“ignoramus” w/ kJoiee ✨

breakups and heart break go hand in hand but how often do we think about breakups and the brain? we are continually experiencing shifts and changes within our everyday lives; in this episode we talk about breakups and it’s heavy role on your brain’s cognitive functionality and processes. so when you think you’re crazy and alone, trust it’s not just you!

how often do you place your needs as secondary? how often do you ask yourself what your needs are? here we talk about loyalty to yourself first and the need to channel your own voice. special guest & artist Stanley joins us to talk about his breakup experiences and learned life lessons. we also are joined by my mother who shares her insights with us on heartache and the progression through it.

have you ever been scrolling through dating apps and think is this person a slob? do they shower? are they a creep? why? what are your questions rooted in? are they really your concerns or ones you think you should have simply based on what they look like? this week we talk about fat phobia in dating and the ignorance that come up when trying to find a date. we get real again about my feelings on the old and new discoveries of myself, past experiences, & sza’s new song with our special guest, reo.

this is my most painful episode to date. i revisit the list of my previous relationship & how painful the process at times can be. this is my raw and honest assessment of my feelings. how often do we sugarcoat and try to paint a nice picture of things that hurt us. there are always two sides to a story and just because there are two doesn’t make yours any less true. matters of the heart and muddy, painful, and long. i long for the day where i am unafraid of my love again. until then here i am, still processing.

this is a time where i don’t have any extra words. this episode speaks volumes into the transcendence and transformation of my growth. this is 25.

once again we are on a journey of self healing and reflection. this week we get an update on my sexual assault situation and it’s aftermath. life continues to throw and i continue to claim my existence in this world.

*trigger warning* hey y’all, i’ve been going through an array of things as of late and it’s hard to stay focused and keep moving forward. in this episode i talk about setting boundaries, sexual assault, and expressions of anger. join me! ☀️

what happens when we give into change? what happens when we give into our temporary discomforts even when they feel long lasting? can we allow ourselves to be honest enough to move through the discomforts and be inviting of change? this episode we talk to the wonderfully talented actress and screenwriter Pam and learn about her journey from audition process to writing her truths. You don’t wanna miss what we’ve got cooking today on our official second episode of “ignoramus!”

i struggled with beginning my podcast journey being that i’ve been so torn up & tired recently from my personal life. because there was always going to be an excuse as to why i couldn’t i just hit record. here i move through a plethora of findings by traveling into beginnings and ends of my three year relationship, upbringing, & more.