In this episode, Chip and Gini discuss the importance of mentorship for small agency employees. They explore various approaches including informal and formal mentorships, organic development of mentor-mentee relationships, and bringing in external consultants for mentorship.

Gini shares her personal experiences, highlighting the challenges of forced mentorship and the benefits of organically developed relationships.

The hosts emphasize the need for managers to support and mentor their employees, leveraging both internal and external resources, and the value of making time to mentor individuals outside one’s own organization.

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Chip Griffin: Hello and welcome to another episode of the Agency Leadership Podcast. I’m Chip Griffin.

Gini Dietrich: And I’m Gini Dietrich.

Chip Griffin: And Gini, I think I need a mentor to help me through this whole podcasting process. Can you be my mentor?

Gini Dietrich: Yes, I would love to. Thank you.

Chip Griffin: Excellent. Excellent. So we are going to talk about mentorship today because this is something that I think a lot of small agency owners may realize that their team members need.

I mean, they may need it themselves too, but we’re going to focus on it from an employee standpoint. You know, you’ve got, you’ve got employees, you want to try to help them to get to the next level in their careers. But honestly, most owners don’t tend to invest a lot of time in it themselves as far as helping to bring along team members because they’re all caught up in the day to day.

And honestly, I think a lot struggle with how do I even do this effectively? And so I’ve seen a lot of different things over the years. I’ve seen forced mentorships in larger agencies where people are like, okay, you five new employees, you’re going to have designated mentors. And so they just assign people. I’ve, I’ve seen ones where people are encouraged to get mentors, but not given any guidance as to how to find them or how does it work?

And so I think the, the question really becomes whether it’s a mentor or something similar, how do you help your team members get to where they need to be to, to be that future employee and not just a current employee?

Gini Dietrich: Yeah, I think it’s… They, they’re, I think you made this point somewhere along the line too, but it’s, it’s less, sometimes it’s not formal.

Sometimes it really is, you know, for me, I’ve had situations where I’ve been informal mentors to clients. Like especially their, their young professionals on their marketing and comms teams. And where I have found that people look to me as their mentor, whether or not it’s formal is when I’m helping them with professional development and teaching and explaining. And so, you know, lots of one to one meetings or lots of education during meetings or it’s that kind of stuff. Like it’s helping them learn the next step in their job and, and kind of think through their career path. And, and like I said, maybe it’s formal and maybe it’s not, but as agency owners, I think we can think about that. Like how, how we’re best suited and you know, we can’t be a mentor to everybody, a formal mentor to everybody on our teams.

But we are best suited to be able to say, okay, your strengths lie here, so I can see that you would go here, but having that conversation to say, hey, listen, you know, what do you, what do you want out of your career? Where do you think you’re going? How can we help you get there? And then say, here are the strengths that I see that you have.

Let’s work on this together. So it could be part of a formal review process. It could be an informal, like, this is just how we run things. It could be part, it could be part of your culture. But there is the opportunity for all of us to really look at the people that we work with and say these are your strengths, let me help you play to them so that you can progress your career.

Chip Griffin: Yeah, and to your point, I mean, I think that my own view is that the, the, the best mentorships develop organically. They are not, they’re not thrust upon you. They are not something where you’re actively seeking a mentor. It’s one where, you know, perhaps you’ve got a current or former boss who just, you know, really that you click with, both professionally and personally, and you can have open, honest conversations. I would say it’s generally, mentors are generally better when they’re not doing a performance review of you, but you can still, you can still be a mentor if you are the direct supervisor of an individual. And I think Managers in general need to view part of their role as being a mentor, even if it is not in a more formal organized sense, right?

We need to be thinking about all of our team members who report to us in a way of how can we be helpful to them? And it, it shouldn’t be just, how can I be helpful to them in terms of what’s good for, for me in my role or my business, but how can I help them advance? Because if you help them move forward, that is ultimately good for you. It may not be exactly what you want when they decide they’re going to go off somewhere else, but down the road, they might become a new client, or they might be a boomerang employee, or all sorts of potential opportunities for you. So, so you need to give selflessly of yourself to the people who report to you. But in general, mentors are people that, that, that the individual just really meshes with.

