Whether we know it or not, most of us have manuals that we have “written” for other people in our lives on what they should do and how they should behave - especially around the Holidays. Most often these people are not even aware that these “rule books” exist, yet we expect them to follow the rules and get upset with them when they don’t.
It is important to understand that even though it is perfectly okay to have certain expectations of other people, we can get ourselves into big trouble when we start tying our emotional happiness to their responses to those expectations.
On this episode, you will learn how you can let go of all your rules and control attempts towards everyone you have manuals for and enjoy the holidays instaead of loathe them.
Why we can’t control other people.
Why we want to change other people’s behaviors.
What you can start doing today to lead a happier life and enjoy "your people" just as they are.