Dating after divorce can be tough. In this episode, Matt, Steve, and Jessica talk about Steve’s longest relationship since his marriage.

Steve shares how he met Tommy and reveals why their relationship wasn’t the best fit. The pair got along very well, but Steve started to realize that their lifestyles just weren’t compatible. As a single parent, Steve’s schedule is often hectic and filled with activities, and his partnership with Tommy seemed to suffer due to the demands of life. 

He discusses the breakup and what he’s learned from that relationship. And next week, we’ll discuss how Penny handled it all!

Highlights of the discussion: 

• How Steve met Tommy (07:08)
• Recognizing when a person doesn’t fit (13:50)
• If Steve’s relationship with Jessica and Matt makes it harder to date (20:20)
• Steve broke up with Tommy (28:30)
• Dealing with that breakup (34:10)

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This week's episode is a little different. Jessica is on the mic sharing her thoughts on how leaders can inadvertently lead us to feel shame. 

Recently, Jessica was working on a weekly bible study and was taken aback by the lesson's message. Instead of uplifting her, it had the opposite effect and reinforced some of the negative ideals we put on women.

In so many ways, women are fighting an uphill battle when it comes to issues of equality. Today, Jessica discusses her perspective on some of the points brought up in her bible lesson and reveals how it came across as less than positive.

It's important to realize that no one is perfect. Even the people we look up to. It's okay not to agree with everyone's opinion, even when they are in a leadership position.

Tune into this week's episode! We're curious about your stance in this conversation.

Highlights of the discussion: 

• Holding leaders accountable for the messages they send (06:00)
• What is a ‘good’ woman? (11:20)
•  You are enough (18:00)
• Sometimes we have to dig deep within ourselves to find the answers (25:05)
• Women are powerful beings (33:05)
• Sometimes we do feel disappointed in ourselves (38:00)
• You are living YOUR life (45:05)

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First, they talk about the impact the reviews have on their lives. They are thankful for the feedback and support of the show. Jessica spends some time reflecting on moments with Penny, and why it’s important to soak in the everyday moments, we spend with our families.

Matt shares what unfolded after the court situation and talks about the new custody arrangement with the kids. They all talk about how they’ve coped with that timeline events and where they are now in their relationship with Ann. 

Highlights of the discussion: 

• The impact of our reviews (04:40)
• Musing on the day to day moments spent with the kids (13:00)
• The end of the legal proceedings (15:35)
• What things changed as a result of the court situation(20:50)
• The new custody agreement (26:50)
• What Penny knew about the situation (30:25)

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Matt, Jessica, and Steve discuss how they make it through the rough times and offer some tips that may help you!

But first, they spend some time talking about going “viral” on Instagram, reminisce on some of their “first time” experiences, and finally recap this most recent holiday season.

If you’ve been listening to the past few episodes, then you know they’ve been covering Matt’s custody issues with his kids. Those experiences have caused an immense amount of stress and have certainly been a challenge to overcome. 

Matt shares how he’s coped and what’s gotten them through those hard times. 

We hope that if you’re struggling too then, you find some support with this episode. Tune in!

Highlights of the discussion: 

• Going viral (02:00)
• Talking about the first time (08:00)
• Jessica questioning her marriage (14:30)
• How to prepare for the rough patches (20:00)
• How they’ve made it through (29:10)
• Recapping the holidays (36:10)

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This week, we welcome back Steve to the podcast. He was out last week on a trip to Arizona. He shares his new year’s intentions and discusses his training schedule for his upcoming ultra marathon. 

Matt and Jessica describe what led to Matt’s kids getting a psychiatric evaluation. They talk about what life was like during this time. They tell the stress it put on the entire family and how Matt dealt with his parenting being scrutinized. 

At the end of the day, the best we can do is stick to our truth. Even in the face of adversity, it’s important to remember what makes us the people we are. 

Highlights of the discussion: 

• Steve’s new goal (02:55)
• Hating something you love to do (06:30)
• Steve’s new year intentions (09:00)
• Matt’s kids get a psychiatric evaluation (19:00)
• What is was like with the heat on Matt (32:00)
• Knowing the truth (38:50)

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Happy new year, everyone! We are so thankful to start off 2021 with you all and looking forward to the great things to come. 

