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Easily adaptable, a passion for travel, and the realities of working in adult PR in an increasingly censored society—Brian shares good vibes and loves of work and play.

📈 STATS | 49 straight male, president of BSG PR, into: work, music, travel

00:00 How staying active and going with the flow fuels his happy workaholism

04:40 Romanticizing his work + the pros and cons of easily accessible porn

10:40 The joys of dry humping and being grateful for discovering masturbation “late”

14:20 Offending people in the name of supporting his clients and de-stigmatizing sex

17:16 Daily censorship battles and the power of Big Tech

21:55 Why he always has his next vacation planned and enjoying every little win

24:32 PR work origin story and constantly testing his (really good) people skills

28:27 Reflections on generational communication styles when it comes to dating apps, texting and phone calls

33:29 Surprise joys of solo travel

36:19 Finding the balance of giving and receiving in relationships + the sexiness of the unknown

43:17 Sex ed moments burned into his memory and the two movies that taught him about sex

46:58 Early days of not understanding homosexuality as a straight choir boy

51:38 Acrobatic sex, a Narcos-style party, and Playboy Mansion experiences

56:34 The best New Year’s of his life and a long distance office surprise

1:00:26 AVN Expo experiences and enjoying the unknown

1:04:43 Where he finds clarity and the grounding necessity of hugs

🤩 TOPICS | Acrobatic sex, adult entertainment, adult film industry, affectionate touch, AOL chat rooms, authentic communication, AVN Expo, being a late bloomer, body confidence, boundaries in relationships, building client trust, choir boy sexuality, clarity through yoga, communication in intimacy, creative publicity, cross-generational dating habits, cultural exploration, de-stigmatizing sexuality, dry humping, emotional connection, erotic discovery, fearlessness in media, generational communication styles, gratitude for masturbation, hookups abroad, hugs and oxytocin, independence and romance, industry restrictions, international adventures, intimacy and trust, late sexual awakening, learning from porn, love of music, media relationships, meeting people while traveling, mutual pleasure, narcos-style party, online dating culture, passionate creativity, personal growth through sex, physical affection, Playboy Mansion stories, publicity career path, relationship reciprocity, respect for sex workers, self-pleasure discovery, sensual storytelling, sexual agency, sexual communication, sexual curiosity, sexual shame healing, solo travel experiences, spirituality through yoga, spontaneous romance, taboo conversations, vanilla sexuality, Virgo devotion, vulnerability and connection, yoga sculpt practice.

🔗 BRIAN LINKS | @bsgpr / X

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Next-level self-love, playful acts of service, and a praise kink—Olivia shares how her everyday practice of giving and receiving has led to a wonderful life, her favorite types of dirty talk, the connections that make touch tantalizing, how she discovered her desires, and the ways she wants to give and receive.

📈 STATS | 28 straight (so far) sapiosexual demisexual Black/African American cis woman, she/her pronouns, single, celibate, thinking about dating, monogamous, threesome-curious bad bitch good girl with a praise kink into: compliments, intimate sex, foreplay, dirty talk

00:00 Seizing every opportunity to treat herself

03:51 Generosity of adults in her early life and her own receiving superpowers

08:05 Healthy romanticizing and an expanded understanding of self-love

11:38 The difference between romantic, platonic and self love

13:38 A love of linguistic specificity and astrological geek-outs

16:46 Communicating clearly as a Black woman and being born into a state of receiving

21:43 Allowing others to nurture and how it differs from self-care

26:45 Desiring romance that begins with connected conversation and exploring partners’ passions

30:13 How Olivia’s love languages stem from what she wanted more of growing up

33:07 Cultivating fulfilling relationships of mutual care

36:26 A baseline of taking care of herself in order to be of service to others

41:11 The everyday pleasures of walking her dog, experiencing the arts, and breathing fresh air

44:33 Opportunistic friend sex and wanting to be enthusiastically desired

51:19 The hotness of emotional intelligence and genuine kindness plus meeting people where they’re at