And I, I think it’s really hard to force that. And I’ve seen a lot of mentorship programs that, that try to do it in a more organized way and it’s better than nothing, but it doesn’t work at the same level of effectiveness as ones that develop organically.

Gini Dietrich: I’m sure I’ve told this story before because it was very traumatizing for me, but I was probably a year and a half or two years out of college and I worked with a woman who was on a PIP.

And my boss came to me and said, Hey, we want to give you some leadership and mentorship experience. We’d like you to work with her for the next 30 days as she’s on this PIP to see if you can get her out of it. To see if you can get her to exceed these goals. And at the time, you know, I’m a year and a half or two years out of college and I’m a young whippersnapper.

I really thought I could help her do it. It was the most awkward, unsuccessful thing probably I’ve ever done. Because she didn’t want anything to do with me. She was older than me, and had more experience than I did, and was like, what do you mean I have to work with her? I don’t like her. I don’t trust her.

Like, all of these things, and I’m like, I can help you so you don’t get scared, right? It’s terrible. But they wanted to give me that quote unquote experience. To be able to say, okay, these are the kinds of things that you should be thinking about. And, and truthfully, it did give me the experience to be able to understand what works and what doesn’t and what a mentorship, mentorship should look like.

But it was a very, very awkward experience and truth be told, she, she didn’t make it the full 30 days. She, I think she quit after two and a half weeks. It was terrible. It was terrible.

Chip Griffin: I mean, a PIP is the last time, you don’t want to be setting up a mentorship when someone’s in a PIP. I mean, PIPs are awful anyway.

I’ve talked about this before. PIPs are stupid. PIPs are only to CYA. And if you actually think a PIP is going to work, you’re crazy.

Gini Dietrich: It doesn’t. Yeah.

Chip Griffin: But, but that is the, the time to look for and try to facilitate mentorships is when someone is doing generally well or is fairly new and you don’t have a lot of…that they shouldn’t be used as a corrective measure. And I have seen that before, where you, whether, maybe it’s even someone who’s not on a PIP, but someone just, you know, the boss feels like that, this person just needs a little help in progressing, they’re not quite where they need to be, maybe we’re not at a PIP, but we, we still want to help them out, and so a mentor is the solution. Not the solution. Mentors help you to become even better, they don’t generally serve to fix something that is wrong. And so if you’re looking at it that way, you’re, you’re probably going about it the wrong way.

But let’s say that you’ve got a team and, and you, you’ve got some, some more junior employees who you think would benefit from mentorship, you know, how do you try to arrange for them to find those opportunities? And I think it’s a little bit more challenging today where we don’t have the same natural connection points because we’re not in offices in the same way that we used to be.

And, and this is, while I, I generally, believe in, in remote work, this is one of the areas where I think it does create additional challenges because in the old days, you could build some of these relationships by going out for coffee or hanging out at the water cooler or the copy machine or the fax machine or all those things that we used to have back in the day that, you know, you younguns who are listening to us are like, what’s a fax machine?

I, I’ve heard them reference it in a doctor’s office, but I don’t know, I don’t know what it is. So, you know, how do you…

Gini Dietrich: The server, hang out at the server.

Chip Griffin: Yeah. So how do you, how do you help out team members to find mentorship relationships or, or build them in some fashion?

Gini Dietrich: I think it depends, which is the key to our podcast in general.

Chip Griffin: Indeed. We could just say that just, I mean, every episode, it depends and then walk away.

Gini Dietrich: See you later. Okay. Peace out. You know, I think it depends on what the goals are and what your culture is like and what the person or the team has in mind. In some cases, the mentor might be external and it might be somebody who can help them with

networking or with leadership skills or pitching new business or whatever it happens to be, right? And it might be external. So it’s, I think you’re right when you said earlier that it’s really about somebody that you bond with and that you, because the real key to it is you have to trust one another and you have to trust that they have your best interests at heart.

