I Mean...IDK

So, what happens if you hit your 30s and you're not married, don't have kids, and aren't sitting pretty in your dream house? Are you officially a loser? Sometimes it feels that way, but spoiler alert… you're not.

In this episode, we call out the myth of the "perfect 30s timeline" and talk about the messy reality of being single, hyper independent, and maybe a little too good at taking out your own trash. We get into the pressure of the biological clock, the "should I freeze my eggs?" panic, and that awkward mix of feeling behind while also realizing you've built a pretty solid life for yourself.

It's real, it's funny, it's a little raw. Because life doesn't end if you don't check the boxes on schedule—it just means your story looks different. And honestly, different isn't a bad thing.

This week we're digging into the dreaded word: settling. Is it the end of romance or just the beginning of being realistic? We unpack what "settling" actually means, where people tend to do it (looks, money, personality — you name it), and whether everyone secretly has to compromise at some point. We ask the hard stuff: if you hold out, are you destined to be alone forever, but if you settle, are you signing up to hate your life? We get into the gender dynamics (why women get told to settle more than men), the data (yes, 1 in 3 women knew they were settling before they said "I do"), and the bigger question — is it really settling, or just learning to grow with someone? Basically, we cover the full messy spectrum between "dream partner" and "good enough."

Hey gang, this week we're wading into dangerous territory: love versus money. Yep, we're talking The Materialists — the movie some people are calling broke boy propaganda. And honestly… kinda? Maybe? Well, we get into it and so much more.

Is love really all you need, or do we just say that until the rent's due? Does wanting financial security automatically make you a gold digger, or does it just make you someone who understands how much oat milk costs these days? We're pulling apart all the messy, unspoken truths about relationships, money, and the stuff people usually save for their group chat. It's juicy, it's a little uncomfortable, and it's definitely one you don't want to miss.

Hey babes, the kettle is boiling because this week we're spilling the tea… on the Tea app. Yep, the infamous little platform where women can swap Yelp-style reviews on men in the dating pool (because, let's be real, accountability is apparently too much to ask for). We get into the drama, the outrage, the "but what about the men?!" cries, and the bigger question no one's actually asking: why do we even need an app like this in the first place? Spoiler alert: it might have something to do with ghosting, gaslighting, and the general dumpster fire that is modern dating. So grab your cutest cup and saucer, you cute little crumpets, cause this week's tea is extra hot!

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We're baaaaack! Yes babes, you're reading, seeing, and hearing this correctly — after a 1.5-year hiatus, we're back! Of course, we know you missed us and all our shenanigans. And trust us, this episode does not disappoint. Honestly, it's like we never left. Today, we're diving in and catching you up on everything we've been up to over the last year and a half. Why did we take a break? Did we have a falling out? Did we meet the sugar daddy of our dreams and were just sailing around the Mediterranean ? Well, to find out, you'll have to listen. So sit back, get comfy, and let us answer all your burning questions. It's the comeback episode you don't want to miss!

Do you ever wonder why you get anxious when you don't hear from someone? Or maybe a friend or guy you're seeing tends to run away when things get real? Well, there's an answer to that and it lies in Attachment theory. Today, we discuss and dig into Attachment styles/theory, and how they impact relationships and how we function as people. Now, we have to think friend of the pod Urooj for inspiring us with today's topic and of course had to have her join us to talk all about this. We look at what styles we are, have we evolved, why and how attachment styles form and much more. It's a fascinating topic that can really provide so much insight into how we function in relationships. So get your notebook and put on your best smart girl outfit, cause we are going to learn a thing or two today.

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It's Episode 52, gang! Which means that technically we have done a FULL year of the world's best podcast! And to celebrate, we bring you an episode that we think is classy Sana and Jackie - a good old fashioned dating debate! Yes, today we breakdown the commonly heard phrase, "If he wanted to, he would." Now, we know that EVERY single gal out there is very familiar with this statement. And it gets tossed around a lot. So, we decided to break it down and really deep dive into where we think this statement holds true and where it doesn't. We don't want to spoil anything for you, cause this is a good one, so buckle up buttercups and get ready for a (dating) rumble!

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Happy New Year and we are back, babes! Yes, yes, we know you're asking "where the hell have we been!?" And that's fair. But you know, sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder. J/k! We have just been busy, okay! But let's focus on the fact that it's a new year ( Hello 2024!) and we are bringing yet another great episode to the table. Today, we are giving you the highlight reel and all the life updates since we last chatted. We have some dating updates, life updates, and of course we gotta tell you all about the season finale of 2023 (it's a good one, besties!). And since we are in the New Year, we talk about things we are both leaving behind in 2023 - attitudes, actions, people……you know, whatever is just not fitting in the suitcase that is 2024. We are happy to be back! So sit down and let's have a chat and giggle! https://linktr.ee/imeanidkpodcast

It's the big 5-0 for us here at I Mean…IDK, and we are so excited to have made it this far. Tbh, we were REALLY hoping to have a new and exciting guest, but you know, things happen and the universe just said, "hey, wasn't meant to be." BUT, don't think for a second that we let that stop us from bringing you babes a great episode filled with the usual laughs, discussions, updates and much more. Today, we decided to go into that viral list that's been making the rounds of Where NOT to go on a first date. Now, this list is controversial and has caused SO many discussions, so of course you know we had to give our thoughts and opinions. We break down the list one by one and also give some first date do's and dont's that we firmly believe in. As always, it's a classic I Mean…IDK episode that's a DO NOT miss!

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One more episode until your favorite podcast hits the big 5-0, besties and we are so excited! But don't think we are slouching on the episodes, cause we have a great one for you today. We are joined by our number #1 fan and beloved friend, Anna Carter. You all know how Sana and I feel about getting married young, so we asked Anna to come share her experience and thoughts on her young marriage, the expectations, the challenges, and would she recommend it. She also shares her advice for those who have made the decision to marry young and some of her memories from those first couple of years of marriage. We absolutely loved having her and we know you'll love listening!

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