55:18 Needing mental, emotional, and physical stimulation for the energetic exchange of sex

1:00:46 Practicing dirty talk, loving praise while riding, and being turned on by doing a good job

1:05:39 Fueling partnered pleasure via real-time feedback

1:12:33 A love of sucking dick and doggy style

1:15:34 Open to receiving oral and anal in a safe, enthusiastic connection

1:18:53 Redirecting partners from cunnilingus and advice for fingering

1:24:47 Safety tips for impact play and intuiting types of touch needed

1:29:03 When she likes playing rough, hair pulling, and a hand on her neck

1:31:19 Very sensitive nipples and wanting to savor sex

1:33:57 Erogenous zones all over and a surprisingly sweet act of intimacy

1:38:12 Learning about sex from talking with women rather than getting a formal education

1:42:03 Unlearning what porn taught her and navigating unhelpful educational tools

1:46:19 Confidence and explicit direction about how to be touched

1:47:45 How her brother’s friends helped her be open with herself and others about sex

1:53:08 The sexual blueprint of what she wants to pursue in connections and knowing what she doesn’t want

1:56:34 Desire for playful sex that allows for the full emotional experience (including giggling while cumming)

2:03:06 Building trust, needing mental stimulation and a gradual pace when it comes to sex and relationships

2:09:10 Enforcing boundaries and why WE LOVE CONDOMS!!!

2:15:28 Looking forward to a partner who is as passionate about her as she is about herself

2:20:43 Wanting a long-term, ravishing connection with exciting experiments and open communication

2:23:41 Thoughts on sex with other women, FFM, FMF, MFM, and MMF threesomes, and double penetration

2:30:12 Approaching sex as an act of service from a selfless place

2:36:03 Spreading love by being kind and receiving people as they are in any given moment

2:38:42 Reconnecting to her artistry, sharing her natural gifts by educating others, and reflecting the kindness she’s received out into the world

🤩 TOPICS | Accepting pleasure, aftercare practices, anal curiosity, anticipation and arousal, appreciation through words, art and sensuality, assertive communication, astrology and intimacy, authenticity in relationships, being of service in bed, black femininity and desire, body awareness, breathing and embodiment, care-based connection, clarity in consent, communicating boundaries, confidence in sex, conscious kink, conversation-driven seduction, cunnilingus communication, dirty language exploration, discovering erogenous zones, double penetration fantasies, emotional availability, enthusiastic consent, erotic generosity, erotic growth, erotic service, erotic trust, evolving definitions of love, eye contact intimacy, feminine expression, fingering advice, foreplay connection, giving and receiving touch, gratitude in intimacy, group sex curiosity, hand-on-neck sensation, healing through pleasure, healthy boundaries, high-sensitivity lovers, honoring limits, impact play safety, intuitive sex, joy of giving pleasure, kink compatibility, learning from lovers, loving direction during sex, mindful masturbation, mutual care in relationships, naked vulnerability, nipple sensitivity, open-hearted conversations, oral appreciation, orgasmic laughter, partner feedback, passionate connection, physical affection, playful dominance, praise kink joy, presence during penetration, receiving oral with enthusiasm, rediscovering arousal, relationship reciprocity, respectful roughness, riding rhythm, safe anal play, safety in exploration, savoring sensation, self-pleasure rituals, sensual confidence, sexual blueprint awareness, sexual confidence, sexual curiosity, sexual discovery, sexual fluidity, sexual playfulness, sexual self-awareness, shared fantasies, slow-build desire, softness and strength, spanking guidance, spontaneous connection, spoken desire, stimulation variety, sucking dick enjoyment, talkative lovers, teasing and timing, threesomes with women and men, throat stimulation, trust-building through sex, unlearning porn habits, verbal arousal, vulnerability and receiving, walking embodiment, whole-body sensitivity, women-led pleasure, words of affirmation, worshipful sex, yearning for connection.

