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In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin share their candid second trimester updates, diving into the emotional and physical changes experienced during this unique phase of pregnancy. Whether you're an expecting parent or simply curious about the ups and downs of pregnancy, this episode provides an authentic and relatable perspective on navigating the second trimester. Join Tijani and Yazmin as they prepare for their growing family, sharing insights and advice for others embarking on a similar journey.

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(00:00) With this second trimester, I am still emotional, but I felt more

(00:51) This podcast focuses on our second trimester updates, how it went

(01:23) Today we're discussing the second trimester update

(03:55) Myth that if you're pregnant with a girl, you feel more beautiful

(06:58) The second trimester is when your bump really starts to show

(13:48) We had our gender reveal during second trimester during Ramadan and Eid

(20:17) Brown: Do I suggest baby moon once you have a baby already

(23:53) Johnny was serving me every week during Jasmine's pregnancy

(26:06) Yasmin says communication is key to helping with household tasks

(30:26) The biggest way we've been preparing for the baby is buying items

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In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin sit down with a special guest, Yazmin's sister, Yeni, to discuss her journey towards financial freedom. Yeni, a single mom and army sergeant, shares her candid experiences of living a carefree financial life, accumulating debt, and the pivotal moment that made her decide to take control of her finances.

Whether you're struggling with debt, looking for ways to budget effectively, or seeking inspiration to start your own financial journey, this episode offers practical advice and heartfelt encouragement.

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(00:00) Two first generation immigrants share their experiences with fun and education on this podcast

(00:57) In the studio today, we have a special guest. We are talking about the one and only, my sister in law

(01:53) The listeners know about our financial journey or budgeting

(03:53) Yenny, why didn't you engage in living on a budget until now

(07:28) As a single mom, you don't have that person to motivate you on debt

(11:48) Yenny has paid off her credit card and her car loan

(14:19) What does financial freedom mean to you? What does that look like

(15:26) TJ says having to restrain from shopping has been difficult during transition

(21:08) What do you want your big milestone to be this year

(22:09) Do you think Leo feels deprived, like, not doing enough

(25:00) The check ins really help. Um, the messages from TJ when he's like, okay

(28:07) If someone is debating whether to start budgeting or just live life on a budget

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Whether you're considering premarital counseling, are newly married, or simply curious about how to strengthen your relationship, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice. Yazmin and Tijani's honest and heartfelt discussion underscores the benefits of investing in your relationship early on to build a solid foundation for the future.

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(00:00) Look at my wife using the I statements. She all of a sudden, the stuff she learned in counseling kicks in

(00:27) Two first generation immigrants share their american experiences with fun and education

(00:53) Today's episode is on premarital counseling and our experience with it

(02:38) You and your wife went through premarital counseling five years ago

(06:13) The guide also includes some personal questions. I was gonna say, outside of the normal questions

(11:14) All right. Setting the stage. Okay. So we had to do premarital counseling

(13:08) We were categorized as a vitalized couple with strengths in most relationships

(16:09) Do you want to give examples of some of our stressors

(18:46) Set boundaries for yourself and be each other's priority, April says

(21:42) What are we gonna do to make more time for date nights

(24:38) Let's ask the listeners to send us ideas. Send them to us so we can start using those

(25:06) I think sometimes when I voice an opinion or a concern, it is nothing heard

(26:06) The hardest question as an adult is what am I going to eat every week

(27:49) Stop using words such as always and never. They are not healthy. I've mentioned to you several times, do not use the word always

(29:48) If more people invested in premarital counseling, we would have less divorces

(31:29) You scored high on the social scale. Whereas I'm an average social person

(35:08) What about emotional steadiness? It says you scored really high

(40:12) Premarital counseling has helped strengthen our marriage, Tijani says

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In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin invite listeners into their home for an in-depth "money date," a candid conversation about their finances. They break down their budgeting process, sharing insights on how they manage their income, spending, and financial goals. From the importance of having money conversations within relationships to practical tips on budgeting apps and tracking expenses, this episode is packed with valuable advice for anyone looking to improve their financial health.

Yazmin and Tijani discuss the significance of maintaining a healthy relationship with money, whether you're single or in a partnership. They emphasize the importance of regular financial check-ins, setting goals, and understanding personal spending habits. The couple also highlights the cultural barriers that often prevent open discussions about money and how breaking these barriers can lead to better financial outcomes.

Whether you're looking to get a handle on your budget, find a financial accountability partner, or simply curious about how others manage their money, this episode offers a transparent and educational look into the Musa household's financial practices.

