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Threesomes, non-monogamy, and a money kink—Nikole shares about maximizing pleasure for partners and the power in being fully yourself.

📈 STATS | 40 queer woman, married, non-monogamous, onlyfans creator, life coach, mom, into: money, playing with couples, sugar dating, selling panties.

00:00 How she went from 100 to 0 on the shame-o-meter

05:12 Exploring her own body through OnlyFans and why she desires pleasure from partners

11:26 Blowing minds with transcendent sexual experiences and erotic sex ed live-streams

17:20 Empowered by OnlyFans and selling panties 

21:41 Being the ultimate sugar baby

30:10 Money kink: communicating what matters and the importance of boundaries

38:43 Why premarital sex is a requirement

43:17 Sex worker sex ed tutorials, playful partnered explorations, and discovering queerness

47:05 How non-monogamy helps her fall more in love with her primary partner

50:56 Looking forward to Oprah-levels of success and a world full of orgasmic bliss

🤩 TOPICS | Abundance mindset, adult content creation, agency and empowerment, authentic connection, body confidence, body love, breaking religious conditioning, camming culture, cash kink, church deconstruction, communication in relationships, confidence through pleasure, conscious non-monogamy, content creator lifestyle, divine feminine energy, emotional healing through sex, erotic empowerment, erotic energy work, erotic self-expression, female pleasure, financial empowerment, financial independence, finding your worth, former pastor turned stripper, healing from purity culture, healthy boundaries, high-value dating, holistic sexuality, honoring desire, independent sex work, intimacy coaching, life coaching for women, live streaming platforms, luxury experiences, manifestation and money, mindful masturbation, money mindset, monetizing authenticity, mother and entrepreneur, OnlyFans creator, orgasm healing, overcoming shame, pansexual identity, pleasure practices, polyamorous relationships, pussy worship, queer awakening, reclaiming sexuality, sacred sexuality, self-pleasure, sensual abundance, sensual embodiment, sensual power, sexual agency, sexual exploration, sexual healing, sexual liberation, sexual self-discovery, sex education for adults, sex-positive spirituality, sex work empowerment, shame-free sexuality, single motherhood, spiritual awakening, spiritual sexuality, stripping journey, sugar dating, tantra-inspired intimacy, thriving after divorce, vulnerability and self-love, wealth creation through pleasure, women’s empowerment.

🔗 NIKOLE LINKS | @mitchellnikole / OF

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Cervical orgasms, sex vacations, and submission—Sarah shares about stepping out of religious shame and embracing her own pleasure.

00:00 Learning how and when to talk about sex

04:06 Risk aware play and leaving space for adjustment

08:15 Checking in with her high libido demisexual self and asking for what she needs

14:50 Navigating purity culture and discovering the mechanics of sex growing up

23:21 Religious loopholes and feeling the freedom to finally explore

28:32 A seven inch dildo and erotic photography on a solo sex vacation

36:04 Celebrating the return of easy orgasms and Sarah’s favorite ways to cum

40:12 Dating online and in Los Angeles

46:58 Creating safe, intentional, and caring connections

53:18 Being queer and eating pussy for the first time in a threesome

57:53 Enjoying pain, sucking cock, and spit play

1:04:29 Seeking a queer Dominant to explore what she needs as a submissive

1:09:04 Casual non-monogamy explorations

1:11:22 Discovering desires on-camera

1:15:48 Turned on by the novelty of new spaces

1:19:04 Helping partners receive pleasure and the joys of listening to her body

📈 STATS | 36 bisexual white femme, sub-leaning switch, ex-Christian, single, non-monogamous, actor, singer, writer, instructional designer, Los Angeles-based, into: sensation play, stimulation, touch, hot words, photography, film, environments
 

🔗 SARAH LINKS | @sarahekarnes / skarnes.substack.com

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Glory holes, gay porn, deep throating, and phone sex Domination—Sydney shares how she’s letting go of perfection, embracing her full self, and satisfying her intimacy needs.

