In this episode, we bring on Katie's husband, Dallas, and Gretchen's husband, Knut, as we start talk about marriage and how poor theology can lead to unhealthy expectations.

First each couple talks a bit about how they met, and their early expectations of marriage. They talk a bit about the difference between a husband being the head of the home and the husband being the priest of the home, and why the distinction is important when it comes to how a wife views her access to God.

Dallas talks about his 60/40 rule and we address our tendencies to view our spouses as a project to fix.

Near the end we introduce the idea of unconditional forgiveness which we will dig into further in the next episode.