I Get It

I took away Wes' identity today within 1 hour of being awake. It was totally unintentional and a little out of my control but it affected the rest of our day. In fact, we hash our thoughts out here in this episode because we have barely spoken to each other all day. Ironically enough, that is exactly what this episode is all about- identity. How we gain it. How we lose it. And how we build on to it as seasons of our lives change.

This is for anyone who has recently changed careers, gotten married, had a baby, moved to a new place, broken a bone, ended a relationship, gotten in a fight with your spouse... *cough* *cough*... so yea, it is probably for you😉

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I want to go on the record and say that we don't fit society's definition of #couplegoals. Wes & I are NOT perfect. We have experienced a struggling marriage. And if you have or are currently in that struggle, this episode is for you. We give tangible tips and action steps to get you from disconnect to reconnect. It doesn't happen overnight. But know that you aren't alone! It is a season & with an intentional mindset you can get to the other side.

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It is finally time, a whole episode dedicated to the thing you either love most... or avoid at all costs & pretend to be snoring. Yup, let's talk about sex. Because we are all having it (or expected to) and many of us are silently struggling through it. Well, if you know me, I refuse to be silent. Join me in today's episode all about the roles Wes & I play within our own marriage... no, not role playing (yet)... and why sex matters!

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We are talking about the effects of cancel culture. It seems every time I get online someone else is being turned off. Should we be cancelling people? When is it actually ok? And what are the long term effects of this movement? I will admit things I have personally done that could cancel me. Yup, I am pretty dang scared because things get controversial. But I told y'all I was going to be real... so, here we go.

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I need

There have been so many moments in recent months that Wes or I were just done with a conversation... but the other one wasn't. I even caught Wes hiding in the bathroom because his ears couldn't take one more minute of my passionate rants.

And can we please talk about decision fatigue?? Just buy the thing! As long as I don't have to hear about it anymore... I don't care!

Yup. Many of us have been there. This is how we cope.

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I'm 34 today... and it's awkward. I'm to the point of getting Botox, even though I said I never would. Meeting friends is super weird and I'm not sure it's going to get better... can you imagine having to meet new friends in the nursing home?!   

Wes and I chat about how you can deal with getting older as a couple. Yes, we change throughout the years and we have to learn to accept each other. But that change is ok... and we talk about learning to accept who we are and stepping into ourselves as we get older. #alwayslearning  

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Today, I interview Camille Bennett who is the founder of project say something & anti-racism leader located in Florence, Alabama. She shares about growing up as a black woman in Alabama, being a mom to two teenage sons, and how to be an ally to our black community. She has spent the last 3 years working towards the removal of a Confederate statue & shares her anger in what it has taken for the city to start to listen. I give an update on the removal of the monument after leaving the protest and city meeting. It will give a small glimpse into what our black communities are fighting. 

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After this week, we feel like no American can deny the reality of police brutality and justice within our country. But the truth is, this has gone on long before now. Today, Wes & I unpack the racism we have discovered within our own thoughts, we talk what white privilege and what it actually is. We talk about the subtle, often unintentional messages that are said to our black community every day & how these microaggressions shape their identity.

Are protests actually effective?

And most importantly, steps white people should take to begin their journey to discover & fight their own racism.

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Today we will go over how to travel on a budget, the hardest part of traveling, and some of the best places to travel. We also share some of the crazy experiences we have lived through & why it was all worth it!

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How do we move forward? As states start to open, we are finding ourselves standing in the middle of our old lives and the expectation of stepping into a new one. Today, Wes & I talk about how we are evaluating this season, what we want out of life looking ahead, and the parts of us we want to leave behind.

This episode will start the conversation in your own home to offer reflection and a shift. This is a chance to realign with what you want because so many of us had gotten off course one way or another.

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