How To Rewrite Your Stars

Welcome, this week's guest Mark Fincher!

Mark Fincher is an expert on using the power of perception to improve outcomes through understanding relationships. He is a mentor and coach who looks to improve individual outcomes and group performance. He is a husband and father of five remarkable children seeking to constantly improve his ability to connect and influence his family for their good and the good of others. Links below!

It was awesome being able to have my dad on the show this week! Mark starts by sharing some of his experiences going through school as the "remedial kid" and how that affected his perceptions of himself and those around him growing up. He then shares about some of the key moments and people that helped to influence him to start realizing his greatness and capabilities. We then begin to talk about words and perceptions that can help us to grow and rewrite the stars in our lives. He covers his word for the year and what that means to him. I share the 22nd Vision Board Success that I've had and we wrap things up by making a couple more points about perceptions and being part of a family.

In this season I'm talking with my guests about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that you can do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life.

Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to fill out this questionnaire so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them! https://forms.gle/obKbT739sukbrWWE6

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

You'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I've recently updated my mentoring packages so that it's a lot easier to work with me! I've also got videos and links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. So head on over and see what's up!!

Links to his: Website, https://livingtreeconnections.com Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/livingtreeconnections LinkedIn, https://www.linkedin.com/company/living-tree-connections

Welcome, this week's guest Gail Menasco!

Producer and Host of Experiences You Should Have Podcast. Gail is an adventurer at heart, loves sharks and has swum with over 15 different species of sharks around the world and even got into skydiving for a bit and jumped over 400 times. She's a business owner of her own search consulting firm, she's also a wife, mom and figuring out ways to enjoy this beautiful world we live in. Links below!

Gail begins by sharing her story of growing up in Tennessee and the struggles she faced and how she was able to begin rewriting her stars by getting a job at a Smoothie King about 40 minutes away from where she lived. She goes on to describe the amazing way that she was introduced to scuba diving and how that started her on a journey of experiencing experiences. She then shares about how she began to explore and get curious about the rest of the world around her, especially in questions of truth, and we talk about that in-depth. Gail advocates for using more of a scientific approach to discovering truth and I advocate for adding a spiritual element to discovering truth as well, especially in regards to religion. We have an interesting discussion about truth and partway through it, I share the 21st Vision Board Success that I've had. We wrap up with a couple more thoughts on how to come to your own conclusions about truth and then wrap this one up.

In this season I'm talking with my guests about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that you can do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life.

Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to fill out this questionnaire so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them! https://forms.gle/obKbT739sukbrWWE6

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

You'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I've recently updated my mentoring packages so that it's a lot easier to work with me! I've also got videos and links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. So head on over and see what's up!!

Links to her: Website/Podcast, https://experiencesyoushouldhave.com/ Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/experiencesyoushouldhavepodcast Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/experiencespodcast/?hl=en

Welcome again, last week's guest Karina Pardus!

In last week's episode, Karina and I briefly mentioned that we might do a bonus episode about Dungeons & Dragons. Well, we did! And here it is!

Remember, the #1 rule in a roleplaying game is to have fun! And in life, we can have fun too, if we can just learn how to roll with how the dice fall.

If you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to fill out this questionnaire so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them! https://forms.gle/obKbT739sukbrWWE6

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

Welcome, this week's guest Karina Pardus!

Karina Pardus is a composer, solopreneur, and founder of Coy Compositions writing music for podcasts, video games, and has worked with companies such as Ipsy. She has been a panelist at the Salt Lake Gaming Convention, and a contributor to the Silicon Slopes Tech Summit. As a mom of 3, she knows that managing a family and a business requires a lot of creativity to not only balance her dreams, but to thrive among them. Links below!

Karina begins by telling us the story of how she got into music composition and learning new niches where she could compose music. We talk about the differences and imperfections that society likes to judge us on and how to start to work through those and begin to celebrate our own journey. She then shares some of her personal struggles with her mental health and we really start to talk about the stories that we tell ourselves, especially in regards to our imperfections. We talk about connections and I connect the 20th Vision Board Success that I've had into the conversation. Karina and I also nerd out about Dungeons and Dragons. (there's a bonus episode coming out on Friday where we go full nerd!) We wrap up talking about some self-care techniques that you can use to help you embrace your imperfections with more love as well as embracing yourself with more love too.

In this season I'm talking with my guests about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that you can do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life.

Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to fill out this questionnaire so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them! https://forms.gle/obKbT739sukbrWWE6

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

You'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I've recently updated my mentoring packages so that it's a lot easier to work with me! I've also got videos and links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. So head on over and see what's up!!

