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If you've ever looked around the world and wondered why no one else seems to feel things as deeply as you do, this conversation is your validation. Host Michelle Aalbers welcomes author Danica Banes for an honest heart-to-heart on embracing spiritual gifts, setting energetic boundaries, and stepping out of hiding. Danica opens up about the physical toll of suppressing her mediumship, the vulnerability of publishing her story in her book You Already Know, and how moms and sensitive humans can break free from external expectations to reclaim their authentic power. Together, they break down the four core "sensitive wounds" (Sensitivity, Connection, Body, and Witch Wounds) and explore what it really takes to surrender perfectionism and trust yourself.
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Music Credit Through Season 3 Episode 41
Title: Ebb and Flow
Author: Fabian Measures https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/
Source: Free Music Archive https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/Singles_Album/Ebb_and_Flow_1829/
Licence: CC BY 4.0 https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
What happens when you decide to stop letting old narratives dictate who belongs in the room? In this episode, Michelle sits down with good friend Sarah Becker, founder of The Hockey Village, to discuss her mission to transform the culture around women and girls in hockey. Sarah shares her personal journey from playing varsity and college hockey to facing limiting beliefs when coaching her daughter, being replaced as a head coach, and ultimately using that pain as a catalyst to build an inclusive community. They explore the importance of female coaches, the power of asking "dumb" questions in a safe space, breaking down complex equipment and rules, and giving yourself permission to show up differently.
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Music Credit Through Season 3 Episode 41
Title: Ebb and Flow
Author: Fabian Measures https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/
Source: Free Music Archive https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/Singles_Album/Ebb_and_Flow_1829/
Licence: CC BY 4.0 https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Welcome back to Hypothetically Intentional! In this special episode, host Michelle Aalbers sits down for an unscripted, deep-dive conversation with traditional artist Alysia Coffield—the brilliant mind hand-painting every single canvas for The Spiritual 2x4 Oracle Deck.
We skipped our usual formal intro and jumped straight into the flow! Michelle and Alysia talk about the creation process, the energy behind the artwork, and what it’s really like writing the guidebook and bringing an intuitive deck to life.
Watch on YouTube: Since we held up several original painted cards during our chat, you can watch the full video recording on our YouTube channel (@jaideewellness) to see the artwork up close!
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Thank you for being part of this journey with us!
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Music Credit Through Season 3 Episode 41
Title: Ebb and Flow
Author: Fabian Measures https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/
Source: Free Music Archive https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/Singles_Album/Ebb_and_Flow_1829/
Licence: CC BY 4.0 https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
How do you move forward when you can no longer go back to who you used to be? Guest Sarah Farina (consultant, writer, and leadership coach) joins host Michelle Aalbers on a new moon to talk about intention-setting, personal integration, and navigating major life transitions. From corporate boardrooms to writing memoirs and walking sacred pilgrimage paths, Sarah shares practical wisdom on making peace with uncertainty, overcoming internal judgment, and treating yourself with the same kindness you give to others.
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This podcast is provided for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute providing professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or professional healthcare services.
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Want more from Michelle?
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Music Credit Through Season 3 Episode 41
Title: Ebb and Flow
Author: Fabian Measures https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/
Source: Free Music Archive https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/Singles_Album/Ebb_and_Flow_1829/
Licence: CC BY 4.0 https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
What happens when a major life shift turns your entire internal world upside down? In this returning-guest episode, Michelle Aalbers sits down with intuitive coach Sam Franklin to reflect on the messy, beautiful reality of new parenthood. Sam opens up about the challenge of holding two intense opposing truths at the same time—like feeling overwhelmed while simultaneously feeling deep joy—and how we can reframe our spiritual practices when our routines are completely upended. Together, they explore the struggle with perfectionism, the exhaustion of sleep deprivation, and how children act as a mirror to our own shadows and soul growth.
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This podcast is provided for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute providing professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or professional healthcare services.
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Want more from Michelle?
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Music Credit Through Season 3 Episode 41
Title: Ebb and Flow
Author: Fabian Measures https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/
Source: Free Music Archive https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/Singles_Album/Ebb_and_Flow_1829/
Licence: CC BY 4.0 https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Why is "choosing to forgive" so much harder than it sounds? In this raw and organic conversation, Michelle welcomes back returning guest Javi Santana to explore the honest, messy journey of forgiveness. From processing childhood wounds and absent parents to navigating heavy betrayal, they break down why forgiveness isn't a quick switch. Forgiveness is a layered process of honoring your inner child, feeling through the grief, and learning to forgive yourself first. Javi shares his unique "3-hour drive" ritual that helped him release a decade of anger, while Michelle explores how true forgiveness allows us to finally take a full, deep breath. Tune in for a compassionate look at how releasing emotional weight isn't about excusing the past—it's the ultimate act of self-love.
