How to Brothel

Doc loves his wife of 23 years and thoughtfully shares about leaving his religion, his newly open marriage, and why he doesn’t see a need for masturbation.

00:00 Post-nut clarity vs religious shame, sneaking around, and preferring partnered sex to masturbation.

18:22 From monogamy to wife swapping, naked hot tubbing, and dual dick-sucking.

30:16 Why his wife wishes he were more jealous, friendly vs flirty, and sexy safety for swapping.

40:51 Lingerie, public play, and special boundaries around anal.

53:48 Societal norms around sharing and living a double life.

1:01:19 Ball play, bruise poking, and BDSM.

1:13:46 Normalizing nudity and how sexual repression hurts more than it helps.

📈 STATS | 42 straight dude, he/him pronouns, married 23 years, grew up in high-control religion, furniture craftsman, metal fabricator, from North Dakota, into: outdoor adventures, dirt bike racing, sex, blowjobs, giving oral, giving anal

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Sky returns to share about the different ways to connect through play, finding pleasure in work, and how Hedonism & Debauchery has grown into so much more than he expected.

00:00 Domination, hosting, and steamy yoga stretching.

04:41 Figuring out genuine connections.

17:01 Masturbatory writing sessions.

22:37 Personal vs public censorship.

32:16 Navigating connection physically and verbally.

39:02 Tips on how to connect!

51:38 Play parties, naked BBQs, and a dream studio.

1:00:53 Ethical educational porn dreams and an adult ranch playground.

📈 STATS | 37 straight cis male Black American, he/him pronouns, ethically non-monogamous, game master, creative coach, yogi, business owner, pleasure Dom into: masturbation, writing, play parties, online sex

🔗 SKY LINKS | linktr.ee/hedonismanddebauchery / respectfulplay.com

Sky Wind's episode from November 2021 | Hedonism, Debauchery & Play

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Hannah shares how she became such a sex-positive lube-savvy lady and why she’s on a mission with her company Personal Fav Co to get clean ingredients and tools for pleasure into everyone’s hands.

00:00 Her shame-smashing story that led to creating clean sex products.

09:36 Prioritizing her pleasure, allowing emotions into sex, and relationship tips for introvert and extrovert partnerships.

16:13 Lube FAQs: tips for initiating, integrating and how to use lube for sensation play.

21:19 What to look for with clean ingredients, water vs oil-based lube, and EU vs US ingredient bans.

25:37 Being present during sex, body dysmorphia, always orgasming, loving missionary and morning sex.

29:46 Early curiosities, lots of crushes, and hopes for pleasure-focused blended sex ed.

35:57 Discovering masturbation, liquid courage for her sexual debut, and dating without drinking.

43:00 Embracing cheesy mantras and learning from heartbreak.

49:06 Lingerie vs sleeping naked, exploring new sexy things, and why every night is a slumber party with her best friend.

54:43 The future: the perfect travel lube, their new pH-match intimacy wipes, and inviting less stress for more sex.

1:03:24 Phone sex and brothel love, adult playground dreams, and saying good-bye to shame.

📈 STATS | Straight cis female, she/her pronouns, monogamous, co-founder of Personal Fav Co, from Boston, Los Angeles-based, into: acts of service, strong communicators, men who are loud, educated feminists, and morning sex.

🔗 HANNAH LINKS | Use the code FAV25 to get a discount and support your pleasure: personalfav.co / @personalfavco

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Zach returns! He shares about swinger vacations, bi takeovers, polyamorous experiences and a newfound appreciation for partnered bisexual swinging.

00:00 Clandestine bisexual encounters, swinger events, and adult sex camp.

06:21 Why open relationships are a better fit for him than poly.

09:23 Tips for playing at sex parties: levels of kinkiness, cultures of communication, body language, and how to approach.

13:14 Daisy chains!!!

19:16 Bisexual swinger events: what to expect, goals, and finding welcoming community.

23:14 Cultivating intimacy, navigating jealousy, and sex with love vs hot stranger sex.

28:22 Tantra explorations: eye gazing, vulnerability, and connecting with others through “unique universal” experiences.

