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This is so fun!! Listen in while we deconstruct the competition weekend and reflect on how letting people in on the journey made all the difference. But that can be easier said than done... We talk about all of it in this episode. 

We wanna know - how can you let someone in on something that you're up to? 

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What’s working, what’s not, and how the hell do we decide??

In this episode, Christa and Holly ride the seasonal shift into a conversation about energetic clutter, routine evaluation, and choosing change — with intention. This isn’t your typical fall cleaning advice. It’s a call to pause, reflect, and make space. Whether it’s an overstuffed calendar, cereal bowls full of milk, or emotional weight we didn’t ask to carry — we’re breaking it down and clearing it out.

Pulling inspiration from the Empress tarot card and current astrological themes, we talk about the daily resistance signals our bodies give us, the difference between meaningful routines and automatic ones, and why discernment might just be the word of the season.

💫 Inside this episode:

• The Empress tarot card and what it says about starting from enoughness
• Signs your daily routine isn’t working — and how to tell
• Getting honest about energy drainers and how they could look different
• Cleaning closets, boxes of mementos, emotional clutter, and abandoned cereal bowls left on the counter
• Why persistence in change is the real win
• A “Listen, Bitch” truth bomb session

🧼✨ Reminder: Don’t change everything at once. Start with one drawer. One bowl. One “no thanks.”

As Always, 

We Adore the Hell Outta You

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 Heads up: brief discussion of restrictive eating from 16:00–21:00 

This episode is just a darn good time. There's not much else to say about that... We're reclaiming TMI and implore you to tell us and each other immediately EVERYTHING you might want to know. Seriously, why hold back??

We're not talking about the weather here people. We're talking about what's in your closet, what's bringing you pleasure, what's got you feeling like shit? We want to know it all, and we want to hear about it immediately. Especially if you feel embarrassed or ashamed about it. Let's just get down to the real stuff as soon as possible. It's a secret sauce, let's bottle it up! 

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Heads up: brief discussion of restrictive eating from 8:00–10:00.

 In this episode of I Adore the Hell Outta You, we explore what it means to “white knuckle” through uncertainty — gripping tightly in the face of fear and uncertainty. We're feeling it big time and we're asking our bodies to loosen the grip and chill the hell out.  Come along for the ride if you feel called to melt into something simple and real. No drama please.

If you’ve been feeling maxed out, holding on too tight, or preparing for the next big shock, this conversation is an invitation to exhale. Let’s move from white knuckles to soft + cozy + comfort + whatever reminds you that we're taken care of — together.

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This week, we’re talking about resistance—not the epic fight-the-fascists kind (though, always), but the subtle, sneaky kind that shows up in the mundane. You know, like avoiding a phone call, ignoring the to-do list, or sigh resenting your houseplants.

In this episode, we explore how resistance is a signal. A signal that something feels too heavy, too fast, too much. From missed calls to maternal guilt, from packed schedules to prowling inner tigers, we unpack how resistance lives in the body, how it can help us clarify our boundaries, and how it might just have something important to say (Listen Bitch...) 

We also pull a Tarot card that helps us reflect on what happens when we integrate the wild and darker aspects of ourselves—those parts we usually resist the most.

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In this bold and honest episode, Christa and Holly dig into a question so many women ask themselves—“Am I too much?” We explore the double binds of expression and shame, the tension between freedom and societal expectation, and the weird space we land in as we age—where we feel more ourselves than ever, but are also met with louder external judgments.

We reflect on surrender, presence, and the audacity to express joy, creativity, and sexuality—especially in a culture that polices aging women. They unpack social media cruelty, teenage eye-rolls, bodily autonomy, white dresses at summer concerts, stage-ready glutes, and creative self-ownership in midlife.

It’s not just about earrings, outfits, or estrogen cream leaks at the gym—it's about reclaiming joy and showing up anyway.

Reminder: If you've ever thought "Am I too much?", just ask—too much for what?

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In this juicy episode, we welcome our very first guest—Tara from FMC Books in Missoula, Montana! Tara is the bold, brilliant owner of a romance bookstore that’s so much more than spicy stories (although there’s plenty of that, too). We talk about the power of third spaces, community-building through book clubs, smut as a tool for self-knowledge and pleasure, and how romance novels help us better understand what we want—in and out of the bedroom.

We're in our 'cowboy era' and we think you might like to ride that pony too, but there's something for every fantasy.  FMC is building something radical, hilarious, and deeply healing. Don't delay, slide into a good book, Tara and team are there to help you find just what you're looking for. Support a locally owned, female main character bookstore!!

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This week's episode is so dang fun. As we wind down Summer and step into our new routines and life adventures, we set this week aside for pure joy. Just a good ol fashioned catch up. Grab a cup of coffee or your diet coke and strap on your favorite listening device as we catch up and crack up. 

The astrology reading was AMAZING. Visit Jenny Montgomery to learn more

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This week, we’re not just raising our eyebrows—we're raising questions about what deserves our energy. Whether it's showering less, fielding social media comments, or thinking less about getting it "right" we’re talking about what it really means to let it go. And if you were unsure before, in this episode we keep landing on direct communication for the win.  

We’re also debuting our new segment: "Listen, Bitch," featuring one sticky note of truth you didn’t know you needed—this week’s? Yard sale patriarchy, we’re coming for you. 🛍️💥

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A softcore spiral, but make it funny.

 In this episode, Christa and Holly tackle all the things that make us go “hmm…” — from thirst traps and algorithmic surprises to camel toe tech and hiding your Pornhub history from your kid.

We’re talking about pleasure, shame, playfulness, and how even the most cringe moments are often just… hilarious and human. This one’s NSFW (Not Safe For Work- I had to look it up), tender in unexpected ways, and a reminder that the playful 12-year-old inside deserves a seat at this table. You’ve been invited and dinner is served.

Favorite things making us go hmm🤨

Camel toe proof thongs 🐫

Gym wear that makes your butt look🔥

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