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(00:00) I think it's fair that we compensate your mom for looking after Jasleen

(00:48) How we're doing it is podcast where two first generation immigrants share experiences

(01:13) Yasmin: Today we are having a, uh, money date

(03:13) Having money dates can help couples feel more empowered about their goals

(09:11) Leo uses an app called every dollar to track his spending

(14:27) We have a transportation category, and then within that we have our monthly gas

(18:20) In May, we were over budget by $23.37 compared to April

(22:16) Johnny and I have been very disciplined about our spending. We've managed to stay out of debt

(25:38) The restaurants tab for Mother's Day was very high

(26:16) We have an episode that talks about separate versus joint account

(27:07) Um, the next thing is the subscriptions. We weren't expecting the Amazon subscription to renew

(28:44) Gas is going to decrease this month because I'm driving less

(31:43) Good style. I'm gonna go in and take the candy from them. That's yummy candy

(31:58) What else are we looking at for June? The month of June

(33:54) We keep using the house as a gift. I mean, Yenny considered us cheap

(35:01) One big thing that we need to keep in mind is just looking at finances

(37:42) For Jasmine's college fund, we take, I take money every quarter

(38:48) For single people, find your money friend. Find someone that you trust

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In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin explore the profound topic of trusting in God's plan, even when things don't go as expected. They share personal stories of how they prayed for specific outcomes and faced unexpected challenges, only to realize later that God's plan was indeed the best plan for them. From Tijani's heartbreaking experience with a scholarship rejection to Yazmin's job search struggles, they delve into how faith and patience played crucial roles in their journeys.

The couple discusses the importance of praying for guidance, accepting God's will, and understanding that sometimes, the answers to prayers come in ways we least expect. They also highlight the significance of being open to God's timing and trusting that He has something better planned, even when immediate circumstances seem disappointing.

Whether you're navigating career changes, life decisions, or simply seeking inspiration to trust in a higher power, this episode offers heartfelt insights and practical advice on embracing God's plan with faith and patience.

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(00:00) After prayer, normally we, like, sit there and ask God for specific things

(01:25) Today we're talking about God's plans. And sometimes when you pray for something, God may not give it

(03:28) On this podcast episode, we always try to share how we're doing things

(09:53) When the scholarship did not fall through, I was devastated

(15:04) 24.3 million land in Australia was destroyed because of devastating wildfires

(17:33) So let's put a pause on my story. Your voice just keeps getting louder and louder. Let me relax and drink some agua

(17:55) You tell us your example. Okay, so my example is a little more recent

(23:54) You applied for a job working with students with visual impairments

(30:26) God answered our prayer, right? Yeah. It was so many things that were, like, playing

(31:41) You interviewed for a position that was your first choice

(34:17) Sometimes the prayer is not answered in the way we want it

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In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin dive into the lesser-known and unexpected symptoms of pregnancy. From the discomfort of carpal tunnel syndrome to the surprising issue of excess saliva, they share personal experiences and practical advice for managing these unexpected challenges.

Yazmin opens up about her own struggles with these symptoms, providing valuable insights and tips for other expectant mothers. They also discuss the importance of advocating for yourself when dealing with pregnancy-related health issues and the significance of support from partners. Whether you're expecting or just curious about the realities of pregnancy, this episode offers a candid and informative look into the less talked-about aspects of the journey to parenthood.

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(00:00) Excess saliva. Which is gross. It makes you wanna dry heave and gag

(00:34) Hello. Welcome to our podcast. If this is your first time joining us, welcome

(00:59) Today's episode is unexpected pregnancy symptoms. Women experience it, but they do happen rarely

(02:39) Yasmin: Unless you have parent friends or friends becoming parents

(03:34) Carpal tunnel syndrome can develop during and after pregnancy

(05:49) Wrist numbness can start with the fingers and extend all the way up

(12:21) During pregnancy, your gums can feel sensitive, kind of sore

(16:12) What about fatigue when you're pregnant? Is that a symptom

(16:59) Breast tenderness is one of the first symptoms of pregnancy

(21:15) The most uncommon symptom of all of them is the carpal tunnel

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In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin went into the fascinating world of old wives' tales, particularly those predicting the gender of an unborn baby. They share their personal experiences and cultural insights, discussing various symptoms and methods said to indicate whether you're having a boy or a girl. From cravings and heartburn to morning sickness and the shape of the baby bump, they explore the accuracy and fun behind these age-old predictions. Yazmin also recounts a charming family tradition from Mexico involving a fork and spoon to predict the baby's gender. Whether you're expecting or just curious, this episode offers a delightful mix of humor, tradition, and personal anecdotes.