🔗 OLIVIA LINKS | @livvcarter / @livvonfilm / @notoliviabenson

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The fun of telling your top NO, sexual fluidity, surprisingly sensitive nipples, and polyamorous dating while married—Avalon shares how erotica, art, and deep, loving connections have helped her create a life of exploration that keeps her excited.

📈 STATS | 32 bisexual white Latina cis woman, she/her pronouns, in an 8 year relationship (married for 2) and actively dating, polyamorous, brat, into: talking about relationships, power dynamics, fluid sexuality, sensory stimulation, long-term connections, and never-ending evolution.

00:00 Learning about self-love through her first romantic relationship

06:14 Sensorial artistic delights and practicing self kindness

13:52 How an eight-year-long committed relationship helps her practice receiving

15:42 The magic of instant chemistry and self awareness of her relational needs

23:31 Expectationless expectations, partnership evolutions, and staying open to exploration

26:00 How having a bi partner helped her discover more about her own sexuality

28:00 Swinger parents influence on judgement-free love and open relationships

36:02 Learning how to process and communicate big emotions with a partner

38:10 Navigating social expectations around jealousy, internalized assumptions, and different communication styles

43:09 Knowing herself and noticing the patterns she received from trauma

44:59 A new era of non-monogamy and the roller coaster of dating on apps

50:10 A barroom quickie, a ghost, and setting goals for first dates

56:13 Best friend sexsplorations and learning different sides of herself come out with different partners

1:00:42 Needing an emotional connection for sex and the bests and worsts of online dating

1:04:17 Playful power dynamics and wanting partners to take control

1:09:36 Embracing and understanding her brattiness

1:17:20 Smutty book surprises and understanding compulsive heterosexuality

1:21:01 Learning about sex from insightful, playful podcasts 

1:24:44 A desire for beautiful, sensual porn 

1:28:33 Exploring her queerness and relationship through nude self portraiture 

1:32:14 Understanding non-monogamous sexual attraction and navigating societal expectations of envy 

1:36:31 Threesomes with her husband and best friend and the joy of being the center of attention 

1:41:48 Reflecting on internal jealousy and creating the right circumstances for physical intimacy 

1:46:44 What she finds hot in fiction vs turn-ons in real life 

1:49:15 Favorite positions and how she hits on her partner 

1:55:51 Embracing overstimulation and the magic of air sucker clit stimulators 

1:59:20 Exploring restraints and where she likes being bitten 

2:06:50 Playful brattiness and subverting gender roles in the bedroom 

2:09:39 Favorite adult toys, a love of edging, and pillow humping preferences 

2:13:49 Reverse harem and overstimulation dreams 

2:16:30 Open to more: sex parties, hot accents, and dating women 

2:20:19 Spreading love via clear expectations, RPGs with friends, and thoughtfully connecting with every person she meets

🤩 TOPICS | Aftercare, air sucker toys, alternative relationship structures, artistic self-expression, authentic communication, autonomy in relationships, barroom sex stories, best friend intimacy, bisexual discovery, body confidence, boundaries and consent, brattiness in bed, chemistry and connection, clear communication, clitoral stimulation, commitment and freedom, compulsive heterosexuality, conscious non-monogamy, creative sensuality, dating apps, deep listening, desire for women, emotional intelligence, emotional intimacy, erotic art, erotic fiction, erotic self-portraiture, erotica inspiration, exploration through play, fantasy fulfillment, female pleasure, fluid sexuality, ghosting, group sex, healthy jealousy, hitting on your partner, honesty and vulnerability, hot accents, intimacy through creativity, jealousy in open relationships, kink exploration, knowing your needs, loving boundaries, mindful sex, mirror photography, mutual pleasure, nipple sensitivity, nude art, open marriage, open relationships, oral play, orgasm control, overstimulation, partners taking control, pillow humping, playfulness in sex, polyamorous marriage, power dynamics, praise and teasing, receiving love, relationship evolution, relationship growth, relationship patterns, respectful dominance, restraints, reverse harem fantasies, roleplay and imagination, romantic exploration, safe sexual exploration, self-awareness, self-connection, self-discovery through love, self-kindness, sensual communication, sensual curiosity, sensual photography, sensual play, sex party curiosity, sexploration, sexual artistry, sexual boundaries, sexual confidence, sexual creativity, sexual desire, sexual exploration, sexual fluidity, sexual fulfillment, sexual healing, sexual openness, sexual self-expression, sexual storytelling, sexual surrender, sex-positive mindset, sexploration with friends, smutty books, social expectations, soft domination, swinger parents, threesomes, thoughtful non-monogamy, trauma awareness, trust and vulnerability, vulnerability in relationships.

