I Mean...IDK

Last episode of the year besties! And what a year it has been! Your two favorite brown girls are looking forward to a new year, but wanted to send 2022 off with some booze, laughs, and great stories. So to help us, we welcome two new guests and friends of the pod, Aesha and Bianca. We get some unique married girl perspective and new single girl thoughts about relationships, dating and how much work is too much work when it comes to refining a man. We also play a fun round a "Never have I ever" that lead to some great stories. What an adventure this podcast has been and we are excited to see where 2023 takes it! So grab some wine and enjoy the show!

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So many people to cancel and so little time to do it! Todays episode is all about the most recent phenomenon our society has fallen in love with - Cancel Culture. While we love accountability and responsibility, is "canceling" someone really effective? We discuss the most recent Balenciaga scandal and all the cancel craziness from influencers burning their items on camera, social media influence to Kim Kardashians involvement. And maybe the people we really need to cancel is ourselves? Definitely a question worth discussing and an episode worth listening to. It's messy, but good. We promise!

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2023 is right around the corner and we all know what that means, New Year resolutions! But rather than wait for the new year (and to probably bail on them a week after), let's switch things up now! Today we talk about how to start switching up your routine and bringing some fun back into your life. We discuss why so many New Year resolutions fail, and some practical tips on how to make a change and stick to it. In the words of the incredibly wise and talented Spice Girls, "Spice up your life!" https://linktr.ee/imeanidkpodcast

We have all been told that we should never lower our standards….but that may have been wrong advice. Today we talk about a fascinating article on "The rise of lonely single men" and how that may be effecting our expectations in the dating world. Along with the article, we break down an instagram post about how in order to find a partner, we just might have to lower those expectations. This is an interesting one, kids. Hope you're ready for a dating reality check.

Article link: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/whats-behind-the-rise-lonely-single-men?amp

Expectation Instagram Post: https://www.instagram.com/p/ClJTCS8utdN/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

The holidays are upon on us and we all know what that means - No man November and Depressed December! In can be a rough time for us single folk and today we talk about how to handle being single during the holidays. From being purposeful in making plans to bring okay with saying no to the ugly sweater party you've been invited to. We also discuss how as a non single-person you can be a support to your single pals. Cause the best gift you can give them this holiday season is less cliché advice. Get ready to take some notes, friends! https://linktr.ee/imeanidkpodcast

We wouldn't be true 30 something podcasters if we didn't discuss the latest reality tv obsession - Love is Blind. On todays episode we talk all about americas favorite (or hated) couples and break down each of their issues and problems. We debate who will make it, who wont, and why you should always try to date a former ugly duckling. Even if you don't watch the show, todays episode is still a good one. So grab your golden goblet and tune in!

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How different would your life be if you knew then what you know now? Todays episode is all about the Top 10 Things we would tell our 20 year old selves. From finance to confidence to health to crying over the chads and brads of the world, we break down the lessons we have learned and that sometimes late is better than never.

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It's the end of October which brings our Single Scaries Series to a close. And to finish it out, todays episode is all about red flags….and some green ones too. We discuss our top 3 not so obvious red AND green flags you should watch out for while on the dating scene. We also have some fun celebrating Diwali, playing a fun little game that should have been a drinking one, and congratulating ourselves for not quitting and actually making it to episode 10! It's a jam packed, do not miss episode babes!

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This month is dedicated to the absolute scariest thing you can be right now… in your 30's and single. Okay, that's a little dramatic. But we still think it's a literal hell out there! We continue our Single Scaries Series with an episode dedicated to everyone's favorite past time in the dating scene…..GHOSTING! We discuss why it happens, why it hurts so damn much and some ways you can lessen the pain when it happens. We also have a classic Jackie/Sana debate on the best way to handle it. So grab your favorite Halloween candy and get ready for the best hour of your life! https://linktr.ee/imeanidkpodcast

How many of you have been personally victimized by a situationship? We think everyone can raise their hand. In todays episode we break down Jackies 5 year situationship (yes, you read that right) and the top 3 things you can do right now to avoid one. Also some warnings signs that will help you identify if you are heading in that direction. We also welcome back Sana from Italy and discuss differences in culture, men, and why Florence might be our new home.

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