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(00:00) Yasmin and Tijani Musa are first generation immigrants

(01:11) DK predicts the gender of the baby based on symptoms and old wives tales

(05:35) This one talks about hair and nails. It ties right into exactly what my mom said

(08:53) This time around, we're expecting a boy. Break it down. What are we expecting this time around

(09:41) Based on the position of your baby bump, it can determine gender

(10:50) If you have a wide baby bump, it means you're having a girl

(12:15) With your first pregnancy, you had a lot of food aversions

(14:34) What about the baby's heartbeat? So they say if the fetal heart rate is above 140,

(16:01) The last one for this category is sleeping sides. Talk to me about this one

(18:35) All right, now let's talk about methods. Predicting based on methods can be difficult

(19:45) Take me to the mayan system. Okay, so the Mayans make predictions

(21:44) Okay, so now we're gonna move on to the chinese gender prediction

(23:29) M. M. was pregnant when this episode was recorded

(27:05) You really don't know until you confirm the sex of your baby

(29:45) Your mom says in Mexico, you don't get an ultrasound

(32:02) Anything else? Do you have any more old wives tales that we haven't discussed

Are you having a boy or a girl? If you can’t wait to find out, we have a list of fun old wives’ tales for predicting your baby’s gender! 

Visit the Source: Web-Pampers-US-EN to read more. 

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In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin discuss the perplexing world of toddler behavior, especially when a new sibling is on the way. They explore whether their daughter's sudden tantrums and aggressive outbursts are a result of her age or a reaction to Yazmin's pregnancy. Sharing personal anecdotes and practical strategies, they discuss the challenges of navigating toddlerhood while expecting a new baby. From dealing with bedtime battles to managing public meltdowns, they offer insights into maintaining a balanced and loving environment for their growing family.

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(00:00) Introduction: Is it toddlerhood or the pregnancy?

(Yazmin Musa) Analyzing Jasleen's behavior: Tantrums and hitting

(07:09) Changes in behavior since the pregnancy

(11:00) The impact of toddlerhood on behavior

(15:37) Strategies for managing aggressive behavior

(20:01) Toddler routines and the importance of consistency

(25:32) Giving toddlers choices to prevent meltdowns

(29:51) The role of logical consequences in discipline

(32:53) Modeling positive behavior and emotional regulation

(38:20) Engaging the audience: Poll question on toddler behavior

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Tijani and Yazmin traveled back in time to reveal essential tips and survival etiquettes for first-generation kids navigating through different stages of life. From high school challenges like prom and graduation to college life and beyond, they share invaluable advice to help first-gen students and adults thrive. They discuss the critical role of school counselors, the importance of attending college orientation, and the necessity of office hours. They also touch on adulting topics such as salary negotiations and the cultural nuances of tipping. Whether you're a high schooler, a college student, or a young professional, this episode is packed with practical tips and personal anecdotes to guide you through your journey.

(00:00) School counselors are not well versed in working with first gen students

(01:06) Today we're talking about all the things you need to know about life

(02:06) I have high school students who went to prom recently

(05:55) You should know where you're going to take photos before prom, right

(06:45) You mentioned prom to your parents. Do you have anything else on prom

(09:30) If you don't know the right people or resources, you won't apply

(15:16) I hope she turned it in. I'm hoping she did

(15:28) Speaking of graduation, let's talk about high school graduation length

(16:26) You need to attend your college orientation. Yes, you do

(20:08) How important is going to office hours? This is something that first generation people don't know

(26:20) Look, she was a mom. Of course she cared about us

(26:53) Do you have anything about regarding college, like graduation? Cause we talked about high school

(30:53) You actually have to apply to graduate is wild

(32:02) First generation immigrants should know some tips on being an adult

(35:53) As a first generation student, we can actually negotiate our salaries

(42:39) High school and college grades do not determine your future success, so. Fact. Ah. Wanted to add that

(44:42) Send us your suggestions on how to succeed as first gen immigrants

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In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin share their personal experiences and practical tips on traveling with a baby. From planning the first flight to dealing with unexpected challenges, they cover everything you need to know to make your journey smoother. Whether it's packing essentials, understanding airline policies, or managing sleep routines, this episode is packed with valuable insights for parents on the go.

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(00:00) Tijani Musa: It really depends on your situation. Where are you going? Do you really think you're going to need the pack

(01:26) Today we're talking about traveling with a baby. You mentioned that this is from a listener

(07:09) One parent tried to stuff a bunch of stuff into their baby's car seat

(11:00) It really depends on your situation. I traveled to Puerto Rico with Jaslyne

(15:37) You can bring breast milk through TSA, but it's not personal

(20:01) Make sure you bring plenty of breast milk or formula for baby on airplane

(25:32) If you're traveling internationally, your child will need a passport

(29:51) If you are at all concerned, just expedited your passport

(32:53) Yasmin says keeping your baby comfortable on flights is important

(38:20) Make that call and, you know, just make sure that you're in a

(38:39) First time flying with baby over two, it was much more comfortable

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