A few weeks back we talked about the Invalidation Triple Threat.

That’s when you tell your wife:

-She’s wrong for what she’s thinking

-She’s wrong for what she’s feeling

-You’re right

This causes her to close her heart… and body… off from you.

We all do this sometimes, and luckily we can reverse it by reversing those 3 steps:

-Tell her how you were wrong for responding the way you did

-Understand how she could feel that way

-Understand how she could think that way

This helps her feel safe and open her mind, heart and body more to you.

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MytcPIKG2xk


Dr. Mike

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