How Are We 40?

How Are We 40?

By Taylor Harris & Whitney Casser-Harris | Women’s Lifestyle & Relationships PodcastSociety & CultureRelationshipsPersonal Journals
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How Are We 40? episodes

  • He’s Got A Ringlet Situation
    Whit’s finally recovering from six straight weeks of living at Party City (three kids, three August birthdays = Groundhog Day with icing). Now we're leaning into fall with pumpkin spice, fleece, and all things cozy and basic. We swap stories on our own childhood birthdays (Q-ZAR supremacy, anyone?) and plot Tay’s Real Housewives–themed 40th—complete with casting ourselves as Housewives.

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    46 min
  • We're Shopping at Talbots
    From Gaga at MSG to the closet chaos of turning 40, this episode covers it all. Whit relives her night out as a little monster, then she and Tay dive into fashion, identity, and the bizarre challenge of dressing for an age that feels… undefined. Is fashion at 40 liberating, maddening, or both? They’re figuring it out in real time.

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    55 min
  • LOVE MY LIFE, LIVE MY LIFE

    This week Tay + Whit dive Into the wild world of wellness—where “the power of positive thinking” is apparently a cure-all and crystals are sold as medical devices. Tay reports back from bathhouse-of-the-moment Othership, Whit lays down the law on soundbath behavior, and together they discuss how a lot of what’s termed “self-care” may be a scam. 


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    48 min
  • Yar, She Blows!
    We’re back after a week off with the usual summer chaos: Whit broke her toe, Tay has a major life update, and we’re terrorizing the episode with our new soundboard. 

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    44 min
  • A Football-Sized Rat

    This week, Tay + Whit talk all things interiors— the decor trends they secretly hate, the chaotic art they grew up with and the furniture their kids have destroyed. Because part of adulthood is creating your dream home—only to have a toddler smear yogurt on the curtains. 


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    1 hr 5 min
  • I'm Charlize Theron In "Monster"

    This week, Taylor recaps her dreamy (and deeply unphotogenic) trip to Ibiza. From binging The Ultimatum: Queer Loveto falling head over heels for the Mediterranean, it’s part travel diary, part pop culture debrief. 🇪🇸🌊🐚


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    31 min
  • I’m Poking Ryan’s Eye Out The Entire Time

    This week, Whit recaps her Grecian getaway—Tay and Whit talk SPF armor, bruschetta stains, and White Lotus–level storylines. There’s conga lines, chaos, and Grand Prix–style driving. Pack your feta and tune in. 🇬🇷


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    59 min
  • Do Ya Like It? Or Do Ya Not?

    If only we knew then what we know now. This week, Tay and Whit unpack the relationship truths they wish someone had told them in their twenties—the kind that would've saved a whole lot of time and so many dramatic notes app drafts. They’re reflecting on heartbreaks, hindsight, and the truths that feel obvious… once you’re no longer crying to Adele in your car.


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    45 min
  • Garden's Threshold

    Fails, flops, and faceplants—this week, Tay and Whit unpack their most iconic #fails, from Whitney’s valiant (but tragic) attempts at becoming a beatnik poet to Taylor’s flirtation efforts that end in a stairwell disaster. It’s a celebration of trying... and very much not succeeding.


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    45 min
  • Boners, Ya Know?

    This week, Tay and Whit tackle your advice write-ins—covering pyramid scheme pitches, boundaryless coworkers, and whether it’s ever okay to snoop in your boyfriend’s DMs. Zero qualifications. Full confidence.


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    48 min

About How Are We 40?

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Welcome to How Are We 40?, a podcast for women in their late 30s and 40s navigating adulthood, relationships, and the unhinged reality of modern womanhood. Each week, sisters-in-law…