How Are We 40?

How Are We 40?

By Taylor Harris & Whitney Casser-Harris | Women’s Lifestyle & Relationships PodcastSociety & CultureRelationshipsPersonal Journals
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How Are We 40? episodes

  • Holding On For Dear Life
    This week, we’re taking it back to the glory days of retail name tags, wildly unqualified babysitting gigs, and yacht club serving shifts. Our first jobs were chaotic, humbling, and weirdly formative. We’re talking about the lessons they taught us (confidence, people skills, how to disassociate while folding sweaters) and the batshit level of unpreparedness we only realize in retrospect.

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    33 min
  • Do You Have Some Kind of Brownie Explosion?
    This week, Tay and Whit are gearing up for Father’s Day—reflecting on what their dads taught them, while unpacking bigger questions about modern masculinity, the so-called “male loneliness epidemic,” and how we raise boys to be emotionally fluent in a world that told their dads to tough it out. It’s thoughtful, heartfelt... and includes a hot take on what Tay terms “the midlife crisis bracelet.” 

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    53 min
  • Did You Break Up Over AIM?

    This week on the pod, Tay + Whit are taking it all the way back to middle school unpacking the trauma—the strange machinations of makeout parties, the quiet agony of not fitting in, and the eerie realization that our preteen years were basically a shot-for-shot remake of Pen15. From AIM away messages to cafeteria politics, this episode is a love letter to our most cringey, formative years.


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    41 min
  • I'm Horny for a Corn Salad

    This week, Tay + Whit share their summer bucket lists—because who needs goals when you’ve got delusion and SPF 50? Whit's manifesting boat invites and a family bike ride that doesn’t end in emotional terrorism. Taylor’s heading to Mallorca to eat her weight in tapas, fake fluent Spanish, and act like she’s in an Eat Pray Love reboot. 🌊🦐☀️


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    41 min
  • "So You're Thicker, How's That For You?"

    This week on the pod: aging bods, fresh insecurities, and the unhinged journey of figuring it all out. From sagging to shifting to panic-ordering collagen powder at 2am, we’re unpacking what it actually feels like to live in a body that’s changing faster than we can say ‘perimenopause.’ It’s messy, it’s real, and honestly? Weirdly therapeutic.


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    43 min
  • MOVIE REVIEW 🎥: “This is 40” with Paul Rudd and Leslie Mann

    Tay + Whit recap the Judd Apatow fever dream and spoiler alert: Leslie Mann deserved better. Plus, horny goat weed, the biggest fight in Whit’s marriage, and Tay dishes out financial advice that no one asked for.


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    46 min
  • Does Everything Have to Be A Montessori Learning Lab?

    This week, Tay + Whit get into the chaos and contradictions of modern motherhood—brutally honest kids, fantasy spa escapes, and why every part of parenting feels like it’s up for debate. A Mother’s Day convo for moms, almost-moms, and emotionally exhausted women everywhere.


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    45 min
  • It's Giving Strega Nona...

    Small talk is a sport—and we did not train for it. In this episode, we unpack the weirdness of making friends in adulthood, surviving the dreaded stop-and-chat, new-friend green flags and the unbridled joy of looking like a troll 90% of the time. 


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    45 min
  • Hey Tay. Hey Whit.

    Episode one = chaotic good. Meet your hosts—sisters-in-law figuring out 40 in wildly different ways. From mom life to single-girl spirals and every “WHAT IS HAPPENING?” moment in between. We’re diving in.


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    54 min

About How Are We 40?

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Welcome to How Are We 40?, a podcast for women in their late 30s and 40s navigating adulthood, relationships, and the unhinged reality of modern womanhood. Each week, sisters-in-law…