🔗 AVALON LINKS | @evermorelore.art

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BDSM, Catholic guilt, and a foot fetish—Spike shares how living in a cage for a year helped them become a community-building Dominant with an insatiable thirst for more.

📈 STATS | 37 queer polyamorous gender nonconforming latinx human, they/them/he pronouns, married to partner of 13 years, artist, producer, entertainer, performer, gogo dancer, onlyfans creator, Southern California, into: feet, spit, cages, BDSM, Dominance, submission, drag.

00:00 Feeling love through movement, intimacy, and creating community

02:19 Why Spike loves tall nerds, clumsy weirdos, and lovers who help him learn

05:40 Catholic altar boy guilt and reflecting on shame with partners

07:51 Taking control and inviting audience and partners into play

11:37 Embracing being nasty and a suitcase full of safety

15:23 Discovering sex, reclaiming their body, and post cum clarity

19:56 Survival sex work, living in a cage, and unlocking sexual freedom

26:06 Dominance, secrecy, and tips for topping

31:08 Turned on by dancing for money and attention

34:30 What Spike loves about carnal and casual intimacy

36:36 Highly sensitive nipples and tender sensuality

41:01 Spit, self-flagellation, and casting spells

44:01 Solo toy explorations, strokers, and masturbation climaxes

46:56 Personal and pro partnered play

52:36 Foot play, power dynamics, and leather

58:15 Drag shows, male attention, and trying new things

1:00:52 Loving community, communication, and consent

🤩 TOPICS | BDSM community, altar boy upbringing, anal play, armpit fetish, artistic expression, awakening sexuality, bisexual identity, body positivity, boot worship, breath play parallels, cage training, Catholic upbringing, communication and consent, community building, crossdressing and drag, cultural shame, cum clarity, dancing for money, degradation kink, dominant and submissive dynamics, drag queen performances, emotional aftercare, erotic exploration, feet and foot play, financial domination, flogging rituals, gender expression, go-go dancing, healing through kink, humiliation play, impact play, intimacy and touch, kink education, leather fetish, living in a cage, male-presenting attraction, masturbation rituals, money kink, nipple sensitivity, non-monogamy, oral pleasure, polyamorous relationships, power exchange, priest guilt, queer sexuality, reclaiming pleasure after trauma, ritualistic baths, safety protocols, self-acceptance, self-flagellation, self-pleasure, sensory play, sex education through performance, sex work survival, shame and religion, size difference dynamics, solo play, spit play, spiritual kink, submissive training, taboo desires, tattoo symbolism, teaching consent in nightlife, toy exploration, touch boundaries, trauma healing, trust and vulnerability, undergarment shows, worship dynamics.

🔗 SPIKE LINKS | @spikeprinceofcats / @spikesauce7 / OF

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Luna revisits her very first episode where she interviews herself and updates it with her current, six-years-later perspective and reflections.

