How to Brothel

Rob has uncovered many mysteries of bisexuality, including the tension in men’s saunas—he shares how he supports other bi men as a life coach and co-host of the Two Bi Guys podcast.

00:00 How “late” in life bisexual explorations led to embracing his authentic self

07:09 Getting turned on by turn-ons, why he loves collaborating on threesomes, and how he uses those same skills when writing

12:55 Embracing being queer and submissive after early experiences of being Dominant by default in relationships

20:56 How porn and non-reciprocal blowjobs opened the door to coming out

28:24 Exploring bisexuality, non-monogamy, and shedding societal expectations and norms

36:20 Discoveries: circle jerks at summer camp, his cum kink, and the upside of anonymous encounters

45:06 How his “hell yes” philosophy on consent leads to hotter play—especially at masturbation parties

54:35 What it means to be a submissive top

58:27 Discovering anal play: bottoming, eating ass, and being eaten

1:03:38 Wyoh compares cunnilingus to rimming

1:09:38 Navigating performance anxiety while being turned on at queer sex parties

1:15:04 Lube, light impact, edging, and sensitive nipples directly connected to his cock

1:21:33 Discovering how to enjoy (and prepare for) squirting

1:24:11 How sauna sex improved his gaydar

1:31:05 Reducing shame with partners and mutual growth

1:35:41 Supporting queer clients in increasing interpersonal awareness

📈 STATS | 39 white Jewish cis male, queer, bisexual, polyamorous, submissive top switch, married, writer, creator, Los Angeles-based, into: Dominant women, male masturbation parties, group sex, cum, squirting, sauna sex, outdoor sex, bathroom sex, stand-up comedy, storytelling, political art
 

🔗 ROBERT LINKS | @robertbrookscohen / @twobiguys / linktr.ee/robertbcohen

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GG is DADDY—she shares about telepathically communicating during oral, using fingers as adjustable cocks, and how her partner reclaims her after playing with other lovers.

00:00 How she likes to be desired: physical touch, dirty talk, and being worshipped

08:36 The hotness of gender fluidity and being turned on by her own masc side

14:04 Oral as an antidote to anxiety and pathway to connection

17:29 Licking pussies like peanut butter and why fingers are like cocks

22:48 Strapping partners and easing into receiving anal

26:32 Why getting reclaimed by her partner is as hot as she imagined and the magic of mommy/daddy switching

30:54 Manifesting gangbangs through masturbation and the hotness of sharing lovers

36:35 Why she needs to be a stripper and how she’s helping people love themselves—and each other

📈 STATS | 30s queer cis female, writer, actor, comedian, sensual artist, sexual assault survivor, into: strap-ons, physical touch, dirty talk, gangbangs, being worshipped

🔗 GG LINKS | linktr.ee/ggsauvage

GG's episode from September 2021 | Hyper-Catholic to Sugar Babe

GG’s episode from July 2023 | Transactional Fantasy Come True

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GG shares how letting go of control and embracing her desires has led to living a life full of the work she wants to do: writing for Cosmopolitan magazine, revamping The Sexiest Deck Alive, and whatever erotic art her heart desires!

00:00 Why she adores co-working, thrills in cracking a writing piece, and is only doing work she loves

05:42 Taking the leap of faith to live for herself and letting go of control of outcomes

09:10 Breaking away from feeling stuck and discovering a new reality

12:40 Exploring her rejection kink and the idea of fame

14:15 How writing for Cosmo and helping strangers fulfills her purpose in life

18:25 Why money is no object as she spreads ripples of love

📈 STATS | 30s queer cis female, writer, actor, comedian, sensual artist, sexual assault survivor, into: strap-ons, physical touch, dirty talk, gangbangs, being worshipped

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GG returns to talk about LOVE! She shares her self-love practice, how she encourages others, and leaving poverty behind for a life of self-created filthy richness.