00:00 FaceTime dating wisdom

5:40 Shame squiggles and what she needs to feel safe

14:00 Adult bookstores and glory hole dick sucking

20:29 Discovering the joys of fucking everywhere at any time

27:45 Balancing her needs for comfort, safety, and connection

34:10 Why effort feels sexy and the perks of hotel sex

38:03 Phone sex mistress and a fuckboy toy submissive

43:09 The hotness of hiring a sex worker

47:30 Holy grail gangbang and craving caresses

49:41 Chasing the drug of genuine intimacy

56:55 Shower sex: getting ravished and vulnerable golden showers

1:04:06 Enforcing boundaries and reclaiming her home

1:08:17 Mutual choking and making out

1:11:33 Constantly evolving and finding what feels good

1:16:40 Exploring trans-friendly BDSM spaces, international sex, and kitchen table poly

1:22:22 Craving mutual vulnerability and the pleasure of exciting partners

📈 STATS | 40s Trans Black Femme, power bottom, single-but-dating, Los Angeles-based, into: kissing, dirty talk, equality in bed, open sex talk, gangbangs

🔗 SYDNEY LINKS | @missbarbieqla

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Bebe is back to talk all about love and being her own muse.

00:00 The many forms and feelings of love

05:00 Accepting bisexuality, queerness, and discovering non-monogamy

14:10 Getting turned on by applause and the importance of saying “I love you”

19:12 Connection revelations and the trickiness of reading people

23:32 Noticing and changing dating patterns

28:54 How recovering from gonorrhea led to deeper feelings for a partner

31:42 Ways Bebe feels loved

40:42 Reconnecting with her body through burlesque

45:28 Photoshoots! Loving her body through nudity and the artistic lens

51:45 How she’s inspiring love, creativity, and body positivity

📈STATS | 27 bisexual plus-sized femme, switch, non-monogamish, partnered 9 months, disability support worker, Australian, into: Dominance, submission, new experiences, restraints, cock and ball torture, crafts, burlesque
 

🔗 BEBE LINKS | @bebe.bubbles

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Bebe returns to continue her story: Ho Phase 2.0, exploring non-monogamy, orgasmic nipple play, CBT, and her new Best Sex Ever phase.

00:00 Reframing unhelpful tendencies and learning to respect her own boundaries

6:03 Plus-sized spanking perks and the importance of permission when leaving marks

10:11 Safety tips for breath play

12:20 Recognizing patterns and replacing period shame with pleasure

18:24 Gaining self-acceptance and new language to communicate needs

22:16 Teenage bucket list dream: complete!

25:06 Healthier perspectives on self-esteem, self-love, and communication

28:11 Reflecting on assumptions and instant deep connections

32:44 Details of her longest relationship and embracing bisexuality through group make outs

36:12 The contrast between supportive, creative queer community and a partnership that no longer meets her needs

38:12 Why queer femmes are the best and getting off birth control

42:50 Navigating sex parties, coming out, and non-monogamy

51:02 Unpacking self-blame patterns and the need to feel needed

55:53 A romantic afternoon delight, fucking three people in one day, and discovering D/s power exchange dynamics

1:00:40 Car sex: best and worst

1:07:58 Kink, BDSM and sensory explorations with a sex toy lover

1:12:12 Nipple play and practicing degradation

1:16:47 Cock cages!

1:19:06 How she likes to Domme: extended play, impact, and aftercare

1:24:11 Excited for vaginas, non-monogamy, and kinky furniture

📈STATS | 27 bisexual plus-sized femme, switch, non-monogamish, partnered 9 months, disability support worker, Australian, into: Dominance, submission, new experiences, restraints, cock and ball torture, crafts, burlesque
 

🔗 BEBE LINKS | @bebe.bubbles

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Fantasies, fleshlights, courtesans, and surprisingly sexy minister training—BJ shares how he’s satisfying his curiosities and connecting enthusiastically with partners.

00:00 Embracing his shame-free 60s and recalling early experiences

07:01 Encyclopedia sex ed and filling in the gaps with imagination

12:24 Teaching his gym teacher about sex

19:14 Discovering self pleasure in a dark closet

24:03 Heavy petting and a cycle of guilt in college

27:07 Becoming a minister, explicit films in seminary, and sexuality in the old testament

34:31 Connecting with his wife through sensual massages and fantasy suite experiences

37:22 Playing with fleshlights, prostates, and lube

42:33 Satisfying his legal brothel curiosity

46:01 More love, less war, and pumping gasoline as a turn-on

56:07 Sex work fantasies and craving clothing optional spaces

📈STATS | 60s heterosexual cis male, he/him pronouns, non-monogamous,  divorced, sexologist, retired pastor, musician, based in American rural midwest, into: connected touch, eye contact, nipple play, receiving blowjobs, painting his toenails
 

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Bebe—breaker of panties—talks about endless orgasms, staying grounded as a switch, and how she spreads ripples of love.

