It's a profound realization I had, one that took far too long to dawn on me: I am not defined solely by the sport I play. Yes, I choose to be involved in that sport, to play, work, and dedicate a significant part of my life to it. But it is just that - a part, not the whole.
This eye-opening moment reshaped my perspective. I see many young athletes defining themselves solely by their athletic identity, saying, "I am an athlete from this sport." But that's not all who you are. In sports, so much is left to chance, officiating, factors beyond your control. You are more than the outcome of a game or a performance on the field.
Instead, identify yourself by the roles that truly define you - a good person, a hard worker, a brother, a sister, a cousin, a mother, a father. These roles reflect your core, your essence. Your family, your friends - these relationships are crucial in understanding who you are.
Start with who you are as a person. Then, extend that identity to other aspects of your life, whether it's sports, your career, or any other pursuit. But never lose sight of the fact that you are more than something largely out of your control. You are a complex, multifaceted individual with values, beliefs, and relationships that define you.
Identify as yourself first. Discover what is truly important and valuable to you. Embrace those aspects wholeheartedly. I have faith in your ability to find and cherish your true identity. I believe in you. You should, too.
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