00:00 How a genderfluid lover and an increasing sense of safety are changing her perceptions of love

04:49 Tips for practicing self-love and letting go of self-judgement

07:38 Why dancing, receiving massages, and playing dress-up are key to increasing self-love

12:21 Ways GG experiences love

15:52 Redefining desire and fulfillment with chosen family

18:09 How to turn a goddess on

21:09 The spiritual side of generous and nourishing relationships

📈 STATS | 30s queer cis female, writer, actor, comedian, sensual artist, sexual assault survivor, into: strap-ons, physical touch, dirty talk, gangbangs, being worshipped

🔗 GG LINKS | linktr.ee/ggsauvage

GG's episode from September 2021 | Hyper-Catholic to Sugar Babe

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Roy knows exactly what he does and doesn’t want—he shares about exploring gay sex as a bi guy, why affection is ultimately what gets him going, and his experiences as a client at Sheri’s Ranch, a legal brothel in Nevada.

00:00 Freaking out during sex ed and enjoying blockbuster porn rentals

13:58 Animal House leading to hands-free discoveries, going from softcore to hardcore porn, and current masturbation techniques

24:23 Recognizing and correcting incel behavior and why he prefers taking his time over cramped car sex

32:21 Exploring gay sex in Hollywood and searching for support as a bisexual male

44:30 Switching to sex with women and how polyamory could work for him

53:52 Evolving porn preferences over the years

58:09 Why he finally decided to invest in his sex life with a professional

59:45 Tips for choosing a lady at the brothel

1:05:36 Being taught how to finger a pussy, enjoying the sounds and silliness of his partners

1:11:09 Reflecting on brothel experiences and what he looks for in personal relationships

1:19:42 Fantasy brainstorms: being of service as a brothel worker, wanting everyone to experience the 80s, and Playboy party inspirations

📈 STATS | 40 bisexual cis male, single, monogamous, working in accounting, Los Angeles-based, into: affection, companionship, playfulness, oral, doggy

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Rebecca is back! Celebrating her newly released book, Sexcapades, she shares Bookstore Boy updates, how writing helped her find closure, and what led to one of the most erotic experiences she’s ever had.

00:00 Book release, taboo territory, and closure.

10:06 Writing is hot and cathartic!

15:20 Toxic attachments, family drama, and a shocking connection.

33:49 Fetlife, taboo shame spirals, and secret sexy Christmas gifts.

45:52 A clandestine hotel meeting.

51:04 Intense impact, cum play, and self-imposed celibacy.
 

📈 STATS | 39 pansexual cis female, erotic writer, business owner, into: threesomes, toys, taboo

🔗 REBECCA LINKS | @reannelinsen_sexcapades
 

Rebecca’s episode from March 2021 | Wildly Curious Bisexual

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Scott muses on love, queerness, sex therapy, and discovering kink through play.

00:00 Romance vs vulnerability and being a hopeless romantic.

12:40 Relationship goals, queer community, and tips for how to romance yourself.

27:48 Being ambiamorous: feeling monogamous and poly with different partners, and staying grounded in gratitude.

34:54 Levels of sexiness: with partners, friends, family, and alone.

46:53 What’s hot about Financial Domination, sexting, and getting turned on by partners’ kinks.

54:59 Joy in oral tastes and smells, normalizing penis anxiety, and unhelpful expectations set by porn and technology.

1:06:28 Exploring kinks, pressure play, and intuitive switching during sex.

1:18:00 Queer discoveries, rope play, sex parties, and service switch desires.

📈 STATS | 32 ambiamorous pansexual white cis male, bar manager, Vancouver-based, from England, into: giving, love, praise, pressure play
 

🔗 SCOTT LINKS | @sirjenkins91

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Lavender is a thrill-seeking switch—a courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch legal brothel, a pornstar with an exhibitionism kink, and an adrenaline-loving stripper with a piercings in interesting places.

