Is your wife saying she doesn’t feel safe with you?

Are your kids staying away from you in certain situations?

Do your wife and kids shy away from sharing their emotions with you?

If so, there’s a lack of emotional safety in your family relationships.

And, if you want loving relationships with your kids…

And an intimate relationship with your wife…

You need to create emotional safety.

Learn how in today’s episode.

(And, by the way, it doesn’t mean that you have to be “emotionally perfect” to build emotional safety).

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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What do you do when your kid is scared?

Tell him not to be scared?

What do you do when you’re mad?

Yell at the person?

Tell yourself you shouldn’t feel that way?

The problem with this kind of response is that it doesn’t let the emotion move through and out of you.

Emotion means to move out.

Step 1 in tending to emotions is to acknowledge it’s there, and that it has a good reason to be there.

Do this with yourself and others and your relationships will improve immediately.

Step 2 is to let the emotion move you.

Learn more in today’s episode.

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QpHZWdoEVv0

Dr. Mike

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What do you want out of life?

Six pack abs?

Millions of dollars?

A life full of loving relationships?

Anything worthwhile also has a cost.

Are you willing to pay the price to have those things?

Learn how to evaluate that cost…

And how to create a community of people to help you keep going when you feel like it’s not worth it…

In today’s episode.

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JMlSxHQEuNY

Dr. Mike

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Do you have to do things?

Work? Be a good dad? Be a good husband?

Do your kids have to do things? Get their jobs done? Go to school?

Does your wife have to do things? Give you attention, appreciation, affection and sex?

Here’s the thing.

When we think we and others HAVE TO do things…

It creates BURDEN.

And, most people don’t want to be in a relationship that feels like a burden.

Instead, what do you WANT to create in your relationships?

And how can you align what you want with what the important people in your life want?

This question unlocks creativity, freedom and happy relationships.

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0DMR62z2mgA

Dr. Mike

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I know. We talk about how you shouldn’t really need these things from your wife.

But, we all want them.

And, there’re nothing wrong with wanting them.

After a tough therapy session this week, God helped me understand how taking care of a wife actually works.

So that she freely gives attention, affection, appreciation and sex to her husband.

Learn what it is in today’s episode.

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hkvJVRQj50E

Dr. Mike

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What is your main goal as a husband?

What is your main goal as a father?

Not what are your many goals, but what is your MAIN goal?

If you haven’t really defined this, you’re probably optimizing for something unconscious.

And, that’s probably based on your own upbringing.

So, if you’re not quite getting the results you want as a husband and father…

It’s time to be more conscious of what you are optimizing for…

Defining it…

And working daily towards it.

Learn how in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io

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I had a tougher day today.

Wishing that my wife would give me more attention, appreciation, affection and sex.

Feeling like I couldn’t be happy until she did.

Then, God reminded me: Who is in charge of your happiness?

If I can only be happy if the people around me are acting certain ways…

I’m giving my power over to them.

Does that mean I just wait patiently forever and not get anything I want?

No. 

It means I ask for what I want, work with my wife and others to find win-wins, and set boundaries of what I will and will not do if my requests are not met.

That’s where wisdom, prayer, and coaching come in.

To help you learn to do that.

Dr. Mike

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When it comes to asking for what you want in marriage, men make some common mistakes:

-Not asking at all

-Asking in a passive aggressive way

-Pouting

-Asking in a demanding way

All of these are unattractive and unlikely to get what you want.

There is, however, a “goldilocks zone” that will give you the BEST chance of getting what you want in marriage.

Whether it’s attention, appreciation, affection, food, or sex…

There’s a formula that can help you get it.

Dr. Mike

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THANK YOU for your prayers to help me find freedom in relationships.

I had some MAJOR breakthroughs this week that have me feeling better than I EVER have in my marriage and as a father.

This one I think you should listen to vs giving you the highlights here.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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This week I need a break.

So, the podcast is just reminding me and you to rest when we need to.

Dr. Mike

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