How We're Doing It

How We're Doing It

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How We're Doing It episodes

  • First-Time Homebuyer Tips: Lessons We Learned the Hard Way

    In this insightful episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin reflect on their first year of homeownership as first-generation immigrants, sharing lessons learned from maintaining a new build home to navigating homeowners insurance and HOA regulations. They offer practical advice on balancing indoor and outdoor tasks, utilizing smart appliances, managing home-related expenses, and tackling DIY projects. With tips on interior decoration, landscaping, and budgeting, this episode is a treasure trove of insights for new homeowners or anyone planning to buy a house, especially first-generation immigrants. Tune in for valuable knowledge and personal anecdotes to help you navigate homeownership with confidence.


    Check out the following episodes:

    Family Harmony: Living Peacefully With In-Laws

    Do Theses! Before Moving To A New State

    Challenges You Face When Moving To A New State


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    44 min
  • Avoid Forcing Your Kids on Unloving Relatives

    Tijani and Yazmin dive into the emotional journey of navigating genuine care for their daughter, from friends and family. They discuss setting boundaries, showing empathy, and teaching independence while highlighting the importance of genuine connections. And how they avoid forcing their child on unloving friends and family members. Learn how simple acts like a text or FaceTime call can impact relationships and get practical advice on building strong support systems for your child. Whether you're a parent or soon-to-be, this episode offers valuable insights and heartfelt advice on protecting your child's innocence and fostering meaningful relationships. Tune in for an authentic discussion on genuine care and empathy.


    Also check out the Being The First In Your Circle To Have A Baby, Help! episode on Apple and Spotify podcasts or your favorite podcast platforms.

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    32 min
  • A Big Surprise Announcement: Leo’s Predictions

    In this heartfelt and joyous episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin share the exciting news that they are expecting their second child! The Musas take us through the emotional journey of discovering their pregnancy, from the early symptoms to the creative way Yazmin revealed the news to Tijani. They also discuss the challenges and differences between this pregnancy and their first with their daughter, including dealing with early symptoms, spotting, and the importance of having a strong support system.

    Join them as they navigate the chaos of pregnancy while balancing family life, work, and their passion project—the podcast. This episode offers a genuine glimpse into their lives, filled with love, laughter, and a few unexpected cravings along the way.

    Key Takeaways: 

    - The emotional and physical journey of discovering a new pregnancy

    - Dealing with early pregnancy symptoms and spotting

    - The importance of a strong support system during pregnancy

    - Balancing family life, work, and personal projects

    - Preparing their daughter to become a big sister

    Whether you're expecting, already a parent, or simply enjoy heartfelt family stories, this episode is packed with personal anecdotes and valuable insights. Tune in for an authentic and intimate look at the Musas' journey to becoming a family of four.
    Connect with us and share your own stories, questions, or tips about pregnancy and parenting. We're all in this together, learning and growing one episode at a time.
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    36 min
  • Budgeting and Debt Management While Supporting Family

    In this eye-opening episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin discuss the significant money lessons they've learned through personal experiences and the challenges they've faced as first-generation immigrants. From navigating hefty medical bills to the pitfalls of co-signing loans, the Musas share candid stories and practical advice on managing finances while supporting their families.

    Listen as they recount the journey of paying off nearly $35,000 in debt, dealing with unexpected financial emergencies, and setting clear boundaries with family members. This episode is packed with valuable insights on how to maintain financial health without compromising family values.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Understanding the impact of co-signing loans and why it's crucial to avoid it
    • Strategies for budgeting and managing debt while supporting extended family
    • The importance of setting financial boundaries with loved ones
    • How to bounce back from financial setbacks and stay the course
    • Lessons on financial literacy and the need for basic money management education
    • Whether you're a first-generation immigrant or simply looking for practical financial advice, this episode offers a blend of personal anecdotes and actionable tips to help you navigate your financial journey with confidence and clarity.

      Connect with us and share your own stories, questions, or tips about managing finances. We're all in this together, learning and growing one episode at a time. Subscribe for more episodes and join our supportive community. Listen to the episode on Apple and Spotify podcasts or your favorite podcast platforms.