00:00 Inspirations of MeToo and sex ed gaps

04:11 Reflections on oversharing, shame, friendship and parasocial relationships

08:09 Updates on sexuality labels, erotic artistry and sex work

10:12 Formative experiences, masturbation discovery

15:20 Understanding rejection and communication

18:45 First blowjob experiences, deep throat learning

24:30 Evolution of oral sex skills and preferences

29:15 BDSM discovery and communication growth

35:22 Safety protocols and boundary setting

41:08 Protection discussions and body hair preferences

47:33 Updated views on hygiene and consent

52:16 Relationship styles and touch needs

1:04:22 Professional boundaries and parasocial dynamics

1:11:08 Double penetration hopes and gangbang fantasy sharing

1:19:54 Evolution of fantasies and connection needs

1:30:12 What makes me go WOO? The moon, croissants, and learning from others

1:31:30 How learning about others' experiences shapes understanding of connection

1:33:37 The reality of projections in new relationships and meeting expectations

1:35:14 My obsession with "lining things up"

1:37:41 How “lining things up” applies to photography, podcasting, and all creative work

1:40:19 How I woo me: the importance of alone time

1:45:06 How to woo me: food, touch, and engagement with creative work

1:48:55 Building safety and trust in relationships

1:50:44 Requirements for physical intimacy and love of clear containers

1:54:22 Evolution from early podcast days to embracing all erotic arts

1:56:56 Dreams of creating edurotic content and spaces

2:00:13 Ongoing learnings navigating personal relationships

2:01:29 Health, safety, and communication practices

2:05:02 Patterns of boundaries in vanilla vs kinky connections

2:15:52 Ongoing project: organizing my ultimate bucket list of pleasure exploration

2:21:56 Vision for Explicit Negotiation edurotic series

2:32:15 Future goals: redefining sex education and creating safe spaces for deep connection

2:35:12 Dreams of co-creating a more connected, loving world together

🔗 | PEOPLE & RESOURCES MENTIONED

Marc Brackett (Yale researcher, creator of RULER emotional intelligence program) - marcbrackett.com

Lisa Feldman Barrett (Neuroscientist, emotions researcher) - lisafeldmanbarrett.com

Esther Perel (Psychotherapist, relationships expert) - estherperel.com

Brené Brown (Researcher focusing on vulnerability and shame) - brenebrown.com

Andrew Huberman (Stanford neuroscientist, host of Huberman Lab podcast) - hubermanlab.com

Emily Nagoski (Sex educator and researcher, writer on sexuality and stress) - emilynagoski.com

Amelia Nagoski (Choral conductor, co-author on burnout research)

Cherie DeVille (Adult performer, former pod guest) - cheriedeville.com

Ophelia Kaan (Adult performer) - x.com/OpheliaKaan

Tyler Poelle (Acting teacher at Lesly Kahn) - tylerpoelle.com

Show Me by Will McBride and Dr. Helga Fleischhauer-Hardt

Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown

Hot Sex: How to Do It by Tracey Cox

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

Come Together by Emily Nagoski

Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily & Amelia Nagoski

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A mailbag episode of questions and celebrations, plus Kimberly joins Luna for reflections on six years of sex podcast learnings.

00:00 What we’ve learned about human connection

10:04 How we’ve noticed people relate to sex

17:08 What Kimberly has learned about herself

23:48 What Luna has learned about herself

31:18 What we’re most excited about for this podcast going forward

41:30 Q: How do you prepare for anal play?

53:11 Q: How can I invite my boyfriend to initiate sex more?

1:01:39 Q: How do we keep the honeymoon phase?

1:11:08 Q: I am exploring BDSM and power exchange relationships with my partner for the first time—where do I start?

1:19:54 Q: How do I support my wife in feeling empowered and comfortable with her sexuality?

1:24:53 A noodle on three types of love

1:31:02 Vacuum fetish follow-up

1:35:08 A celebration of cum shots and facials

1:38:38 The email that saved the podcast and sweet messages

📚 BOOKS MENTIONED |

Range by David Epstein

Existential Kink by Carolyn Elliott

Anal Pleasure & Health by Jack Morin

Nina Hartley’s Guide to Total Sex by Nina Hartley

Come Together by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Come As Your Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Sex Talks by Vanessa and Xander Marin

The Men on My Couch by Dr Brandy Engler and David Rensin

The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

Playing Well With by Others by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams

The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino

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I tried to get AI to help me organize the 800ish things on my erotic bucket list…it tried. The work in progress continues!