And if it’s somebody internal, that’s a little more challenging because you have to trust that they have your best interests at heart. And sometimes your best interest doesn’t align with the company’s best interest. Because it, that may be that your best interest is your employee’s best interest might be that, you know, two or three years from now they leave the organization to go on to do something else.

And the company’s best interest is to keep them here, right? So you also have to keep that in mind that a really good mentor mentee relationship is the mentor keeps the, their, their mentee’s best interest at heart, even if it’s not the best thing for the organization. So, so it may be internal and it may not, it just depends.

Chip Griffin: Yeah, I mean, I think there are absolutely pros and cons to both. And, you know, I think in an ideal world, it would be someone external because it does give you additional freedom. At the same time, someone who is, is internal can also commiserate with you in a way that that someone external might not be able to or they would understand some of the specific unique challenges that you have without you having to explain it in excruciating detail.

You know, well, why is this person difficult to work with? Why are the expectations, you know, it requires you to go through a lot more. Now there’s benefits to explaining those things sometimes, because sometimes being forced to explain what the problem is can help you to see it more clearly yourself. But nevertheless, I think there are, there are clearly advantages and disadvantages to each approach.

I will say that, you know, I’ve seen a couple of different approaches that organizations have taken to facilitating mentorships when they’re not organic. I think that there are, again, pros and cons to each. The first one is sort of, and I’ve been part of mentorship programs like these where it’s sort of a speed dating approach where you have a group of potential mentors and you have a group of potential mentees and you do the whole speed dating thing.

You go around, you sit and you talk for, you know, two or three minutes. And then at the end, the mentees typically will make a list of their preferred mentors and then some organizer will make matches for that. And that’s, there’s, there’s one particular program where I’ve done that, multiple times with, and I will say that those are, it’s hit or miss.

Because you still run into the issue of, you know, maybe in those two or three minutes that you had, you know, during the speed dating thing, you know, there were some connection or, or maybe, maybe there even wasn’t, but, but the, the mentee wanted to work with you because of what you do and who they think you can open doors to or whatever.

And so, you know, I, I think that there are some challenges there, but it, it, it ends up getting you a mentor mentee relationship at least. And so it can be productive from that standpoint that you actually are moving the ball forward and some of them will survive the long term and some, you know, will fade out after three, four or five months, whatever.

But it still can be beneficial to the individual if they’ve never had a mentor before to sort of see what it might look like. And so they can start thinking that through. So that is, that is certainly one approach to consider. Probably you would need to have a larger small agency. You know, 20, 30 employees as opposed to two or three employees, because obviously it doesn’t make as much sense if you’re really small.

Gini Dietrich: Yeah. I think the other thing you can do is you can encourage your team to look to people they respect in the industry. You know, if there are thought leaders or industry influencers that they really respect or they like the way that they think, that’s a good way to do it. You know, I probably get

I don’t know, a handful of requests every year from especially young women who are looking for mentors to help them kind of through their career path. So, and I almost always say yes, you know, and certainly depends on how busy we are, but I almost always say yes. So I think that that’s a good opportunity too, to look at, you know, thought leaders, subject matter experts and industry influencers that, that your team respects.

And have them reach out, have them do the, the work to set to, to figure out if this is the right person and, and do the informational interview and, you know, do all the things that they need to do to make sure it’s the right person for that. But really support them in being able to do that.

Chip Griffin: Yeah, no, I, I think, and I think that the agency owners ought to be open to being mentors to people outside of your own organization.

You know, you do have to be reasonable and not say yes to so many that you, you really can’t give the mentee what they’re looking for or what they need, right? Because then you’re not really serving them anymore. But I, but I, I think that’s less of a problem for most people than simply not saying yes enough.

Because there’s, there’s this fear, I don’t have time for this. Make time. It’s, to me it’s, it’s like the pick the brain conversations that, that people are, I don’t have time for that, you gotta pay me for that. No. Look, if, if someone, if someone reaches out to you for career advice, wants to, to work with you potentially as a mentor, you ought to be open to it and try to find a way to make it work.

