Recovery FOR the Narcissist | Narcissism

How to Have Healthier Arguments


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In this episode of Recovery for the Narcissist, Dr. Eric Perry provides valuable insights on how to engage in healthier arguments, particularly for individuals exhibiting narcissistic tendencies. Recognizing that arguments are a natural part of relationships, Dr. Perry emphasizes the importance of constructive communication and conflict resolution.

Dr. Perry explains how arguments should be seen as heart-to-heart conversations rather than confrontations. He outlines practical strategies for managing disputes without causing harm, fostering a more respectful and understanding environment within relationships.

Key points covered include:

  • The importance of viewing arguments as opportunities for growth, not battles to win
  • Setting and respecting boundaries during arguments, avoiding Gottman’s Four Horsemen: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling
  • Techniques for active listening and ensuring both partners feel heard
  • The significance of reflecting on personal feelings and addressing one issue at a time
  • The need to maintain civility, avoid name-calling, and refrain from yelling during disputes
  • Utilizing “I” statements to express emotions and take responsibility for one’s feelings
  • Emphasizing the value of taking timeouts when emotions escalate
  • Understanding the role of compromise and agreeing to disagree when necessary
  • Providing a safe space for differing perspectives and validating each other’s experiences
  • Dr. Perry encourages listeners to be mindful of their communication styles and to strive for a balanced approach in arguments. By implementing these strategies, individuals can create a more positive and supportive relationship dynamic.

    Engaging in healthier arguments is crucial for maintaining strong and fulfilling relationships. Dr. Perry’s guidance offers practical steps to navigate conflicts with empathy and respect.

    Tune in to learn more about fostering constructive communication and resolving disputes effectively. Thank you for listening!


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    Disclaimer: The content contained in this podcast is for general information only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, assessment, diagnosis, or treatment. Listeners should not rely on the information provided for their own health needs. All specific questions should be presented to your own healthcare provider. Listening to this podcast in no way creates a professional/working relationship between the listener and the host. If at any time you have an emergency while listening, please contact your local emergency center immediately.

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