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How Are We 40?
By Taylor Harris & Whitney Casser-Harris | Women’s Lifestyle & Relationships PodcastSociety & CultureRelationshipsPersonal Journals
How Are We 40? episodes
- Summer Bucket List Pt. 2 🍉⛱️🌊
Because every summer starts with a vision board and ends with a sunburn—Taylor and Whit are back with Part 2 of their Summer Bucket Lists!
Taylor recaps a whirlwind 48 hours in Paris, where she attempted to channel effortless French-girl energy and discovered that simply being in France does not, in fact, make you French. Meanwhile, Whit has her sights set on a major adult milestone: purchasing her first real handbag. The women also compare summer reading lists, reveal the books they're determined to finish before Labor Day.
It’s about travel, shopping, and the delusion optimism of a seasonal bucket list.
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34 min - Summer Bucket List Pt. 1 👙🌞🍦
This week, Tay + Whit unveil their extremely ambitious summer bucket lists — which somehow include foil boarding, camping, learning TikTok, and Tay possibly dissolving her face ahead of her wedding.
It’s summer optimism season, baby. Delusion is back.
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1 hr 5 min - The Valley Finale!!!!!!!!
You guys. We made it!!!
This week, recap the absolutely deranged Season 1 finale of The Valley — and honestly? Emmy consideration for whoever edited this fever dream together. Jax opens his sports bar, outtfitted like a Rainforest Cafe, Zach finally snaps and Jesse suggests Michelle save their marriage through daily affirmations like she’s being held hostage in a self-help cult.
Also discussed: how it is possible that Us Weekly still exists, Jared’s cane and why this show was secretly one of Bravo’s version of “Marriage Story.”
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1 hr 10 min - The Valley S1 E11: Bless This Mess
This week on How Are We Forty?, we recap Episode 11 of The Valley — aka “Darkside Danny,” which is rich considering Jax and Jesse are out here behaving like actual sleep paralysis demons while Danny’s greatest crime is…having feelings? The gang is somehow STILL in Big Bear (this trip has lasted longer than some wars), Janet throws the most aggressively Pinterest-2012 baby shower imaginable, Jesse continues his one-man psychological warfare campaign against Danny, and Brittany finally says the word “divorce” out loud. In short: everyone is unwell, and we’re having the time of our lives watching their worlds crumble around them.
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1 hr 14 min - Cartoonist Julia Wertz on Her Latest: BURY ME ALREADY (IT'S NICE DOWN HERE)This week, Whit + Julia compare notes about pandemic pregnancies, parenting chaotic kindergarteners, and a shared comic crush on the one and only Nathan Fiedler. They get into intrusive thoughts, the hypocrisy of the “hot mom," and why humor might be the only sane response to it all.
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54 min - The Valley S1 E10: Jail for Jax
Your resident Bravo expert (Tay’s Dad) is back for another recap of the greatest show on television—and this episode is a gift. The Big Bear babymoon has officially gone rogue with unresolved tension bubbling over. From Jax’s full-blown rage spiral to Jesse’s porch therapy session, it’s emotional chaos at altitude.
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1 hr 4 min - TAY'S ENGAGED!!! 💍🥂✨
Breaking news: Tay is engaged!!! This week, we get the full story—one that involved method-acting, a blackout-level shock response and undercover operatives.
Also discussed: how engagement bliss lasts exactly three days before you become a human spreadsheet, why wedding dresses take 4–6 months to make (???), and panic-googling wedding timelines.
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52 min - The Valley S1 E9: Tay’s Dad Is Here!
This week, Tay is joined by a very special guest—her dad—who comes in with the hot takes (and honestly? some extremely valid opinions). Together, they break down the cast’s trip to Big Bear, Janet’s covert mean girl antics, Jesse’s ayahuasca-induced ego trip (spoiler: his takeaway is… he’s perfect?), and Michelle being confronted about cheating rumors.
It’s messy, chaotic—and apparently now multigenerational?
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1 hr 1 min - Unqualified Advice: Boundaries, Boyfriends & Being Mistaken for 24We’re back with another round of Unqualified Advice from your favorite life coaches —aka two women with strong opinions and zero credentials. A packed advice episode featuring: unwanted fitness friendships, soft-launch drama and lying about your age. This is not professional advice, but it is correct.
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50 min - How Are We 1?! 🎂🎈
It’s HAW40’s b-day!!! This week, we reflect on how this podcast started (as a coping mechanism, obviously), what we’ve learned after 12 months of oversharing, and why we’re still doing this. Plus, Whit recaps her Universal Studios trip and a dental meltdown that truly tests her will to live. Equal parts heartfelt and unhinged—just how we like it.
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About How Are We 40?
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Welcome to How Are We 40?, a podcast for women in their late 30s and 40s navigating adulthood, relationships, and the unhinged reality of modern womanhood. Each week, sisters-in-law…
Taylor and Whitney—one deep in mom life and mental load, the other spiraling about dating and singledom—unpack the brutal and hilarious realities of being millennial woman in the 2020s.
Expect unfiltered conversations about marriage, dating, friendship, careers, motherhood, body changes, aging, and identity crises. From perimenopause Google searches to relationship fights, work burnout, and making friends as an adult, nothing is off limits.
If you love podcasts for women about relationships, life transitions, mental health, and figuring out who you are after 35, you’re in the right place. Expect oversharing, questionable advice, and the comforting reminder that nobody has “having it all” figured out — everyone is just making it up as they go.
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