Links to her: Website, https://coycompositions.com Instagram, https://instagram.com/coycompositions Twitter, https://twitter.com/coycompositions Patreon, https://patreon.com/coycompositions

Welcome, this week's guest Tammy Benay!

Tammy is a certified résumé writer and career coach. She helps high earners and high potential earners nail their value proposition to secure their next amazing job. With 15 years in the senior and executive leaders, she has created her 6 Figure Job Search Success Program. This program has helped over 200 leaders step into a greater level of power in high-level positions; doubling their pay. Links below!

We start out this week with Tammy sharing the story of how she went from living in a shelter to writing résumés for others and earning enough to leave the shelter and provide for her and her son. We talk a lot about how résumés and interviews are all about people skills, just like dating, and in essence, we talk about how to date your résumé. I tie the 19th Vision Board Success that I've had into the conversation and Tammy shares more about Vision Boards and how she and her son have used them in their lives. We wrap up the conversation and near the end of it, Tammy shares a load of great questions to ask yourself as you're working on your résumé and looking at new jobs.

In this season I'm talking with my guests about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that you can do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life.

Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to fill out this questionnaire so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them! https://forms.gle/obKbT739sukbrWWE6

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

You'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I've recently updated my mentoring packages so that it's a lot easier to work with me! I've also got videos and links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. So head on over and see what's up!!

Links to her: Website, https://www.6figureresumes.com Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/6figureresumes Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/6figureresume

Welcome, this week's guest Nasyim Segal!

Nasyim Segal, also known as The Numerology Coach, has been practicing numerology for over 30 years. She left corporate life to become a full-time ICF certified coach (who also holds dual-brain based neuroscience certifications) in order to help individuals find their higher purpose by aligning the power of mind and body. Her innovative coaching technique was highlighted at the international 2020 ICF Advanced Conference. She is available for individual sessions or classes by visiting her site: TheNumerologyCoach.com More links below!

Nasyim and I begin by talking about what Numerology is and how it originated as well as a little bit of the science behind it. Then we shift to talking about developing our gifts and talents even if other people view them as odd or strange. Nasyim also shares some of her story of how she decided to become a numerology coach and embrace the gifts she has there. We also talk about the journey that we all embark on when decide to grow and progress in our lives and how to have happiness in life. I share the 18th Vision Board Success that I've had and tie it right into the conversation as we wrap it up.

In this season I'll be talking with my guests about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we'll transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I'll ask what experience they've had with them and share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that it is possible for you to do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life.

I also want to feature YOUR successes! So be sure to get in contact with me or use the Anchor service to send me a snippet of you sharing your Vision Board Success. Because we need to celebrate more successes. And I want to celebrate you!

Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to reach out to me so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them!

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

You'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I've recently updated my mentoring packages so that it's a lot easier to work with me! I've also got videos and links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. You can also apply to be a guest on the show there! So head on over and see what's up!!

Links to her: Website, TheNumerologyCoach.com Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/TheNumerologyCoach Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/thenumerologycoach/

Welcome, this week's guest Neomal Silvas!

Neo is passionate about Vedic Meditation. He learned meditation 27 years ago as a teen and now teaches it in Australia. It has provided him with a sense of calm, steadiness, and determination that has seen him carve his own path, fearlessly working all over the world (Australia, France, UK, Germany, Spain, Portugal, Netherlands) and studying and conducting research in London and Oxford. Links below!

Neo got so excited to talk with me when we recorded this episode that he didn't give me a chance to do an intro and start the conversation. We jump right in as Neo starts to talk about the mind and language and I share some comments as well. Then Neo shares some of his story of how when he was at University he met a guy that helped him to find Vedic Meditation and how that's helped him in his life. He goes over a lot about meditation and the benefits that come from practicing it daily and some of the science behind it. I also share the 17th Vision Board Success that I've had and add to the conversation with what I know about the mind and meditation.

In this season I'll be talking with my guests about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we'll transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I'll ask what experience they've had with them and share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that it is possible for you to do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life.

I also want to feature YOUR successes! So be sure to get in contact with me or use the Anchor service to send me a snippet of you sharing your Vision Board Success. Because we need to celebrate more successes. And I want to celebrate you!

Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to reach out to me so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them!

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

You'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I've recently updated my mentoring packages so that it's a lot easier to work with me! I've also got videos and links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. You can also apply to be a guest on the show there! So head on over and see what's up!!

Links to his: Website, neomalsilvasmeditation.com/book-session Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/neomalsilvasmeditation.co.uk/ Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/neomal_silvas_meditation/

Welcome, this week's guest Lisa Peranzo!

Lisa has over 10 years of experience in the fitness industry. She has worked with a diverse population, including first responders, athletes, and adolescents. Her experience in the fitness industry has also included working with clients to rehab from a variety of injuries, from spinal cord injuries and brain injuries, recovery from childbirth, to sports-related injuries as well as joint replacements. Her focus is always to help her clients find their own strength and power from their fitness routine. Links below!