32:08 Why self-forgiveness is what we need more of and exciting kinky queer shit.

📈 STATS | 33 bisexual cis male, he/him pronouns, polyamorous, author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto, into: swinging, sex tourism, sex parties, kink, tantra, non-monogamy

🔗 ZACH LINKS | zacharyzane.com / @zacharyzane_

Zach's episode from September 2023 | Will You Do My Husband?

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Eden shares her Dominant journey as a self-described Freak Bitch, nasty leatherdyke, monstrous sadist and professional.

00:00 Eliminating shame via kink.

05:51 Knowing when and what to share in vanilla spaces.

11:12 Playing with gender and supporting masculinity via submission in her ProDomme work.

16:10 Taking care of herself for physical topping scenes, creative face-sitting, and primal dominance.

20:25 Learning ones boundaries and the difference between being needed and needy.

24:08 Tips on how to work with a ProDomme: session requests, scene negotiations, and bratty behavior do’s and don’ts.

29:59 A love for foot fetishists and foot nights.

34:33 How Eden fucks with her feet, an extreme trample slut, and an ultimate foot fucking fantasy.

38:50 Juicy pussy details, face-sitting protection, and ethical, clear negotiation.

43:03 Sensory superpowers of her ADD and stamina.

46:12 Leatherdyke discoveries and finding queer community.

50:07 An early experience of loving roughness, riding dick and slapping faces.

54:51 Discovering her Dominant parts and gaining hard skills as a ProDomme.

1:01:44 Solo pleasure, noticing energy levels, appreciating sensory overload, hands vs vibrators, and daily personal cum challenges.

1:07:16 Leaving deep bruising and marks, and current favorite tools: hands, canes, and short steel baseball bats.

1:12:00 Bootblacking as a gateway to leather love.

1:14:24 Erotic bucket list: bondage ocean scene, gymnastic tools for trampling, primal outdoor play, and more needles.

1:18:49 The harms of puritan culture and why sex work legalization and protection will help us all.

1:20:21 Self-love practices to start today and her dream dungeon.

📈 STATS | 31 queer pro Domme, she/her pronouns, non-monogamous, leatherdyke, Los Angeles-based, into: kink, sadism, connective healing, intimacy, bootblacking, BDSM

🔗 EDEN LINKS | @call_me_eden_evil /  @Im_Eden_Evil_ / [email protected]

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Scott returns! His poly and BDSM experiences have led him to explore deeper levels of self-care and connection in a new chapter of academia.

00:00 Unexpected depth of a kitchen table poly relationship and handling reintegration after deployments.

08:32 Applying BDSM scene negotiation techniques for comfort, cuddling, and receiving care as a Dom.

16:34 The importance of desire, self-advocacy, asking for what you need, and investing time in exploring receptive anal. 
26:29 How discovering himself while having multiple long-term partnerships led to a transition—blowing up his relationship *on purpose.*

32:17 Experiencing casual dating for the first time in adulthood: dating apps vs. meeting people irl, plus wanting to curate romantic experiences for prospective partners.

39:43 How self-care and discovering personal needs goes hand-in-hand with nurturing others.

42:02 How kinksters are better at communication, everyone is kinky, and a dating experiment.

50:11 Exploring poly desires, deep casual intimacy, and changing needs.

📈 STATS | 36 bisexual cis dude, he/him pronouns, polyamorous, Gentleman Dom, works in emergency medicine overseas, Pacific Northwest-based

Scott's episode from March 2022 | Disaster Zone Dominant

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Dr. Elliot Justin comes on to share details of his underwearable invention that measures nocturnal erections—and is improving sex lives and overall health in huge ways.

00:00  Dr. Elliot Justin shares about how his medical school interest in aphrodisiacs led to creating an erection tracking cock ring.

03:10 A pivotal horse riding accident led to creating a pacemaker for sexual health and led to an ejaculation instigation experiment.