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      Living Consumer Debt-Free (Updated to Debt-Free Journey)

      Our Journey From Consumer Debt To Financial Peace (Deb-Free)

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      51 min
    • Tiny Toilets, Big Steps: Conquering Potty Training Toddler

      Are you ready to tackle the potty training challenge? Join Tijani and Yazmin in this relatable and insightful episode of 'How We're Doing It' as they share their experience transitioning their two-year-old daughter from diapers to potty independence. Discover the signs that your toddler might be ready, the importance of mindset, and why kids sense fear in the potty training process. The Musas dive into the practical steps they took, from going cold turkey to understanding their daughter's cues, and how they made the training a fun and rewarding experience for everyone involved.

      Whether you're looking for guidance, motivation, or just a few laughs along the way, this episode provides a mix of personal anecdotes and actionable advice. So if you're standing at the threshold of the potty training adventure, wondering how to proceed, tune in for some real talk on navigating this developmental milestone with patience, consistency, and a good sense of humor.

      Key Takeaways:

      • Introduction to the potty training journey- Recognizing readiness and preparation strategies
      • The step-by-step process from naked time to fully potty trained
      • Handling setbacks and accidents with a positive attitude
      • Insights on night-time training and the decision to delay
      • The Musas' stance on rewards and finding what works for your child
      • Encouragement for parents in the midst of potty training
      • Connect with us and share your own stories, questions, or tips about potty training. We're all in this together, learning and growing one episode at a time. Subscribe for more episodes and join our supportive community.

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        32 min
      • Onesies and Outfits: Packing Your Hospital Bag Checklist

        Embarking on the journey of parenthood? Dive into today’s episode of ‘How We’re Doing It’ where hosts Tijani and Yazmin share their personal experiences and practical tips for packing the essential hospital bag. From choosing the right onesie size for your newborn to ensuring mom and dad have everything they need, this episode is packed with advice to prepare you for the big day. Whether it's comfy PJs or a playlist to ease labor, tune in for an authentic and educational guide to getting your hospital bag ready—because when baby decides to arrive, you'll want to be prepared for anything!

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        25 min
      • A Journey of Resilience From War-Torn Sierra Leone

        Tijani shares his harrowing journey from Sierra Leone to the United States, highlighting survival, resilience, and triumph. Despite facing homelessness and financial struggles, Tijani overcame obstacles with determination and mentorship, achieving academic and financial success. His story inspires gratitude and celebrates life's victories, showcasing the human spirit's capacity to endure.

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        57 min
      • From Veracruz to Virginia: Yazmin's Immigrant Story of Courage and Cultural Pride

        In a candid conversation, Yazmin recounts her childhood in Veracruz, Mexico, her family's humble beginnings, and the poignant moment of crossing the border to reunite with her father in pursuit of the American Dream. She shares the challenges of assimilating into a new culture, the struggle with language barriers, and the eventual embrace of her Mexican heritage. Yazmin's journey is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of education.

        But this episode is more than just an immigration story; it's a reflection on identity, family, and the sacrifices parents make for their children's futures. It's a story that resonates with anyone who has ever strived for a better life, and it's a reminder of the common threads that bind us all in the pursuit of happiness and success.

        Join us as we explore the complexities of growing up between two worlds and the profound impact of Yazmin's experiences on her life today. It's an episode that promises to move you, educate you, and perhaps even change the way you view the immigrant experience.

        Next week, we'll hear Tijani's story and continue this powerful dialogue. Don't miss it – subscribe now and be part of the conversation.

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        51 min
      • First-gen Immigrants & Life Insurance

        Discover the importance of life insurance with Tijani and Yazmin Musa as they explore this critical safety net for families. In this episode, they discuss the cultural taboos, financial implications, and the peace of mind that comes with being insured. Their conversation is a mix of valuable information, personal experiences, and a guide for first-generation immigrants on how to navigate life insurance. Tune in to learn why life insurance isn't just about death—it's about life and living without financial fear.

        Sites Mentioned:

        https://www.ethoslife.com/
        https://www.zanderins.com/

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        30 min
      • How To Come Up With Your Core Family Values

        In this engaging episode, we shared tips on how you can create your own family's core values. We do so by offering insights into navigating life as first-generation college graduates and parents. We discussed the importance of service and community engagement, the role of faith in our daily lives, and the transformative power of education. Listen in to gain valuable parenting tips and be inspired to foster a home environment centered on love, trust, and responsibility. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that serves as a blueprint for nurturing a family culture rooted in intentionality and shared values.

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        42 min

      About How We're Doing It

      From the publisher's feed

      Children of immigrants often arrive in the U.S. without their consent, embarking on a journey shaped by their parents' pursuit of the American Dream, often at great risk and without guarantees. How…