I Get It

I Get It

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I Get It episodes

  • 077: Having a steamy sex life with tiny humans at home is hard!
    If you are a mom or dad to toddlers & babies, this episode is for you. There is so much about being a new parent people talk about… but what they don’t mention is the disconnect that happens in the bedroom. Today, we are here to help you gain some perspective, offer hope, and give a few tips to help you through this season. It is a tough one. We have been there… (and still are with one kid)… we get it!
    56 min
  • 076: Giving up control for a balance in parenthood
    Do you ever wish your husband would watch your kids? I know so many moms who have to beg or bribe their man to keep the kids and then leave them notes on what to do. Today, I (Tera) am sharing how we took baby steps to have play an equal role in being the caregiver for our kids… it is much harder on me than it is on him. And just a warning- your toes may get stepped on a little. But it is all with love.
    18 min
  • 075: Budgeting and personal finances with Ayana Campbell Smith
    Feeling awkward about talking about finances is just as common in relationships as talking about sex. There is so much hesitation in relationships for fear of an argument. Ayana Campbell Smith is helping couples everywhere break down that fear, change their mindset, and become debt free while still enjoying their life. She is here to talk saving buckets, budgeting, and helps settle an ongoing dispute between Wes & I. Find Ayana: www.millennialmoney.guide
    38 min
  • 074: What to expect from a vasectomy and recognizing loneliness
    From the title, it seems we are all over the place today but we are both sharing where we are at. Haha Wes is recovering from his vasectomy & I’m recovering from his intense travel schedule. Loneliness is often an overlooked emotion because it doesn’t show up the way we expect it to. Today we talk about how it feels & what it’s long term effects can do. Trigger warning- we go deep & touch on suicidal thoughts.
    38 min
  • 073: Intro to sex toys (tools)
    If you have ever been curious about spicing up your sex life but don’t know where to begin, or you have wanted to ask your partner to incorporate a sex toy in the mix but are feeling nervous- this episode is for you. We dive into how we got started, what we have tried, and creating boundaries so you both feel safe. Obviously not a kid or my mom friendly episode.
    38 min
  • 072: Limiting belief: I’m too old for this
    I have found myself saying this phrase a lot recently then heard 4 other women mention their age as a barrier within 36 hours of each other. Is this a feeling carried only by women? Is this a thought valid? And what are we holding ourselves back from?
    32 min
  • 071: Yes, We drive each other crazy

    Even in the most wonderful marriages, there is no such thing as a "perfect" partner. There are always little things that we do as individuals that make the other person feel a tiny bit of rage inside. Today, we are sharing our pet peeves and showing no relationship is perfect.

    31 min
  • 070: Why talking about sex matters

    Why do we talk about sex all the time? What is the big deal? Well, we all talk about it, even when we are avoiding the subject it is literally all around us. We want to change the narrative. We want to be in control of how that narrative affects us mentally. So, today we share why that matters and how bringing it up in the light actually opens us up to more freedom.

    30 min
  • 069: The One about married sex... obviously (insert high school boy laugh)

    The wedding night was less than spectacular, and it set the tone for the next 12 years of our marriage. All of the fun stuff had been removed and now we were just getting it done. Today, we dive into mindsets, fears, and what held us back for so many years. THEN, we dive into what has pushed us forward into what we experience today. I will definitely have a vulnerability hangover after this one 😅.

    33 min
  • 068: Adult friendship is weird

    Do you ever feel insecure when you enter a room filled with adults? I suddenly resort back to my 8 year old self of feeling awkward on the playground. Only now, I am 35 with 4 kids hanging from the monkey bars. I genuinely believed that friendships would get easier but in reality they just get more difficult to navigate. Today, we dissect why they are hard and what we can do to gain new ones.

    42 min

About I Get It

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After spending 5 years building a business & traveling to over 30 countries, Wes & Tera made the plunge to start their family. Now after 12 years, they have had their fair share of identity crisis, struggles with balance between home & work, and trying to create a home filled with adventure & love. They share how they create the moments they never want to forget, while battling the daily potty training struggles, and keeping things spicy in their marriage.