Episode 38: P’s first date since she split with her husband opened a whole load of emotions for both of us. We talk about this and then have a real laugh about her husband’s latest indiscretion.

Episode 37: Not a lot of time this week, so P and I talk about the many emails we have received and how it feels knowing this is happening to so many people. P also leaves us all on a cliff hanger about her life!

Episode 36: P and I reflect on our previous episode and the responses we received. P realises she has some regretful feelings she needs to work through and we discuss the role of remorse in the healing process.

Episode 35: Today we allow P to talk about a part of her life she wanted to be honest and transparent about. We have talked about it a lot between us and understand it may be controversial and provoke mixed reactions, so it’s very brave of her to put it out there. I am supporting her every step of the way.

Episode 34: I find an old journal that I started before I wrote my blog. P and I read some of it and reflect on how we both felt back then and how we feel now.

Episode 33: It’s exactly four years since my d-day weekend and four years since I’ve seen my sister, who was here when it all went down. We talk about what it was like for her and how it’s affected our family. Plus, P has some uplifting news about her ex you won’t want to miss!

Episode 32: P talks about her daughter’s birthday party with her ex and we get into a long discussion about an affair that ended in a murder/suicide.

Episode 31: After putting a call out on Instagram, P and I read out and discuss real comments that real betrayed wives have heard since their d-day. The most unhelpful and the most helpful.

Episode 30: I have had an exhausting week of anxiety, emotions and meltdowns and P is reminded not everyone is sympathetic to affairs.

Episode 29: P and I broach a topic we’ve been avoiding as it’s so delicate and difficult. We talk about how it made us feel knowing our husbands had had sex with someone else.