How To Rewrite Your Stars

Welcome, this week's guest Red Stafstrom!

Red Stafstrom has quite the story! He was a salesman that got down to the gritty work no one else wanted to do, cold calling and door to door sales. He got really good at what he did, selling vacuum cleaners, financial products, and cars. He did this for years until one day while selling security systems he had a complete mental breakdown. And it was big! After he realized that he had some rethinking to do, he launched Broken Salespeople, a place to help you fix your broken sales skills. https://www.brokensalespeople.com/

This week I talk with Red about his story, diving right into what he experienced and why he experienced it as well. Then we talk about what he's done since then and how he's helping others through sharing his journey. We transition later on to talking about vision boards and I share the 3rd vision board success that I had. The stuff in the middle though, that's some of the really neat stuff that we talked about!

In this season I'll be talking with my guests about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we'll transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I'll ask what experience they've had with them and share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that it is possible for you to do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life.

I also want to feature YOUR successes! So be sure to get in contact with me or use the Anchor service to send me a snippet of you sharing your Vision Board Success. Because we need to celebrate more successes. And I want to celebrate you!

Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to reach out to me so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them!

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

Also, you'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website here: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I've also got videos, links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. So head on over and see what's up!

Welcome, this week's guest Julie Cluff!

She's a grief coach, speaker, and the author of Miracles in the Darkness: Building a Life After Loss. She hopes that her experiences can bring light and encouragement to others who are grieving. She and her husband Ron have 6 beautiful children including 2 angels and 10 grandchildren. She shares a message of hope across many platforms, including podcasts, national radio, and television. Find her and her podcast at her website here: https://www.buildalifeafterloss.com/

This week I talk with her about her story and how she learned how to heal from the grief that has hit her really hard multiple times in her life. We then transition the talk after her story to explaining some more about vision boards and I share the 2nd vision board success that I had. Be sure to listen to the end of the episode to hear that bit.

As far as this season goes, everything is different! Well, not quite, but enough is that it's time to explain it all again.

Starting with this episode I'll be having a guest on almost all future episodes this season. With that guest, I'll be talking with them about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we'll transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I'll ask what experience they've had with them and share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that it is possible for you to do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life.

So again, welcome to Season 2!

I also want to feature YOUR successes! So be sure to get in contact with me or use the Anchor service to send me a snippet of you sharing your Vision Board Success. Because we need to celebrate more successes. And I want to celebrate you!

Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to reach out to me so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them!

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

Also, you'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website here: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I've also got videos, links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. So head on over and see what's up!

This is where things will start to get personal and vulnerable with me.

Welcome to Season 2!

I explained thoroughly in Season 1 about why and how to use a Vision Board. So if you don't know what's up there, then be sure to check out Season 1 to get the know-how of what I'll be sharing in Season 2.

This season what I'll be doing is sharing the successes I personally have had in my life since learning about Vision Boards.

Now, the reason (or the WHY) behind why I'm sharing these with you is (as I explain in the episode more thoroughly) for you to be able to say, "it's possible." and, "If he can do it, I can do it." As well as just letting you know it doesn't have to be super rigid on a lot of things. Yes, you still have to visualize and ask the questions in the right order to use a Vision Board the fastest way possible, but there's a LOT of stuff that doesn't have to be a certain way, it's customizable.

So in short, I want you to see that it is possible to get things off YOUR Vision Board, by proving it with examples from my own life.

I also want to feature YOUR successes! So be sure to get in contact with me or use the Anchor service to send me a snippet of you sharing your Vision Board Success. Because we need to celebrate more successes. And I want to celebrate you!

This episode covers the first success I had with my Vision Board. "Have 5 In Depth Chats with Different People"

Another *very fun* detail is that my fiancée, Kierra Hodges, (very soon to be my wife!!) is going to be doing this season with me, asking me questions so that it's more interactive and so you gain more insight from her as well.

Man, this is going to be so good!!

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

Also, you'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website here: Starlightmentoring.com I've got videos, links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos, as well as being able to work with me! Head on over and see what's up!

A while back I recorded an audio training to help people to truly express themselves, as themselves.

Today I'm sharing with you the first track from that audio training to be able to help you to get started understanding how to get past the societal norms that tell you how to live your life.

Be sure to listen to the very end for a special offer that I have for you.

Thanks for listening,

Benjamin Fincher

Here's the link that will take you to where you can get your own copy of "Expression", either in MP3 format or on a CD: https://www.starlightmentoring.com/shop

If you enjoyed today's episode then please share it with a friend! I want to help a lot of people with what I've learned, but I only can reach so many on my own and if you share then that's one more person that I can help!!

You'll find more awesome things that I do all in one place by checking out my website here: Starlightmentoring.com

Did you know that I also have a  YouTube channel? Cool, right?!? I just got it going, so the videos are just starting to roll out, but check it out here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQMxvUU3QltLvUxujp3sJ5Q

You've gained the vision, you've figured out why, got the questions down and learned the tool; what could possibly be left?!!?? One of the most important elements of getting a goal! That's what's left! Many people don't know it, but celebration is a super important part of achieving ANY goal. 

So tune in today to the last episode of the season to learn about how celebration relates to getting your goals, getting things off of your vision board and some cool ideas on how to celebrate!

Thanks for listening, 

Benjamin Fincher 

If you enjoyed today's episode then please share it with a friend! I want to help a lot of people with what I've learned, but I only can reach so many on my own and if you share then that's one more person that I can help!!

You'll find more awesome things that I do all in one place by checking out my website here: Starlightmentoring.com

Did you know that I also have a  YouTube channel? Cool, right?!? I just got it going, so the videos are just starting to roll out, but check it out here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQMxvUU3QltLvUxujp3sJ5Q

You know the basics behind achieving your vision now, you've done work on figuring out what exactly you want AND answered the questions to know more of how to get it done. What's next?

In this episode, I cover the tool that ties it all together. Because you've got the principles behind getting your vision, but how about a way to put it all into practice super easy AND accelerate your progress towards achieving your vision?

Tune in right now as I explain this tool that's helped me a ton!

Thanks for listening,

Benjamin Fincher

If you enjoyed today's episode then please share it with a friend! I want to help a lot of people with what I've learned, but I only can reach so many on my own and if you share then that's one more person that I can help!!

Okay, so you've got your vision detailed out, you've even got your WHY. But you might not be moving as quickly towards your vision as you would like, now why is that? Well, without the right questions, you can get stuck.

In this episode, I talk about the questions that will help move you towards achieving your vision a lot quicker than just having the vision and your WHY.

Thanks for listening,

Benjamin Fincher

If you enjoyed today's episode then please share it with a friend! I want to help a lot of people with what I've learned, but I only can reach so many on my own and if you share then that's one more person that I can help!!

From my last episode, you wrote down your vision, awesome! But now, WHY do you even want it? What is it that'll drive you to see it through? That's what I talk about in this episode, how having a "why" can move you to act on your vision. You've got this!!

Thanks for listening,

Benjamin Fincher

If you enjoyed today's episode then please share it with a friend! I want to help a lot of people with what I've learned, but I only can reach so many on my own and if you share then that's one more person that I can help!!

Welcome to the first episode of my podcast, How to Rewrite Your Stars!

In today's episode, I explore the first step to take in discovering and moving towards your vision of what you want in life. It's simpler than you might think, so get ready to start rewriting your stars and moving towards your very own vision for your life!!

Thanks for listening,

Benjamin Fincher

If you enjoyed today's episode then please share it with a friend! I want to help a lot of people with what I've learned, but I only can reach so many on my own and if you share then that's one more person that I can help!!