Because you probably had people like that in your career that helped you to get where you are. And so you, I believe, you have an obligation to give back in some way. Now, if it’s not a fit or you just literally do not have time, it is what it is, right? Be honest with the person. But at the same time, lean towards saying yes as opposed to instinctively saying, Oh my God, I don’t have time for this.

Gini Dietrich: Yeah, and I will say that, first of all, it doesn’t take that much time. It really doesn’t.

Chip Griffin: It shouldn’t. If it does, then it’s not a mentor mentee relationship. You’re a free therapist or something.

Gini Dietrich: Right. Fair. But it almost, I mean, karma is great. It always, almost always benefits you in the long run. Like, I have someone that I mentored years and years and years ago, and she’s at her third company now where they’ve hired us.

So, we, my agency essentially follows her to every job, and it’s because of that relationship that we developed probably a decade ago. So. There are always benefits to it. It’s longer term. It’s a longer term investment for sure, but there are always benefits.

Chip Griffin: Absolutely. Now, the other thing that I’ve seen, this is, this tends to be again in more mid sized organizations, but I’ve seen, it’s not quite a true mentorship, but I’ve seen where the organization has brought in a consultant coach type who serves a similar mentor type role to individuals.

And sometimes it’s with, and it, I wouldn’t call it a true like executive coaching kind of thing. It’s not true mentorship. It’s kind of a hybrid.

Gini Dietrich: Yep.

Chip Griffin: But, but someone who can come in who has experience either on the human resources side of things or on the actual agency side or something like that, who can share perspective.

Now, the trick here is that if you’re bringing in someone from the outside who is paid by the agency, that the employees have to feel like they can still open up. So it’s going to take some time for that person effectively to prove themselves to the team that they can be trusted with your deepest, darkest secrets, professionally speaking.

Because if someone can’t open up to you, then you can’t have a productive mentoring or coaching or any kind of relationship like that. But it is, it, it, particularly if, if you are, if you really want to provide that kind of guidance and help and support for team members and you just, you don’t have the means to do it internally, bringing in someone from the outside can get you probably 80 percent of the way there.

Obviously it requires an investment. It will take time for the trust to build, but that is another option that I have seen.

Gini Dietrich: Yeah. And to that end, Vistage, which is a worldwide organization for, started out for CEOs, but now has grown into all leaders, has a new emerging leaders program. I want to say it’s like 1200 bucks, maybe two grand a year.

 But you can do something like that too, where you, they, they can go into that program and it teaches them the leadership skills they need. You know, all of the things that they need to help you grow your, your business. Plus it gives them a group of people. That they can trust and they sort of quote unquote grow up with that they aren’t working directly with day to day and that’s pretty successful too.

Chip Griffin: Yeah, and, and, and that’s the other thing to consider is that, you know, there are a lot of more modern approaches to mentorship because of all the technology and tools that we have here, available to us. And, and certainly, you know, we see that regularly in the Spin Sucks community where there are, you know, more junior communicators or marketers in there who are asking questions and building relationships with folks.

And so there are a lot of these kinds of things out there that you can take advantage of and you can encourage your team to take advantage of as well. So that, you know, again, it’s, it’s not the same as a one on one mentorship, but there are, there are a lot of different ways to get the resources and support that you need in order to advance your career and help your team members advance their careers.

And so you ought to be taking advantage of everything that’s out there.

Gini Dietrich: Absolutely. Yeah, I think it’s a good idea. It helps everybody. It helps you in the long run. It helps them for sure. And like you said, there, it may be that they leave and come back. I mean, they’re always, I wouldn’t, I wouldn’t shy away from it just because you think they’re going to grow out of working with you because that’s going to happen anyway. And there’ll be opportunities for you to maybe bring them back later.

Chip Griffin: Absolutely. So, find a way to, to support your team members, find a way to, to help them find mentorships and, and cultivate mentorships and become mentors themselves, and you should be one as well. With that, that will draw to an end this episode of the Agency Leadership Podcast.

I’m Chip Griffin.

Gini Dietrich: I’m Gini Dietrich.

Chip Griffin: And it depends.