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If you've ever searched for pregnancy loss support and felt invisible when TFMR isn't mentioned, this episode is for you. Sabrina Fletcher (that’s me, The TFMR Doula) gets real about what it means when baby loss spaces claim to be "for all" but never list termination for medical reasons alongside miscarriage and stillbirth. She shares practical suggestions for grief spaces that want to truly welcome TFMR families: from using the term explicitly in descriptions to moderating stigmatizing comments to highlighting our stories (even anonymously).
This isn't about calling any groups or specific people out. It's about calling them in.
Many broad loss spaces genuinely want to learn how to be better allies, especially during Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. If you've been looking for language to help others understand why representation matters, or if you run a space yourself and want to support TFMR families better, this episode gives specific steps forward. Because TFMR *IS* pregnancy loss, and we deserve to be named.
START 1on1 SUPPORT NOW:
📧 Email me, I want to hear from you: sabrina @ the tfmrdoula . com
📅 Book you Decision Support call: https://www.thetfmrdoula.com/decision-support.html
MORE TFMR GRIEF SUPPORT RESOURCES:
For more TFMR support, join us over on Instagram: www.instagram.com/thetfmrdoula
💜 Join our Facebook group: https://www.thetfmrdoula.com/facebookgroup
🎙 Want to share your story on Our TFMR Stories?
Email Sabrina sabrina @ the TFMR doula . com  to be featured on the podcast
Music credit:
Pamgaea by Kevin MacLeod
Creative Commons License
Links: https://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=usuan1300036
License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
 By Sabrina Fletcher | Pregnancy Loss Doula supporting grieving parents
By Sabrina Fletcher | Pregnancy Loss Doula supporting grieving parents5
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If you've ever searched for pregnancy loss support and felt invisible when TFMR isn't mentioned, this episode is for you. Sabrina Fletcher (that’s me, The TFMR Doula) gets real about what it means when baby loss spaces claim to be "for all" but never list termination for medical reasons alongside miscarriage and stillbirth. She shares practical suggestions for grief spaces that want to truly welcome TFMR families: from using the term explicitly in descriptions to moderating stigmatizing comments to highlighting our stories (even anonymously).
This isn't about calling any groups or specific people out. It's about calling them in.
Many broad loss spaces genuinely want to learn how to be better allies, especially during Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. If you've been looking for language to help others understand why representation matters, or if you run a space yourself and want to support TFMR families better, this episode gives specific steps forward. Because TFMR *IS* pregnancy loss, and we deserve to be named.
START 1on1 SUPPORT NOW:
📧 Email me, I want to hear from you: sabrina @ the tfmrdoula . com
📅 Book you Decision Support call: https://www.thetfmrdoula.com/decision-support.html
MORE TFMR GRIEF SUPPORT RESOURCES:
For more TFMR support, join us over on Instagram: www.instagram.com/thetfmrdoula
💜 Join our Facebook group: https://www.thetfmrdoula.com/facebookgroup
🎙 Want to share your story on Our TFMR Stories?
Email Sabrina sabrina @ the TFMR doula . com  to be featured on the podcast
Music credit:
Pamgaea by Kevin MacLeod
Creative Commons License
Links: https://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=usuan1300036
License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

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