00:00 What it’s like to be a really easy cum

05:41 All the ways she can orgasm

11:00 Her sexy morning ritual, edging experiments, and anal explorations

16:26 Staying grounded, navigating subspace, and when she needs more aftercare

24:36 Early feelings of being “too sexual” and how she learned about sex

27:56 Breaking underwear, humping pillows, and bed frame masturbations

33:17 Exciting early porn discoveries, magazine sex ed, and figuring out how to ask questions

40:00 Supporting siblings in their sexual journeys

48:06 Seeking new experiences and overcoming the struggles of connecting with people in person and online

57:06 Recovering from self-destructive thrill seeking and embracing risk aware explorations

1:00:34 Consensually crawling into the back of a guy’s van and a fisting adventure!!!

1:07:08 Loving every iteration of herself and staying curious

📈STATS | 27 bisexual plus-sized femme, switch, non-monogamish, partnered 9 months, disability support worker, Australian, into: Dominance, submission, new experiences, restraints, cock and ball torture, crafts, burlesque
 

🔗 BEBE LINKS | @bebe.bubbles

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Kelly Jean shares beautiful reflections on love, healing touch, and connection from her experiences as a holistic healer, trauma-informed educator, and former Dominatrix.

00:00 Discovering healthy love in community, partnership, and herself

7:54 Going from self-loathing to self-loving

16:43 Autoimmune issues to erotic food experiences

20:42 Helping people explore deep connection, joy, and love

24:58 Dominatrix shame fluctuations and learning to take care of herself

35:03 Tattoo turn-ons, feeling connected, and erotic explorations

40:48 Divine orgasms, devotional blowjobs, and getting clean

49:19 Sex work, tantra, and highly erotic connections

54:45 Stealing mom’s vibrator, obscene phone calls, and a pattern of power dynamics

1:01:39 Early experiences with girls and finding community with fellow strippers

1:09:28 Fetish gifts and submission at the strip club

1:13:04 Discovering boundaries, pushing herself, and writing to process trauma

1:24:15 Trust, openness, and play in her first honest relationship

1:34:06 Opening more, trusting herself, and healing through art

📈STATS | 46 pansexual bisexual cis femme, monogamous, holistic healer, trauma-informed educator, singer, musician, former professional dominatrix, southern California-based, into: kink, authenticity, self-discovery, breath work, sound healing, mindfulness, meditation, playfulness
 

🔗 KELLY JEAN LINKS | @kellyjeanslucky

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Anal, squirting, watersports, and more taboo turn-ons! Jack shares about his sex drive journey, exploring voyeurism, and how his relationship with his wife has evolved over 20 years.

00:00 Communication wins and loving licking his wife’s pussy

07:06 How sex leads to connection for him and the excitement of building anticipation

12:34 Perusing old playboys, masturbation, and discovering an attraction to women

17:53 Naughtiness in the name of sex, blowjob overwhelm, and secret hot tub time

24:31 Late bloomer feelings and masturbating to memories of make outs

32:32 Sex with his wife: different levels of horniness, frustrations through the years, and asking for what we want

51:25 The importance of sex in his life and talking about it with his wife

55:08 Squirting is a huge turn-on!

57:43 Ups and downs of first anal explorations

1:04:52 Anal take two! Research, going slow, and

how exploring the professional option led to vulnerable deep connection with his partner

1:09:20 Piss play: wanting to watch and feel it on his body

1:15:34 Hopes for professional threesomes, mountain sex, and bookstore fucking

1:19:46 Why he wants a sex party guide

1:26:19 Dreams of a sexual knowledge library, making sex furniture, and a wet room in disguise

📈STATS | 52 heterosexual cis male, married almost 20 years, west coast-based, into: squirting, voyeurism, anal

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Immy returns! Six years into her first relationship she's embracing her dominance, intentionally connecting with partners, and exploring the ups and down of dating as a poly couple.

00:00 Prioritizing connection and emotional intimacy for better sex

8:48 Cuckqueen discoveries: threesome configurations, enjoying humiliation, and playing with herself while watching

16:37 Going from sex-only explorations as a couple to inviting as a third as a guest star

23:04 Balancing solo-time, existing lovers, and the joys of discovering new partners’ pleasure points

28:58 Uncovering her brat side, embracing playfulness, and exploring dominance through edging partners

34:14 Navigating body image in self-love and dating

38:49 Being imperfect and growing online as a coach and public figure

47:15 Trusting our intuitions and following desires

📈 STATS | 24 bisexual cis woman, non-monogamous, cuckqueen, artist, content creator, into: throuples, bratty roleplay, vanilla sex

🔗 IMMY LINKS | @KillYourInnerLoser / [email protected]

Immy's episode from July 2021 | Kink & Threesome Wisdom

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