05:46 How wearable tech that tracks erections can provide life-saving medical info

10:04 The revolutionary design of the TechRing, materials, and its vibrating companion

16:39 How cock rings reduce anxiety around staying hard or coming too fast and help men and their partners have better sex

20:33 Wearing the TechRing overnight, sizing and how it causes harder and longer orgasms

26:27 Tips for finding bliss in urethral stimulation and pressure on the shaft and a discussion of pleasure devices for men

29:35 Gathering data with your TechRing, how people have gameified it at a gay bachelor party weekend, and the issues with the sexual supplement industry

32:46 How rings are more effective than pills and create an opportunity for deeper bonding, intimacy, and longer play.

37:42 Enhancers vs aids: why cock rings are awesome tools

39:53 How to use the data? with the FirmTech app.

41:56 What porn and online shopping have in common, the health benefits of having daily sex and the shocking lack of sex ed for medical professionals.

46:46 Urologists’ shame-o-meters and how to boost male confidence.

49:45 The future: internal wearables for clit owners

52:56 How transforming our approaches to healthcare could offer people a lifetime of lovemaking.

📈 STATS | 71 cis male, he/him pronouns, monogamous, married 36 years, physician, sexologist, orgasm advocate, horse rider, founder CEO of FirmTech, from Montana

🔗 LINKS | Use the code LOVER to get a discount, boost your sex life, track your health & support this pod here: myfirmtech.com/sexstories

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Leah returns to share her latest polyamorous explorations!

00:00 She is DONE with shame and excited for period sex!

06:31 How do I get a girlfriend? Leah is willing to fill in as a service Top and desires a femme Top, is exploring steering clear of men on dating apps, she and Luna commiserate on the experience of being straight-trained (comphet) bi girls.

15:40 Going from open to polyamorous: past dating baggage plus the realities of time, priorities, and relationship hierarchies.

21:47 Best dating question: “what’s bad about you in a relationship?” Reassurance is normal, building trust, and lessons learned from being a “chill girl” in hookup culture.

29:18 Practicing easy come easy go vibes in a new romantic partnership, noticing her own needs during sex, figuring out in real time with her partners what her body wants, and Luna offers scripts for how to communicate in the moment.

45:07 Learning how to navigate jealousy in polyamory, the importance of asking for what you want and allowing people to show up, plus the pitfalls of anticipating reactions.

57:36 Rethinking having kids, dreams of poly community, detached dating defense mechanisms, leaning into comfort and trust as turn-ons.

📈 STATS | 30s queer woman, she/her pronouns, non-monogamous, married 11 years, screenwriter

🔗 LEAH LINKS | @newtononmonogamy / @leahfolta

Leah's episode from April 2019 | The Woman Who Asks You Out

Leah’s episode from May 2023 | We’re Open and Queer

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🔗 LAZLO LINKS | @allangelbard / @xxxesq / fetlife

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Billy returns to celebrate ten years of the Manwhore Podcast!

00:00 Can Billy help Luna be mean? And will they ever fuck? WHEN?

05:11 More sex!!! New enjoyment of intimacy, connecting with people irl, rebuilding sexual confidence—and a hot MILF divorcée.

12:48 A hot surprise during a recent happy ending massage + the mind-game of getting hard and soft (and hard again).

17:58 Why he loves swallowing lady cum, solo and partnered squirting details, tips and best positions.

24:56 Naked comedy updates, Billy’s take on how Luna scared a hot lover who was fingering her away with a request for edging, and different perspectives on loving dudes.

31:37 Billy’s thoughts on love + an exciting new connection.

37:12 CELEBRATING TEN YEARS of the Manwhore Podcast, reflections of a gangbang magnet, improv tips, and is Luna actually an alien???

44:43 Details of Billy’s Oral Sex Auditions and how that inspired Luna’s masturbation meditation shares.

50:34 Future comedy with AND without clothes, a cross-country connection, Billy’s new era of sex and dating coaching.

📈 STATS | Heterosexual cis male, he/him pronouns, stand-up comedian, host of the Manwhore Podcast, based in New York City

🔗 BILLY LINKS | the manwhore podcast / @billyisprocida / @thebillyprocida / @callmebilly

Billy's episode from May 2019 | Naked Comedy

Billy's episode from May 2023 | Beginner’s Guide to Play Parties

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