I Saw Him First

By AnjySociety & Culture Relationships

I Saw Him First episodes

January 15, 2021 EP.17 IS A SEXLESS RELATIONSHIP A DEALBREAKER?
Let's talk about sex baby, let's talk about you and me... This week's podcast is about the value of sex in a romantic relationship. Can a relationship feel intimate without sex? How much compromise should you make for your partner and how would you approach the conversation around sexual compatitbility? Could you be in a sexless relationship?

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42 min
January 01, 2021 EP.16 SEX EDUCATION IN AN AFRICAN HOUSEHOLD
Who knew the Bible was so savage, lol. Sex vs Religion... Is there an even ground? Sex in an African household has been a tabooooo topic for the longest time and we deffo broke the silence on this. We discussed the type of sex education we got as teenagers, men being allowed the liberty and grace to be "promiscuous", but women not given the same leeway, and being held to such unreal standards of holiness. Lastly, we also touched on being a modern 21st century liberal woman and still being religious. Let the debate begin! 🤪
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ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share ❣️
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44 min
December 18, 2020 EP.15 SUCK ME IN WITH YOUR EYEBALLS - FT AUDREY (The Receipts Podcast)
This week's podcast will have you rolling on the floor LAUGHING for realllllll. I had so much fun playing "this or that" with Audrey, and telling her how much I love her cheesy jokes. We talked about Love vs Security, Shooting your Shot and Getting the Hint when a guy gives you some intense EYE CONTACT. We also talked about making your intentions clear at the start of a relationship and not being scared to move on if your man or girl is incompatible with you.
Thanks for listening :)
ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share :)
Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod
OR
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Email - [email protected]
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Kenny's Podcast & Socials
https://linkkle.com/TossItOutPod
The Receipts Podcast
Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/3GMZiZnqL4Hib6DD5PGhdj?si=FpAc3wmYRCSKP3-fIfBuyA
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38 min
December 04, 2020 EP.14 MEN IN THEIR 30s ARE JUST AS SLOPPY - FT AUDREY (The Receipts Podcast)
Yes!!!! It's AUDREY, formely known as Ghana's Finest herself on this podcast with me. I also have my twin sister, Kenny with me and I'm so gassed for this week's episode. We talked about what it's like dating in our 20s vs dating in our 30s. Are grown men really more mature? Do you get flown out on an all expense paid trip to Dubai? Date nights in Italy? Or are men in their 30s really just as sloppy as men in their 20s? Do they flake on dates just like this small university boys? Audrey gives us the tea on all the shenanigans she got up to during her "bird days" as she calls it.

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Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod
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Thanks for listening :)

Kenny's Podcast & Socials
https://linkkle.com/TossItOutPod

The Receipts Podcast
Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/3GMZiZnqL4Hib6DD5PGhdj?si=FpAc3wmYRCSKP3-fIfBuyA
Book Pre-order - https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1472282574/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1603190251&sr=8-2&tag=smarturl-gb-21

43 min
November 20, 2020 EP.13 WHATCHU KNOW BOUT LOVE?
I had sooo much fun recording this! This podcast is a reaction to a couple of Dating & Relationship advice I found on YouTube. It includes advice on Communicating your standards, Giving 100% in a relationship, and the concept of Independent vs Co-dependence. I rated each statement on a scale of 1-10 and gave my own little input about whether or not I agree with these dating experts.
ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share :)
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Thanks for listening :)

Disclaimer:
Some of the audios used in this podcast are not mine.
No copyright infringement intended!
Copyright Owners:
- Matthew Hussey
- Stephan Speaks
- Audrey, Milena & TollyT of The Receipts Podcast
33 min
November 06, 2020 EP.12 DATING AS A BLACK GIRL - Part 2
On this episode, my two guests and I debated whether or not it is racist to say I DON'T DATE *INSERT RACE*, or if only specific groups of people can get away with always sticking to their race *coughs Asians* :)
We also discussed how white men perceive different types of black women and if there is a preference for specific looks or traits. Lastly, we touched on the "pretty for a black girl" phrase and how degrading that is.
ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share :)
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Thanks for listening :)
26 min
October 23, 2020 EP.11 MOVING ON FROM AN UNSUCCESFUL AND UNFULFILLING RELATIONSHIP
This podcast isn't just about how to get over a breakup, it's about how to prepare and get yourself ready for a more suitable match for you!
Who exactly qualifies as an ex? How soon should you move on after a relationship has ended? Is the heartbreaker always the one to move on the quickest? Should you try and wean yourself off of your ex or should you straight up go cold turkey?
Professional Relationship Coach - Alison Wellington from the U.S talks about the struggles we all go through during a breakup, as well as how to actually move on and never look back.
ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share :)
Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod
   OR
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Email - [email protected]
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Alison Wellington's Socials:
Instagram - @alignwithalison
Twitter - @alignwithalison
Facebook - @alignwithalison
Youtube - @alignwithalison
Thanks for listening!
47 min
October 09, 2020 EP.10 DATING AS A BLACK GIRL - Part 1
3 beautiful black girls having a candid and honest discussion about what it's like to date as black women in the UK. We talked about dating outside our races and the misconceptions of interracial relationships especially when a black woman is involved. Whether or not black men have it easier in the dating world. Flirting with boys or waiting for them to make the first move. Being raised in an African household only to take care of our future black husbands... It's all in there somewhere. I hope you ENJOYYYY it :) Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod OR Send a dm on Instagram @ https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast FIND ME EVERYWHERE - https://linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast Thanks for listening and don't forget to share :)
40 min
September 25, 2020 EP.9 DATING UP DATING DOWN OR DATING EQUAL?
NO ONE WORKS EXTRA HARD TO KEEP SOMETHING THEY CAN EASILY REPLACE!!!! When you have something that doesn't seem of great value to you, you treat it differently to something that feels like a prize or a luxury to have. The same mentality can be applied to DATING OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE. If you date down, you run the risk of not ever being content, whilst also making your partner feel inadequate. If you date up, you find yourself constantly trying to be worthy of your partner and trying extra hard to level up and please them. So should you always date EQUALLLL?
Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod
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30 min
September 11, 2020 EP.8 GIRLS MAKING THE FIRST MOVE
Good things come to those who wait.. but this definitely doesn't apply to men cuz if you wait too long, there just wouldn't be anyone left :)
It is seen as the norm for men to do the chasing and asking out. But is this dating culture outdated? Do guys like it when girls ask them out, or does it make them uncomfortable? What are the pros and cons of girls MAKING THE FIRST MOVE?
ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share :)
Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod
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Thanks for listening :)
35 min