How Are We 40?

By Taylor Harris & Whitney Casser Harris

Welcome to How Are We 40?, the podcast where two sisters-in-law unpack the unhinged reality of being a millennial woman in the 2020s. Each week, Taylor and Whitney

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How Are We 40? episodes:

June 16, 2025 Holding On For Dear Life
This week, we’re taking it back to the glory days of retail name tags, wildly unqualified babysitting gigs, and yacht club serving shifts. Our first jobs were chaotic, humbling, and weirdly formative. We’re talking about the lessons they taught us (confidence, people skills, how to disassociate while folding sweaters) and the batshit level of unpreparedness we only realize in retrospect.
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June 09, 2025 Do You Have Some Kind of Brownie Explosion?
This week, Tay and Whit are gearing up for Father’s Day—reflecting on what their dads taught them, while unpacking bigger questions about modern masculinity, the so-called “male loneliness epidemic,” and how we raise boys to be emotionally fluent in a world that told their dads to tough it out. It’s thoughtful, heartfelt... and includes a hot take on what Tay terms “the midlife crisis bracelet.”
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53min
June 01, 2025 Did You Break Up Over AIM?
This week on the pod, Tay + Whit are taking it all the way back to middle school unpacking the trauma—the strange machinations of makeout parties, the quiet agony of not fitting in, and the eerie realization that our preteen years were basically a shot-for-shot remake of Pen15. From AIM away messages to cafeteria politics, this episode is a love letter to our most cringey, formative years.

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May 25, 2025 I'm Horny for a Corn Salad
This week, Tay + Whit share their summer bucket lists—because who needs goals when you’ve got delusion and SPF 50? Whit's manifesting boat invites and a family bike ride that doesn’t end in emotional terrorism. Taylor’s heading to Mallorca to eat her weight in tapas, fake fluent Spanish, and act like she’s in an Eat Pray Love reboot. 🌊🦐☀️

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May 19, 2025 "So You're Thicker, How's That For You?"
This week on the pod: aging bods, fresh insecurities, and the unhinged journey of figuring it all out. From sagging to shifting to panic-ordering collagen powder at 2am, we’re unpacking what it actually feels like to live in a body that’s changing faster than we can say ‘perimenopause.’ It’s messy, it’s real, and honestly? Weirdly therapeutic.

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43min
May 12, 2025 MOVIE REVIEW 🎥: “This is 40” with Paul Rudd and Leslie Mann
Tay + Whit recap the Judd Apatow fever dream and spoiler alert: Leslie Mann deserved better. Plus, horny goat weed, the biggest fight in Whit’s marriage, and Tay dishes out financial advice that no one asked for.

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46min
May 05, 2025 Does Everything Have to Be A Montessori Learning Lab?
This week, Tay + Whit get into the chaos and contradictions of modern motherhood—brutally honest kids, fantasy spa escapes, and why every part of parenting feels like it’s up for debate. A Mother’s Day convo for moms, almost-moms, and emotionally exhausted women everywhere.

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45min
April 28, 2025 It's Giving Strega Nona...
Small talk is a sport—and we did not train for it. In this episode, we unpack the weirdness of making friends in adulthood, surviving the dreaded stop-and-chat, new-friend green flags and the unbridled joy of looking like a troll 90% of the time.

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45min
April 21, 2025 That Don't Impress A-Me A-Much
Tay + Whit talk icks: walking out on dates, soul patches, awkward pauses, and a memorable Mystery man...
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44min
April 14, 2025 Hey Tay. Hey Whit.
Episode one = chaotic good. Meet your hosts—sisters-in-law figuring out 40 in wildly different ways. From mom life to single-girl spirals and every “WHAT IS HAPPENING?” moment in between. We’re diving in.

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54min

FAQs about How Are We 40?:

How many episodes does How Are We 40? have?

The podcast currently has 10 episodes available.