I think we can all agree that the worst kind of love is unrequited love. And as much as we all hate to admit it, we have all been there. And if we are really going to be honest with ourselves, we have all had a really hard time accepting it too. And that’s what todays episode is all about. Learning to accept when “he’s just not that into you,” and more importantly how to heal, accept and move forward. We share some personal experiences and how we have both found ourselves in situations where not only was someone just not that into us (I know, hard to believe), we continued to fight with one more text or one more call. Listen besties, it ain’t fun when you find yourselves in a situation like this, but that’s why we are here. Listen in and get ready for some hard truths and free therapy!

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Today we have another guest and man oh man, it’s a special one. On todays episode we welcome the gal that literally brought your two favorite brown girls together, Jennifer Lozano. We have been friends with Jen for the past 10 years and she has never ceased to amaze us with her life stories and unconventional way of living. She tells us about her adolescence and being on her own since she was 18, her decision to not get married after a 19 year relationship, and experiencing motherhood later in life. In this day and age, we understand that there are many different ways to live your life, and Jennifer definitely shows us that unconventional doesn’t mean unsuccessful. We love this episode so much and hope you do too, babes!

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On todays episode gang, you are in for a treat. Well, we think you are. We decide to change it up this time around and deep dive into the arena of relationship advice. We took to Reddit and found some pretty wild stuff, but also some relationship situations that we think are pretty common, but also complicated. From having opposite gender friends, to insecure partners, to the classic bait and switch, we cover some pretty extensive ground today. And we aren’t saying we are the best advice givers, but we are also not NOT saying that either. But we will let you be judge of that. Enjoy the episode babes!

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Something you should know about us is that we love a good viral celebrity story. Enter Jonah Hill, his ex Sandy Brady, and the leaked text messages that are all over social media. Todays episode was inspired by this viral story of Sandy leaking some texts exchanged between her and Jonah. And even more inspired by Jonah’s use of the therapy speak term “boundaries.” Now, we aren’t gonna get into too much detail about their mishegoss, but these texts inspired therapists and relationship coaches all over to define what a boundary actually is vs what it isn’t (see controlling someone’s behavior). And that’s exactly what we dig into. What is a boundary? What does it look like in a relationship? And how have we struggled with this over used term. We get into the difference between boundary vs controlling, how our mouths get us into trouble (not in that way!), and what we have learned from our past mistakes and experiences. It’s definitely worth a listen, besties! It’s the one time celebrity gossip will actually result in something worthwhile.

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Hey hey besties! Today we have friend of the pod Urooj jump into hot tub with us to talk about a real pressing matter facing us today - NY men vs LA men. Okay, yes we know it’s not a real pressing issue, but we have a fun episode today talking about the difference between the two coasts, the way men function, a loss of masculinity, and so much more! We also take a look at standards vs expectations and how not knowing the difference may be sabotaging your love life. It’s another cornucopia of giggles, advice, and fun you don’t want to miss! https://linktr.ee/imeanidkpodcast

Did you miss us!? Of course you did! We are back gang with a new (but not improved) episode. Today we have a proper catch up and talk about ALL the things. From where to party in the south of France, why we are all going to hell over some memes, to the Taxi Cab theory…..we are all over the place. But like a good sit down with your besties, catching up over some margs and chips and salsa, this episode is a good time. So make some time to listen to your favorite brown girls as we discuss what we’ve been up to for the past couple of weeks! You’ll only regret it a little bit!

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You know this wasn’t going to be just one episode! We have a part two for you, besties! We dig into more of Gen Z and Nadeem’s perspective on dating, millennials and so much more. So listen up and get ready for the, as the kids say, Gen Z “tea.

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While we have GenZ to thank for a lot of things such as making TikTok popular, reminding us that skinny jeans are out, and fun new slang terms, we have to admit that there are still a number of things that confuse us about this new generation. Enter special guest, friend of the pod, and a GenZ-er, Nadeem ! On todays episode, we have Nadeem give us the scoop on ALL things GenZ. From what his favorite thing is about his generation to dating as a GenZ-er to why you should be answering those Sugar Daddy DMs and all things in between. It’s a fun and fantastic conversation that deserves not one, but two parts! So get ready to take some notes because you are definitely going to learn a thing or two

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As two 30 something single girls, there are definitely times where we wish we knew our future. And today’s episode is all about the question of what if you did? If you knew that your future as a single person did not include marriage at all, would you act think or operate differently? This is a question that came from a recently stumbled upon TikTok video, and we thought it was a doozy. We know we would all love to say that we wouldn’t be operating differently, but we all know that in some way, it’s a damn lie. We discuss this very intriguing question and have a very candid conversation about how we would operate differently in our own lives. We also touch on looking at marriage as part of the journey vs the goal, how wanting to find a partner really does impact different areas of our lives, and getting married young; yes or no. It’s an episode that takes a lot of twist and turns, but we encourage you to sit back and enjoy the journey, pals. And of course, let us know your thoughts! If you knew your future, would it change your present? https://linktr.ee/imeanidkpodcast

Raise your hand if you have ever been personally victimized by someone else’s happiness? Okay, we are being dramatic, but sometimes it can definitely feel that way. Todays episode is all about how to not compare and “hate” while on your journey. We love this topic because while we are in our single girl journey, we know comparison happens at every stage in life. And of course we all know we shouldn’t compare, but it’s something that our hearts have a hard time understanding. So rather than just tell you why comparison never works, we discuss some practical ways of how not to compare and choose to enjoy the journey you are on even if it’s not where you thought you might be in life. And believe us, it’s definitely not easy to stop the eye rolling every time you see another engagement, wedding, promotion, baby, etc but we are committed to doing better and hope you are too, besties!

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