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How Are We 40?
By Taylor Harris & Whitney Casser-Harris | Women’s Lifestyle & Relationships PodcastSociety & CultureRelationshipsPersonal Journals
How Are We 40? episodes
- Shove A Banana Up Your Ass 🍌
Fall is officially here, and so are the fails. This week, Taylor has surrendered her entire personality to the Starbucks fall menu and is one minor inconvenience away from chopping off all her hair. Meanwhile, Whitney’s car is being held together with duct tape and a prayer. Is this a midlife crisis or just autumn? Hard to say. Either way, we’re doing amazing, sweetie.
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42 min - A Halloween Scrooge! 👻
It’s spooky season, and Tay and Whit are digging deep into haunting topics like Whitney's manic Halloween mom overwhelm, the book that made the prospect of tradwife life even more scary (YESTERYEAR), and Taylor's hot take on Nathan Fielder's new must-see movie that goes behind the scenes with the incomparably delulu Elizabeth Holmes: YOU CAN SEE EVERYTHING. Grab your PSL and have a listen!
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1 hr 10 min - Molly, You In Danger Girl
We’re BACK, baby! After a three-month hiatus, Tay + Whit return for Season 2 with a backlog of gossip, grievances and deeply unnecessary opinions. Tay dishes on her wedding extravaganza (and White Lotus-worthy Sicilian honeymoon), Whit recaps her trip to Mohonk, and the ladies tackle the pressing issues of our time—namely, the Kelly Clarkson bird controversy. Plus, Tay and Whit reveal their celebrity hall pass lists, because marriage is forever, but a girl can dream. Buckle up, Season 2 is officially underway!
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1 hr 13 min - Brb
Season 1 is somehow over, so we're ending the only way we know how—self-indulgently! We did an Ask Us Anything answering all your burning questions. We cover everything from Taylor and Travis' wedding to our last Google searches, the Met Gala, a run-in with Emily Ratajowski, and a bunch of other topics that somehow ended up making sense at the time. It's unfiltered, mildly unhinged, and exactly the kind of grab bag we'd want to leave you with before we disappear for a couple months for our summer hiatus.
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1 hr 19 min - I Was Discovered By A Shaman In A BasementStand-up comedian, mom of two, and self-proclaimed horse addict Jessie Murphy joins us to contemplate the kryptonite of older women giving unsolicited feedback, what made her want to push her husband off a wall, and the recent phenomenon of women taking pigeons as pets. We cover it all, from Jessie's childhood living in a Manhattan 2-bedroom apartment with 10 inhabitants to selling a haunted house to her dear friend. Oh, and the unbridled joy of waterslides!
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48 min - No Taxation Without Representation BITCH!
In honor of July 4th, we're bringing you a revolutionary episode: a summit of UK–USA relations. We invited our resident Brit (and Taylor's fiancé), Martin, to dive into the biggest cultural differences between our two countries. Whether you're Team USA, Team UK, or just here for Martin's accent, prepare for some deeply unqualified geopolitical diplomacy. 🇺🇸💥🌭
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54 min - He's Larry The Cable Guy
This week, we tackle two stories that had us texting each other in all caps. First, we break down Maternal Instinct—Netflix’s latest jaw-dropping true-crime doc which somehow manages to get more unhinged every ten minutes. Then, we finally finished Strangers—and we have thoughts. We unpack the questions it raises about work, marriage, money, motherhood, identity, and the impossible calculus of modern womanhood.
Basically: one story made us gasp. The other made us spiral. We've done the emotional labor of processing both so you don't have to.
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55 min - Hey Tay, Hey Whit, Hey Ry!
A very special VIP guest joins us this week to toast Whit’s favorite day of the year — Father’s Day. Ryan (Whit’s husband and Tay’s brother) joins us for a peek into Dad life with a rapid-fire round, stories from the front lines, and a lively discussion about whether parenting has actually gotten harder—or if millennials are simply opting in.
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1 hr 1 min - I'm Basically Paige DeSorbo
This week, we realize we're all just one confession away from being the weird one in the group.
Taylor's engagement party guests learn about her deeply unsettling cereal habits, Whitney recounts her date night that goes spectacularly wrong, and the new season of Couple's Therapy delivers a revelation neither of us was prepared for: people pay other people to cuddle them. Let’s unpack it.
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49 min - No Shame In My Foot Game
This week, we're covering a lot of ground.
We debrief Taylor's engagement party (including the moments that made her cry), unpack the Summer House reunion, and take a forensic-level look at the body language from Taylor and Martin's earliest dates. Plus: a spirited discussion about hand-holding, why the book Strangers has us in a heated debate about what we'd do if our husbands cheated.
It's relationships, reality TV, human behavior, and a Madewell handbag review.
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About How Are We 40?
From the publisher's feed
Welcome to How Are We 40?, a podcast for women in their late 30s and 40s navigating adulthood, relationships, and the unhinged reality of modern womanhood. Each week, sisters-in-law…
Taylor and Whitney—one deep in mom life and mental load, the other spiraling about dating and singledom—unpack the brutal and hilarious realities of being millennial woman in the 2020s.
Expect unfiltered conversations about marriage, dating, friendship, careers, motherhood, body changes, aging, and identity crises. From perimenopause Google searches to relationship fights, work burnout, and making friends as an adult, nothing is off limits.
If you love podcasts for women about relationships, life transitions, mental health, and figuring out who you are after 35, you’re in the right place. Expect oversharing, questionable advice, and the comforting reminder that nobody has “having it all” figured out — everyone is just making it up as they go.
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