Janet W. Hardy is the author of the famous book, “The Ethical Slut,” which talks about the question of honesty in sexual relationships. Is a lover of yours or you having side affairs without their knowledge? Without their knowledge Janet contends this is a non-consensual and ultimately unethical way to treat your partner. The Citizen and Mistress Lydia listen to Janet on this and other topics – business, writing, publishing, and politics.

Though friends and family know, many out there in Citizenland don’t know that our fearless friend, The Citizen, is a veteran of many wars. Unfortunately, it’s not the ones you’re thinking of – with guns and bombs and tanks. No, Citizen Abels is a veteran of legal wars. And as a veteran of legal wars, The Citizen has met many an attorney not worth his weight in spit. In this episode, The Citizen goes through what’s involved in filing an ethics complaint against an attorney.

In this episode of “I Am Citizen Abels,” recorded June 13, 2019, The Citizen talks with renown BDSM writer and publisher, Janet W. Hardy, who talks about her identification as a gender-queer sadist and switch, as well as about her relationships and her life in general. Listen as Janet – the author of BDSM classics like The Ethical Slut, The Topping Book, The Sexually Dominant Woman, and the newly released, Impervious – opens up about a range of topics wider than the equipment in Mistress Lydia’s c

It’s one more Father’s Day for Citizen Abels, and in this episode of “I Am Citizen Abels,” recorded June 10, 2019 at the luxurious Four Strong Media Studios, dominatrix Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur shows The Citizen who’s boss – just like everyone else in his life does. So The Citizen dons a dress, puts duct tape pasties on his breasts, and acknowledges the fact that he’s not anyone else – nor does he want to be. Anyone and everyone, hear ye, hear ye. The Citizen will do his own thing until the

Today’s episode of “I Am Citizen Abels” is not another day playing with Tickle Me Elmo. But it is about those things like tickling feet and busting balls and humiliating little pricks – The Citizen and his little prick not included. While Citizen Abels isn’t above some good clean adult fun, he winds up stripping down the fetish world – and himself – as Dominatrix Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur reveals her fetish and kink faves. You’ll hear our fearless friend with his mouth covered get embarrasse

Ow! That hurt! And that’s what this episode of “I Am Citizen Abels” is all about. Dominatrix Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur whips it good on the show, and even gives The Citizen a good flogging – or two. Don’t worry. Because our fearless friend never feels any pain. And anyone who’s been through a good divorce – much like a good flogging – feels no pain. So get ready, take your shirt off, take ten lashes and a gentle – well, not so gentle – prodding, and listen to The Citizen. Crack that whip

It’s Father’s Day again. Another day, another dollar gone. Well, actually, more than a few gone. In this episode of “I Am Citizen Abels,” The Citizen relays a dream-inspired list of the 10 things most fathers really want this Father’s Day. Have pity on your father. Have pity on every father that had to deal with stinkin’ kids, wives, ex-wives, baby mamas, and etc. and etc. It’s another day, and another time to enjoy The Citizen. A night out with his buddies at a strip club. Please, kids. Pleas

Listen, between the cost of weed and condoms – never mind iTunes and Spotify music – it’s damn frustrating being a teenager with empty pockets and a lot of needs. In this episode of “I Am Citizen Abels,” recorded May 16, 2019, The Citizen and Mitch go through ways teenagers can make money this summer and be able to stop sponging off their parents. The dynamic duo also discuss what to do to get started in business and important things to consider when dealing with customers and prospective customer

The Citizen knows a little about a lot, and a lot about…well, his little… But what most men and women don’t know a lot about is vagina. In this episode of “I Am Citizen Abels,” recorded May 17, 2019, The Citizen and Mitch go down a list of 10 things every woman – and man – should know about their vagina. Or just vagina in general. Go down with the boys and have a laugh, as the two old farts try to embarrass each other like a smelly fish in their beds.

In this episode of “I Am Citizen Abels,” recorded May 17, 2019, The Citizen and Mitch discuss a number of ways that men and women can improve their sex drive – from eating better meat to swallowing all the best kinds of vitamins. Wink wink. But really, The Citizen cares. He believes the world would be a better, happier place if we all had better, happier sex lives. See if you agree as you listen to Citizen Abels make a wish for men and women around the world – an orgasmic wish.