We have TWO weeks left of 2020.  And right now, we are sitting in the breath. The tiniest bit of in-between with the most magical season upon us. Today, we are sharing how we are looking for signs of hope and what we are doing to make these last two weeks count as we come out of such a dark year.

Between the end of the year, seasonal depression, and the emotions wrapped up in the holidays, many of us are feeling disconnected and empty... or your partner is. Today, we talk about how Wes was finally able to open up about these emotions, what our conversation looked like, and what Tera did wrong as he was being vulnerable.  Listen in, and don't be like Tera. 

Wes and I learned early in our marriage that setting goals helped us live a full life. When we didn't have a plan, nothing was being accomplished which meant we were missing out on what we wanted in life. Today we talk about the three times a year we sit and reevaluate where we are and what we want in our lives. It doesn't just happen on it's own. We didn't just wander up to the Pyramids, but with knowing what we wanted in life, we got there.

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Today is the Election of 2020. And the country is divided in ways I haven't seen in my lifetime. And we are all voting out in fear. But, today it is over. I talk briefly about what to do now. Today. And tomorrow. And the next as we all recover from this experience, together, united.

Wes & I have both said this sentence to each other at different moments in our marriage. And, whoa, reality check. When we reach that point, we stop trying. And when we stop trying, our marriage suffers. And we as individuals suffer because our partner no longer wants to show up in that area. 

We dive into this issue today- who has struggled with it the most in our relationship, the way we are changing our communication to support each other, and how this intentional change is giving us a rich marriage.

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Today we take a walk down memory lane and Wes goes as far as bringing out the first facebook messages we ever sent each other... I will admit it is embarrassing. Let's just say our romance is better than any you have seen on the Bachelor, and we would be a Jason & Molly for sure. But don't worry, there is also useful information about finding our own worth and where I believe our worth actually comes from. Enjoy this breather episode during a crazy week.

I am tired, and wiping baby booties doesn't exactly get me in the mood, so the last thing I want is my husband trying to feel me up at the end of the day. After years of trying to find our rhythm, we are finally in the groove, and I am no longer dodging him at the end of the day trying to put on my most unattractive sweats... and did I mention I am suddenly not feeling well? eek. Yea, it was rough at our house. Today we are talking about how we have taken the guessing out of it, and taking the guessing out of it ACTUALLY MAKES IT HAPPEN! Crazy stuff, hope you enjoy.

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We have spent most of our lives trying to only feel happy... anything else is bad, or wrong. But pain is inevitable and it is surrounding us right now... at every corner. How to cope with pain is up to us. It is our choice how we handle it, how we use it against others, or how we use it to stay numb so we feel nothing at all. We have been there and are dancing with the same feelings now. Today, we share how we are working to handle our hurt in hopes we make it to the other side of this mess whole.

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