00:00 Bucket list overview and embracing the spirit of play

10:42 Intimacy, sluttiness, and kissing

18:48 The hotness of specificity and building tension

20:53 Thigh sex, grinding, and condom masturbation

27:04 Light scratching and discovering how partners pleasure themselves

32:06 Playing with anal, nipples, and fluids

37:53 Oral sex and nonverbal communication

46:10 Rimming and 69ing

48:28 Learnings about mobility and partnered play

51:35 Creating caring sexual spaces

55:09 The configurations of group play

58:21 Bathing and body explorations

1:03:03 Playing with ice cubes, hot stones, silk, and more

1:07:39 Massages, foot worship, and hair care

1:12:37 Tantric breathing, reading erotica, and mirror play

1:18:55 Organizing, AI inaccuracies, and edurotic creation dreams

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BDSM, female Domination and non-monogamy—Miss Butter shares her evolution from Lifestyle Dominant lover to ProDomme while navigating family life.

📈 STATS | 50 demisexual Jewish woman, she/her pronouns, ENM, married in a relationship of 30 years, Los Angeles based, into: Dominance, BDSM, group play, lifestyle Domination.

00:00 Discovering the joys of sex and how she became a virgin again

06:46 Dissolving her own shame parenting a teenage daughter

10:54 Selective penetration and boundaries for different partners

15:03 New partner negotiations and playing safely with toys

22:22 How she loves making client’s dreams come true

24:07 A life-changing strip club make-out session

28:47 What it’s like to be a Domme married to a Dom in a Female-Led Relationship (FLR)

34:55 Finding fellow lifestyle FemmeDommes and creating safety for male submissives

39:44 Priorities in polyamory, community, and playing without her husband

48:40 Studying BDSM formally and expanding play into work as a ProDomme

54:10 Building Lifestyle relationships with clients

58:26 Creating physical fantasy spaces, meeting desires in surprising ways, and intentional healing

1:05:35 Aftercare, favorite toys, and synchronized heartbeats 

1:09:36 Parenting while kinky and the positive effect of openness to questions

1:16:30 Coming out as a ProDomme to her kids

1:22:21 How she aspires to create community and spread ethical Dominance

1:24:46 Staying curious and how to find your “real true Domme”

🤩 TOPICS | Aftercare rituals, ADHD and sexuality, affirming dominance, age of first sexual experiences, alternative relationship models, artistic BDSM scenes, authentic connection, authority exchange, boundary setting, caregiving dominance, client relationships, creative roleplay, demi-sexual identity, ethical kink, ethical parenting, ethical polyamory, evolving sexuality, female-led marriage, feminist dominance, fetish education, finding femme Doms, fluid bonding conversations, group play, hairbrush spanking, healing through kink, household power exchange, impact play, kink coaching, kink community building, kink negotiation, kink safety, latex fantasies, lifestyle dominance, lifestyle Domme stories, love and trust in polyamory, mindful kink, nurturing dominance, open marriage, orgasm control, parenting and sexuality, poly dynamics, poly family structure, poly lessons, power exchange philosophy, professional Domme work, ProDomme journey, psychological dominance, sensual creativity, sensory exploration, sex-positive parenting, sexual agency, sexual boundaries, sexual healing, sexual neurodivergence, sexual openness, sexual storytelling, spanking scenes, submissive coaching, submissive empowerment, submissive rights, suspension play, threesomes with female partners, trauma healing through BDSM, trust in dominance, vanilla curiosity, vulnerability in kink, warrior latex rituals, women in dominance, working with submissives, worship scenes.

