Don't feel too bad about hitting the play button on this episode, brother.

There are many, many thousands of men stuck in the same position you are.

You settle for infrequent pity sex, you feel bad about it, you start becoming resentful, and you have absolutely no idea how to get yourself out of this mess.

You may even have an excuse or two in your back pocket, ready to justify the fact that your sex life is mediocre.

But...

We believe Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives, and if you can handle the initial discomfort of owning up to WHY you're here in the first place...we can help you get unstuck and turn your marriage bed back into a place of desire, passion, and deep connection.

Get ready to learn how to toss the pity sex and have your wife deeply attracted to you again.

In This Episode:

0:00 Intro

2:14 How couples end up having "pity sex"

11:35 How to lead your wife through periods where sex might start to feel (or become) transactional

14:33 Prayer to improve your sex life?

22:26 The Martha Stewart Interlude (men's vs. women's egos)

29:00 How to reconcile with the fact that you're responsible for the current state of your sex life

32:23 Stop putting limitations on God

37:11 Dealing with your victim mentality

40:37 Beating p*rn addiction with an aggressive offense

46:00 Getting off the couch and into the arena

Mentioned:

Extreme Ownership by Jocko

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Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.