Do you have to do things?

Work? Be a good dad? Be a good husband?

Do your kids have to do things? Get their jobs done? Go to school?

Does your wife have to do things? Give you attention, appreciation, affection and sex?

Here’s the thing.

When we think we and others HAVE TO do things…

It creates BURDEN.

And, most people don’t want to be in a relationship that feels like a burden.

Instead, what do you WANT to create in your relationships?

And how can you align what you want with what the important people in your life want?

This question unlocks creativity, freedom and happy relationships.

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0DMR62z2mgA

Dr. Mike

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I know. We talk about how you shouldn’t really need these things from your wife.

But, we all want them.

And, there’re nothing wrong with wanting them.

After a tough therapy session this week, God helped me understand how taking care of a wife actually works.

So that she freely gives attention, affection, appreciation and sex to her husband.

Learn what it is in today’s episode.

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

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Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hkvJVRQj50E

Dr. Mike

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What is your main goal as a husband?

What is your main goal as a father?

Not what are your many goals, but what is your MAIN goal?

If you haven’t really defined this, you’re probably optimizing for something unconscious.

And, that’s probably based on your own upbringing.

So, if you’re not quite getting the results you want as a husband and father…

It’s time to be more conscious of what you are optimizing for…

Defining it…

And working daily towards it.

Learn how in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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I had a tougher day today.

Wishing that my wife would give me more attention, appreciation, affection and sex.

Feeling like I couldn’t be happy until she did.

Then, God reminded me: Who is in charge of your happiness?

If I can only be happy if the people around me are acting certain ways…

I’m giving my power over to them.

Does that mean I just wait patiently forever and not get anything I want?

No. 

It means I ask for what I want, work with my wife and others to find win-wins, and set boundaries of what I will and will not do if my requests are not met.

That’s where wisdom, prayer, and coaching come in.

To help you learn to do that.

Dr. Mike

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When it comes to asking for what you want in marriage, men make some common mistakes:

-Not asking at all

-Asking in a passive aggressive way

-Pouting

-Asking in a demanding way

All of these are unattractive and unlikely to get what you want.

There is, however, a “goldilocks zone” that will give you the BEST chance of getting what you want in marriage.

Whether it’s attention, appreciation, affection, food, or sex…

There’s a formula that can help you get it.

Dr. Mike

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THANK YOU for your prayers to help me find freedom in relationships.

I had some MAJOR breakthroughs this week that have me feeling better than I EVER have in my marriage and as a father.

This one I think you should listen to vs giving you the highlights here.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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This week I need a break.

So, the podcast is just reminding me and you to rest when we need to.

Dr. Mike

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We all have rules for life.

The things that tell us how we’re supposed to act… and how other people are supposed to act.

Are you supposed to be in shape? What kind of shape?

Are you supposed to make money? How much money?

Are your kids supposed to listen to you? What if they don’t?

How is your wife supposed to treat you? What are her jobs?

We all have answers to these, but often we’re not totally aware of them.

But, aware of them or not, they run how we treat ourselves and others…

And they may not be taking us where we want to go.

Learn how to figure out and evaluate your rules for life…

So that you end up with the success you actually want…

In today’s episode.

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

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Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ZEPGqbQpMA

Dr. Mike

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I’m not sure what the next step is for you.

What needs to change to take you to new levels of joy and intimacy in your marriage.

But, God does.

So, instead of worrying about things never getting better…

Or setting a plan on your own…

Take some time alone and open yourself to receive the ideas, perspective changes or encouragement that God has for you.

I had a very meaningful shift this week that I share in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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We all have needs in relationships.

The trick in a marriage is figuring out…

Which needs are coming from a CHILDISH place…

And which needs are coming from an ADULT place.

If it’s coming from a CHILDISH place, it’s up to YOU to take care of that need.

If it’s coming from an ADULT place, it’s time to have a conversation with your wife and ask clearly for what you need.

But often to get to that adult place, you need to take care of younger you FIRST.

And adult you as well.

Learn my top 3 ways to take care of yourself…

So you can feel better and appropriately ask for what you want from your wife…

In today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

And to join us in becoming a truly powerful husband and father who creates a passionate, intimate marriage with his wife, a loving, mentoring relationship with his kids, and sets the example for generations to follow in Strong Men Strong Marriages.

Dr. Mike

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