This week, Matt and Jessica discuss goals vs. intentions and how to be successful in setting goals. Many of us start the year with our hopes for what we want to change and accomplish. Matt and Jessica share their goals for the upcoming twelve months and the energy they’ll be bringing into it.

They also cover the differences between goals and intentions and how to implement both for the best outcomes. Jessica shares her podcast goals for this year, and they offer the reminder that the best plan of all is to keep things simple!

Highlights of the discussion: 

• Needing a break from the kids (03:25)
• Difference between a goal and intention (04:30)
• The importance of going back and reviewing your year (11:22)
• 2021 goals for the podcast (19:50)
• Keep it simple (25:00)

Additional Resources:

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This week, Jessica shares her live lesson on creating Bold Boundaries in your life and relationships.

Maybe you feel like you've lost a part of who you are or are looking to create change in your life but not sure where to start. Or you've been struggling to show up to your life or relationships in a way that feels authentic to who you are. You let other people's opinions determine how you act or what you do, and you want to create more joy in your life. 

If you are feeling any of those things, then this is definitely for you. We want to help create a safe space for you to navigate the ups and downs of life and cultivate the kind of joy that isn't dependant on any external circumstances. 

Tune in! 

Highlights of the discussion: 

• The three steps we’re covering in today’s live lesson (06:20)
• Don’t let other’s issues become yours (11:00)
• You can control your actions in your life (17:15)
• Find and protect your joy (20:00)
• Say no to the distractions (24:45)
• Figure out what works for you (30:40)
• How to trust yourself more (37:00)
• Are you ready to take bold action? (42:10)

Additional Resources:

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This week, Matt, Steve, and Jessica keep things light and answer some questions you guys may have had from previous episodes.

They share what it’s like to put personal details about their life out in the open and revisit the conversation from last week. Matt describes Jack’s perspective on his custody issues with Ann. Jessica tells the parameters they’ve implemented in their interactions with Ann and how she and Matt struggled during this time in their relationship. Jessica needed Matt to know her worth if they were going to continue in their relationship.

Finally, they discuss a Christmas story that left them feeling a bit awkward but thankful nonetheless. 

We wish you a very Merry Christmas! 

Highlights of the discussion: 

• What it’s like to share our stories (05:00)
• Jack’s perspective of the issue (09:45)
• How Matt and Jessica structure all of their conversations with Ann (14:30)
• Jessica needing Matt to know her worth (20:05)
• Sharing a Christmas story (24:30)
• Deciding what to do with the extra gifts (32:04)

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This week, Steve, Jessica, and Matt discuss more of the issues they faced navigating Ann's custody arrangement.

It seems the constant lesson to be learned through this season of Matt and Jessica's life is boundary setting. In this episode, Matt and Jessica are back into a routine with the kids but continually deal with the stress of having Ann's frequent interference. 

Jessica is accused of withholding food from the kids, leaving her hurt and frustrated. She struggles with determining where she should set her boundaries and the decision of what caretaking responsibilities make the most sense for the family.

Listen to this week's episode to hear what she decided on! 

Highlights of the discussion: 

• A listener makes Jessica cry  (05:30)
• Steve reflecting on last week’s episode (14:30)
• Jessica is accused of withholding food from the kids (25:00)
• Trying to figure out what she should and shouldn’t do for the kids (30:00)
• Watching the kids take on new responsibilities (36:20)
• Jessica’s upcoming boundary-setting class (42:15)

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This week, Matt, Jessica, and Steve pick up where they left off last week on their story about Ann’s restraining order against Matt.

During the whole custody fiasco, Matt got a knock on the door from the police. Ann had accused Matt of domestic violence and requested to have a restraining order put on him. This resulted in an incredibly tumultuous several weeks for the entire family as they went back and forth, trying to handle the situation best.

Tune into this week’s episode to hear how it affected each member and the ultimate resolution of this particular conflict. 

Highlights of the discussion: 

• What being bold means to Jessica  (01:00)
• Matt gets a knock on the door from the police (14:00)
• Ann’s accusations against Matt (19:40)
• Matt’s emergency hearing (24:03)
• The judge’s determination on the restraining order (29:40)
• The little wins along the way (38:20)
• How Steve handled the situation from an outsider looking in (39:00)

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