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This podcast is provided for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute providing professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or professional healthcare services.
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Want more from Michelle?
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Facebook: facebook.com/JaiDeeWellness/
Instagram: @jaideestudio
Music Credit Through Season 3 Episode 41
Title: Ebb and Flow
Author: Fabian Measures https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/
Source: Free Music Archive https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/Singles_Album/Ebb_and_Flow_1829/
Licence: CC BY 4.0 https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Have you ever missed subtle signs from the universe until Spirit had to drop a "2x4" right in front of you?
Join host Michelle Aalbers and artist Alysia Coffield as they unveil their secret collaboration two years in the making. In this episode, they explore the fine line between subtle divine whispers and unmissable cosmic wake-up calls, how laughter softens life's hardest moments, and what it really takes to transition from dreaming about a project to taking real-world action as independent, woman-owned small businesses.
Plus, get a sneak peek into the sacred container of their creative process—from fully completed guidebook drafts to 100% traditional hand-painted canvases.
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Music Credit Through Season 3 Episode 41
Title: Ebb and Flow
Author: Fabian Measures https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/
Source: Free Music Archive https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/Singles_Album/Ebb_and_Flow_1829/
Licence: CC BY 4.0 https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
What if we approached the transition of a season not with chaotic rushing, but with deep, conscious intention?
In this episode, I’m sitting down to reflect on that late-August energy shift—that moment when summer starts to wind down. The time of year when the back-to-school rush threatens to hijack our peace. Feeling a bit energetically depleted myself, I was doing the dishes this morning when a powerful realization hit: if I’m not intentional about how I wrap up my summer and enter my fall, my current joy is only going to be temporary.
Inspired by a friend’s sacred ritual of "closing her garden," I explore what it looks like to create our own sacred closings and sacred openings. How can we pause, honor where we are, and prepare our mind, body, and spirit for what's next?
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This podcast is provided for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute providing professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or professional healthcare services.
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Want more from Michelle?
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Facebook: facebook.com/JaiDeeWellness/
Instagram: @jaideestudio
Music Credit Through Season 3 Episode 41
Title: Ebb and Flow
Author: Fabian Measures https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/
Source: Free Music Archive https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/Singles_Album/Ebb_and_Flow_1829/
Licence: CC BY 4.0 https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
How often do you stop and check in with your internal energy before moving through your day? In this solo episode, Michelle dives into personal energy awareness—exploring how we experience our internal capacity, notice shifts in our physical body, and project that energy to others, even across a Zoom screen.
Michelle discusses the power of a quick daily check-in to assess your current state, align how you want to show up with how you are actually able to show up, and give yourself grace if your capacity is feeling low. Plus, she shares an invitation for you to try a simple, one-minute energy check-in ritual to better support yourself throughout the week.
What is your energy telling you today? Share your thoughts and personal energy check-in practices in the comments or send us an email!
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This podcast is provided for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute providing professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or professional healthcare services.
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Want more from Michelle?
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Instagram: @jaideestudio
Music Credit Through Season 3 Episode 41
Title: Ebb and Flow
Author: Fabian Measures https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/
Source: Free Music Archive https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/Singles_Album/Ebb_and_Flow_1829/
Licence: CC BY 4.0 https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Whether you love long drives or find them a bit tedious, being intentional before you step into the car can completely transform your journey. In this short solo episode, Michelle shares her personal "soul care toolkit" for road trips—from audiobooks for learning and curated playlists to the power of self-reflection and capturing creative ideas through hands-free voice memos.
Michelle also reflects on a magical, nostalgic moment from when her kids were small, proving how a little imagination and clever thinking can turn a stressful moment into a sweet memory.
What are your favorite ways to set intentions or fill the space on a long drive? Share your road trip tips, memories, or favorite destinations with us!
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This podcast is provided for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute providing professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or professional healthcare services.
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Want more from Michelle?
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Instagram: @jaideestudio
Music Credit Through Season 3 Episode 41
Title: Ebb and Flow
Author: Fabian Measures https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/
Source: Free Music Archive https://freemusicarchive.org/music/Fabian_Measures/Singles_Album/Ebb_and_Flow_1829/
Licence: CC BY 4.0 https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
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The Refined Sunday Soul-Session
Pull up a chair for a different kind of Sunday service.
I’m Michelle Aalbers, and on Hypothetically…
Whether I’m hanging out with a guest or sharing a solo heart-to-heart, these are the candid, gritty, and beautiful stories of healing and wisdom that remind us we aren’t alone. We explore spirituality and purpose through real human connection—which means we laugh, we share, and we aren't afraid of a little tasteful cussing.
Join us every Sunday for a fresh perspective on living a life of purpose.
BYE! (Be You Everyday)