I start today's episode out a little bit out of breath from trying to exercise for the first time in months to get in the zone before having Lisa join me. She and I laugh about it, she gives me some pointers on how to exercise better and that becomes a large part of the conversation. We also cover her story and why she is so passionate about exercise because of what she's been through. We bust through TONS of excuses and how to implement exercise into your routine to attain better health and fitness. I also share the 16th Vision Board Success that I've had and relate it back to the conversation. It was a very great conversation and I learned so much about how to build a fitness routine that actually works for busy people!

In this season I'll be talking with my guests about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we'll transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I'll ask what experience they've had with them and share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that it is possible for you to do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life.

I also want to feature YOUR successes! So be sure to get in contact with me or use the Anchor service to send me a snippet of you sharing your Vision Board Success. Because we need to celebrate more successes. And I want to celebrate you!

Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to reach out to me so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them!

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

You'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I've recently updated my mentoring packages so that it's a lot easier to work with me! I've also got videos and links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. You can also apply to be a guest on the show there! So head on over and see what's up!!

I also give a special discount related to the vision board success for today, so be sure to listen to the end for the details on that. It only goes until April, so use the discount while it lasts!

Links to her: Website, https://www.ahealthfullife.org Facebook, https://m.facebook.com/lisamperanzo/ Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/lisaperanzo and her Freebie! www.ahealthfullife.org/stars

Welcome, this week's guest Victoria Shaw!

Victoria Shaw is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Spiritual Coach who combines her background and training in psychology and counseling with her intuitive gifts to help clients heal, grow and realize their spiritual and full personal potential.  She takes a holistic approach to counseling, addressing clients’ concerns on the mind/body/spiritual levels. She especially loves working with people who are committed to using their struggles and life experiences to fuel their own spiritual awakening.  Victoria is the author of four self-help books for parents, children, and teens, the host of the "Intuitive Connection" podcast, and the mother of two spirited (now adult) children. Links below!

Victoria begins this week's episode by sharing her pivot from a very scientific approach to life to an intuitive approach to life, a process that took more than 12 years! We talk about how intuition is very compatible with every aspect of life and how it can be combined with plans and preparation as well as different skills. Later in the conversation, I share the 15th Vision Board Success that I've had and then we talk about how to learn to begin using YOUR intuition. You can be intuitive!

In this season I'll be talking with my guests about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we'll transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I'll ask what experience they've had with them and share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that it is possible for you to do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life.

I also want to feature YOUR successes! So be sure to get in contact with me or use the Anchor service to send me a snippet of you sharing your Vision Board Success. Because we need to celebrate more successes. And I want to celebrate you!

Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to reach out to me so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them!

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

You'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I've recently updated my mentoring packages so that it's a lot easier to work with me! I've also got videos and links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. You can also apply to be a guest on the show there! So head on over and see what's up!!

Links to her Website: https://victoriashawintuitive.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/victoriashawintuitivecounseling Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victoriashawintuitive/ Podcast: https://intuitiveconnection.buzzsprout.com

Welcome, this week's guest Jenn Gibbs!

For decades Jenn has been a student of personal development, subconscious mind, and business. Her first dozen business attempts ended in failure, teaching hard lessons first-hand about the struggles that face entrepreneurs desperately trying to build a profitable business. Refusing to give up, and learning from her own mentors, Jenn discovered how to combine age-old truths with some missing pieces, exponentially expanding her results. What she found took her from zero to exploding through the six-figure ceiling year after year in her own business. Her website: https://www.infinitestepmentoring.com

Jenn jumps right into her story as we start this week's episode out, sharing what it was like to just have enough growing up in her family and then having her eyes opened to the possibilities that are presented to those that choose a better life. We talk about how love and money are connected in a good way as well as how to express love fuller and connect better with money. Jenn also shares how Vision Boards affected her journey and I share my 14th AND 45th Vision Board Successes that I've had, the bonus one just came up in the conversation beautifully.

In this season I'll be talking with my guests about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we'll transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I'll ask what experience they've had with them and share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that it is possible for you to do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life.

I also want to feature YOUR successes! So be sure to get in contact with me or use the Anchor service to send me a snippet of you sharing your Vision Board Success. Because we need to celebrate more successes. And I want to celebrate you!

Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to reach out to me so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them!

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

You'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I just updated my mentoring packages so that it's a lot easier to work with me! I've also got videos and links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. You can also apply to be a guest on the show there! So head on over and see what's up!!

Currently, the special offer I made in the episode still is available. Get it before its time has passed!!