 00:00 Embracing freaky kinkiness and getting paid to be a worshipable goddess

08:59 Sex ed through porn, discovering her own sexuality, and an early submissive phase

14:37 Feral biting, growling, shibari, and getting tied with “forced” vibration sensation

17:38 The pleasures and pains of hood piercings and full nude clubs

21:15 Walking orgasms, hood piercing play, and her nipple piercing story

26:02 Sensation love: biting, bruising, marks, and how she learned about electro-play at Chicago EXXXOTICA

28:45 The support of stripper community and dancing wearing a butt plug

33:32 Why Lavender loves full nude clubs and Champagne Rooms

36:12 Dominating men: joys of ball stomping, getting primal with her playthings, and creating giantess porn

41:16 A better sex ed from the brothel than school, discovering legal brothels and loving meeting more submissives at Sheri’s Ranch

48:00 Planning a kink party (session) at the brothel, playing with tickle fetishes, and how she introduces clients to their own assholes

55:07 Pornstar journey: an exhibitionism kink fed by starring in erotic content, building out sexy community with awesome collaborators, and dreams of ski mask porn

1:00:54 Three-girl parties at the ranch and a fetish for cream-pie breeding

📈 STATS | 24 pansexual polyamorous woman, from Chicago, stripper, legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch, into: roleplaying, kink, Dominance, submission, brattiness, ski masks

🔗 LAVENDER LINKS | linktr.ee/lvvenderx

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Dr Amber returns! She shares how she’s consciously creating connections, finding fulfillment, and sharing her expertise through her new writing: Under the White Coat.

00:00 Exploring her Domme side, anal play, and new favorite toys.

15:09 Conscious relationship design as a better alternative to relationship anarchy.

22:56 Ideal holistic sex and kink training that would create better health for all.

33:00 Dr Amber’s perfect sex ed, continuing education for medical professionals, and ideal retreat.

45:14 Seggs vs sex—censorship, communication, and clarity.

50:03 Creativity in sexual play and building a scene without an orgasm focus.

1:05:53 Substack, office hours and novel writing!
 

📈 STATS | 40s solo-poly cis woman, she/her pronouns, private practice physician, writer, sexual health advocate, educator, into: power exchange, feminine domination, deep psychological healing, conscious relationship design
 

🔗 DR AMBER LINKS | Under the White Coat

Dr Amber's episode from August 2023 | Erotic Audacity, Wellness & Luxury

Dr Amber’s episode from February 2024 | Sex Ed Reboot

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Xena has a laugh made of sparkles—and is a BJ-loving legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch just outside Las Vegas who shares how working at a legal brothel is basically hot girl summer camp, why stripping is always on the table, and the orgasmic magic of identical pussies.

00:00 Loves getting eaten out and talking partners through oral

06:18 How porn “led her astray”

12:12 Being on top: why regular cowgirl is her favorite—and why reverse cowgirl is hot

14:27 Discovering her sexuality with friends and her first blowjob

18:21 All-girl stripper orgies, lining pussies up during scissoring, and loving lube for pleasure’s sake

24:44 Waitressing as a gateway to stripping and generous older gentlemen

31:49 Tips and tricks to give a hot lap dance

36:48 Xena’s stripper era! Her favorite pole tricks, schoolgirl and warrior princess outfits

40:51 Her threesome queen era followed by a 5-year sex life drought that led her to explore working at a legal brothel

46:05 The hot, deep receiving of her first party at the brothel

50:22 Scissoring, vibrating tentacles, and bratty schoolgirl role-play

58:19 What makes a great Girlfriend Experience, stamina required for loving Amazon position, and the MANY size options she offers for pegging parties

1:05:39 Helping virgins of all ages, classroom orgy dreams, and her smutty writing

1:13:04 BONUS: *lots* of blowjob love!!!

📈 STATS | 28 bisexual Guatemalan caucasian woman, polyamorous, legal courtesan, former stripper, into: sporty chic, tall women, gentle men, riding on top, scissoring, roleplaying, strapping men, nature, smutty writing

🔗 XENA LINKS | Sheri's Ranch / allmylinks.com/xenaamor / @amor_xena

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