This episode tackles the deep connection between our self-confidence and your ability to speak English fluently.

We'll explore how negative experiences—like embarrassing mistakes or awkward moments—can really knock us down and make us hesitate to use our English again. I share some personal stories, drawing from my own struggles, to emphasize that you're not alone in feeling this way.

We’ll also discuss two actionable strategies to help you recover from those tough moments: expressing what you feel and a zero pressure strategy that will ease you back into speaking English in no time - no matter how bad an experience you've just had.

Takeaways:

• Building self-confidence in speaking English is a gradual process! It takes time and persistence.
• Negative speaking experiences can deeply affect your confidence, but they don’t define you.
• It's crucial to express feelings of embarrassment or shame related to speaking mistakes. Don't bottle them up!
• Engaging passively in conversations is a helpful step to rebuild confidence after a big failure.
• Talking about negative experiences can provide perspective, helping you to move on.
• Having a supportive buddy can make it easier to join conversations and regain your confidence.

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Quote:

Social confidence can be developed by practicing in social settings. Individuals can observe the structure and flow of any conversation before jumping in, and they can prepare questions or topics to discuss ahead of time. - Psychology Today