How Much Life Insurance Do I Need? Why That’s the Wrong Question

If you’ve ever asked, “How much life insurance do I need?”—you’re not alone. It’s a common starting point. But in this article, Bruce and I (Rachel) want to challenge that question and offer something better. Because "need" is often based on a survival mentality—what’s the bare minimum? But the real question isn’t about scraping by. It’s about what you want your life insurance to do—for you, for your spouse, for your children, and for future generations.

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In this article, you'll learn:

Why a needs-based approach might be leaving your family unprotected

How to calculate a more empowering life insurance amount

What insurance companies actually look for (and why you can't be "overinsured")

The role of Infinite Banking in maximizing death benefit and legacy

How to think long-term, strategically, and legacy-minded when it comes to life insurance

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Why My Husband’s First Thought Was Our Life Insurance

Six years ago, I was in the ICU. My husband, Lucas, held our newborn baby girl as the doctors delivered updates that swung between hope and despair. One moment, it was "we stopped the bleeding," the next, "this is still serious." As he prayed through the fear and the unknown, one practical thought anchored him: We have life insurance. Not just any policy—we had as much life insurance as we could get. And in that moment, he knew he wouldn't have to make rushed decisions or shoulder financial pressure on top of emotional trauma. That policy was our safety net, our peace of mind.

That’s why this conversation matters. It’s not just about numbers on paper. It’s about preparing for the moments you hope never come—and giving your family the ability to respond from a place of strength.

Needs-Based Life Insurance Leaves You Short

Most people approach life insurance with a checklist:

Mortgage? Check.

College for kids? Check.

Debts? Check.

Burial expenses? Check.

And that’s how traditional advisors calculate the "amount you need." They total up obligations and say, “That’s your number.” But this method reduces life insurance to a bill-pay strategy. It doesn’t account for who you are, the value of your work, or the future your family deserves to continue building.

In the Infinite Banking world, we don’t view life insurance as just a financial parachute. We see it as a tool for opportunity, a storehouse of value, and a means to start your family ahead, not just keep them from falling behind.

The Real Question: How Much Life Insurance Do I Want?

"Need" is survival. "Want" is vision.

If your life insurance policy could fund your family’s future, preserve your estate, and launch the next generation into opportunity—how much would you want?

Bruce and I often see families with grossly underfunded policies simply because they didn’t know what was possible. Insurance companies assess what’s called your human life value—a calculation of your income, age, and potential future earnings. Based on that, they allow you to apply for a corresponding death benefit. If you qualify for $4 million in coverage, it's because they believe your life’s economic value warrants it.

You can’t be overinsured. The carriers won’t let you.

So the real question becomes: If they’ll insure me for this amount… why wouldn’t I take it?

Income Replacement + Future Value = What You’re Really Protecting