🔗 MISS BUTTER LINKS | supersweetbutter.com

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Camming, pornography, and indulgent edging—Mia shares how she went from repressed Catholic schoolgirl to sexually liberated professional girlfriend.

📈 STATS | 35 bisexual white cis femme, she/her pronouns, single, monogamous, polyamorous, professional girlfriend, Orlando based, into: cum denial, edging, mutual worship, vacation sex

00:00 Practicing safer sex and why she always carries a wide range of condom sizes

06:44 Hands-free masturbation and sex beyond genitals

09:00 What Mia loves about sex

10:55 Shooting porn and risk aware play

14:18 How Catholic private school made her a “repressed slut”

18:15 Discovering partnered pleasure through a double-ended dildo

20:59 Cam girl origins

24:23 Fostering relationships and intimacy with clients

29:53 How sex work influences her personal life

33:28 JOIs, immersive cum denial, and how to edge your partner

40:14 What Mia’s pussy loves and communicating what she needs to lovers

46:07 The realities of camming and making joke porn

50:13 Competitive squirting and specialty dildos

54:07 Anal and orgies in a party hostel

58:43 Dreams of church threesomes and a world without stigma

🤩 TOPICS | Anal sex, anxiety around orgasm, bisexual experiences, bodily fluids, Catholic guilt, Catholic school repression, Catholic schoolgirl fantasies, cam girl life, camming relationships, clitoral sensitivity, come denial, communication in bed, consent conversations, creative porn concepts, double-ended dildo, edging practices, erotic photography, ethical porn production, facial fetishes, fingering techniques, fluid bonding, group sex experiences, hands-free masturbation, health education, immersive JOI, intimacy with clients, internal condoms, intuitive lovers, joke porn, kink awareness, kissing orgasms, luxury sex sessions, masturbation meditation, micro penis appreciation, mutual worship, non-monogamous experiences, online intimacy, OnlyFans artistry, orgasm control, pegging scenes, personal sexual growth, polyamorous dynamics, porn production, pornographer insights, praise and worship sex, professional girlfriend lifestyle, safer sex education, sexual agency, sexual boundaries, sexual shame healing, sexual skill development, sexual stamina, sex work realities, slow oral sex, squirting techniques, testing and consent, toy variety, vibe curation, voyeurism, women loving women desires.

🔗 MIA LINKS | miafiorelli.com / OF / @realmiaxo / @miafiorellixo 

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Polyamory, stripping, exhibitionism, and bisexuality—Miss Tori is a mum of eight who talks openly with her kids about her active sex life and is constantly making new discoveries. 

She is joined by her daughter Bebe Bubbles (eps 280 & 282) for an in-depth look at her sexy evolution!

📈 STATS | 48 queer bisexual Australian woman, she/her pronouns, polyamorous, bratty switch, married 10 years, dating 9 months, mother of 8, works with disadvantaged youth, former stripper/model, into: women, swinging, exhibitionism, submission, festivals.

00:00 Accidentally forming a throuple and why she’s always been open about sex

04:55 Bisexuality, figuring out communication, and creating a safe gathering space

12:59 What Miss Tori learned from Bebe about sex

15:49 How being open about sex with Bebe and her friends turned her into the “cool” mom

21:52 The intricacies of Domme-ing

24:56 Wanting to be dominated by women

30:59 Bratty discoveries and magical feminine energetic connections

34:48 Discovering her power over men, attraction to women, and the joys of sneaky beach sex

41:16 How becoming a stripper balanced out her good girl tendencies

45:51 Poly communication wins

48:53 Navigating marriage, a new girlfriend, and shifting desires 

53:15 Experiences with women and new levels of sex 

56:48 Changing attractions, attachment struggles, and living for herself 

1:04:19 Exploring kink and learning to squirt 

1:08:00 Jealousy, the hotness of meeting needs, and how Bebe's experiences mirror her mum's 

1:15:55 How orgasms are different with other women 

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