I Get It

I Get It

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I Get It episodes

  • 056: Am I the only one having awkward sex?

    Well, if you have asked yourself that question ever in your life-- I am here to tell you, NO! Today's episode, Wes and I laugh through some of the more embarrassing sex moments we have shared all just to let you know that it isn't always hot and steamy. We all think it is just us trying to figure it out and everyone else has perfected their moves. I am here to let you know we, too, had lessons to learn.

    Connect with Tera: https://www.instagram.com/terawages/

    Connect with Wes: https://www.instagram.com/weswages/

    26 min
  • 055: Harmless moments in relationships that actually aren't so harmless

    Why does my spouse feel so distant from me? Well, it may be because we have created loneliness without even realizing we are doing it. Today we are talking about how even having the best of intentions sometimes doesn't keep us from damaging our relationship. We share how Wes and I have done it to each other and what we are doing to correct these habits.

    39 min
  • 054: How to cope in a sex funk
    “I’m just not in the mood.” Is definitely a phrase we are familiar with. Or maybe you are thinking, “my spouse doesn’t want to have sex anymore.” We all experience it at one time or another- we physically, mentally, or emotionally just can’t show up sexually. Today we are diving into how we cope in seasons where sex is not meeting expectations because life is throwing exhausting curveballs.
    33 min
  • 053: The truth about a big family
    We always knew we wanted four kids, but we didn’t fully know what we were getting into. This episode we share the nitty gritty about life with a big family... the challenges & the unexpected.
    31 min
  • 052: Getting started in real estate investing
    We have had lots of people ask us, how do I get started in real estate investing. And we know it is stressful figuring out how construction loans work, or if it is better to longterm rent or Airbnb. Today, we share our financial background, what bank accounts we have, and the journey to owning 11 apartments, plus an office building. We talk about sacrifices we made, the fear we felt, the nitty gritty decisions that gave us these opportunities, and why we believe anyone can do this.
    Disclaimer: We are definitely not financial advisors. Use your money wisely and make calculated risks. If you have questions about your personal finances, find a financial planner that can help answer your specific questions.
    40 min
  • 051: Sex, Family, and Parenthood... I had no idea what I was getting into

    Wes & I celebrated our 13th wedding anniversary this past week, so we are reminiscing on just how naive we were when we walked down that aisle. Getting married at 21 gave me the false courage to think I actually knew what I was getting into… but I was wrong. Today we share the 7 things we were clueless about when we got married & how we feel about it today.

    31 min
  • 050: You Don’t Owe Anyone with Caroline McGraw
    Perfectionist, workaholics, humans who are living in boxes other people created... this episode is for you. Author Caroline McGraw is in the studio today talking about her new book “You Don’t Owe Anyone” which is all about breaking free from living a life by other peoples rules. This interview & book are game changers is breaking down shame and stepping into your own desires. Preorder your copy of “You Don’t Owe Anyone” - https://awishcomeclear.com/tera-wages
    49 min
  • 049: I don't want to be a Debbie Downer

    Today marks one year of the I Get It podcast and Wes and I are sharing what the last year has taught us more than anything. Spoiler alert: It is how vulnerability opens the door to change your life. Today we share what being vulnerable has looked like for us and reasons why you should push past your fear and share where you are with people around you. We also dive into what we see going forward in 2021 with the podcast.

    35 min

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After spending 5 years building a business & traveling to over 30 countries, Wes & Tera made the plunge to start their family. Now after 12 years, they have had their fair share of identity crisis, struggles with balance between home & work, and trying to create a home filled with adventure & love. They share how they create the moments they never want to forget, while battling the daily potty training struggles, and keeping things spicy in their marriage.