women over 40 bring to professional spaces.
    4. Trusting your intuition and standing firm in your choices—even when others disagree.
    5. Redefining “anti-aging” as focusing on feeling strong, agile, and confident as you grow older.
    6. Why midlife dating and relationships can be especially fulfilling, free from the pressures of earlier stages of life.
    7. Embracing change, reinvention, and staying open to new opportunities, even in established careers and lives.


    OUR GUEST: Melissa Palmer is the Co-Founder and Chief Executive Officer at OSEA. Melissa was previously CEO of Hoopnotica, the industry leader in hula-hoop fitness. Since 2016 she’s been the CEO of OSEA and continues to lead the company today. Melissa was recently named EY Entrepreneur of the Year 2024 Greater Los Angeles. If you can’t reach Melissa she’s most likely swimming in the ocean.


    Want more Melissa & Osea? Check out Osea online at https://oseamalibu.com and use code “Hotter Than Ever” on oceamalibu.com to get 10% off of their amazing products.


    Follow her on and Osea on:

    1. Instagram:
    2. @happypalmer
    3. @oseamalibu
    4. Facebook: @oseamalibu
    5. LinkedIn: @melissa-clair-palmer
    6. Twitter/X:
    7. @happypalmer
    8. @oseainc


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    Mentioned in this episode:

    Broad Collective

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    54 min
  • Men, Divorce, Anger and Designing Our Ideal Lives with Producer Erica

    “I’m in a phase of my life where I want to f*cking shine. I do not want to shrink.”

    Sometimes we just need to admit we’re mad. While society may not always make space for women's anger, when we reflect on the challenges we face today, it can be hard not to feel it. Why do women still carry the heaviest load of care in relationships? Why are we still criticized for our ambition and judged for maintaining our independence?

    In today’s conversation, producer Erica joins us as we dive into these questions and more. We’re not holding back, and we’re definitely in our feels. Here’s what we’re unpacking:


    1. Why women often bear the emotional labor in relationships, managing not just their own feelings but also the well-being and self-esteem of their partners.
    2. How patriarchy’s grip leaves women shouldering more at home, even in seemingly progressive partnerships.
    3. How the very traits that make women successful— independence, competence, and resilience— can be weaponized against us.
    4. Freeing ourselves to express anger to mitigate the build up of stress and resentment.
    5. Re-examining our relationships with men—not just as wives and mothers, but as individuals who deserve care and support too.
    6. Exploring financial freedom, communal living, and the pursuit of independence.
    7. The challenge of finding emotionally intelligent partners who respect boundaries.


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    Broad Collective

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    1 hr 1 min

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