I'm Really Bad at This

This episode begins with James and Bookie explaining why they believe Holy Cougars are the wave and offer some great dating advice. Jerrold is back from New Zealand and shares all about his trip (16:02) James preached at a predominantly White church and nobody shouted (47:23) Bookie is ready to quit his new job already (1:00:44) Kamala may be king? (1:04:10) Crooked Cops are at it again? (1:22:36) I thought he was African American but he’s just African (1:35:20) Oatmeal was really made for horses and other conspiracies (1:41:51) High Speed Juicing and juicing health tips (2:02:16) Did the Olympics cross the line with it’s artistic expression? (02:07:30) Why can’t Black Americans own their own sports leagues and a piece of Hollywood? (2:25:44) 

This episode begins with Jerrold explaining why he was put in Facebook jail (5:39) James has been practicing his breakup speech with his accountability partner (11:25) Jerrold is headed to another country (16:39) Pastor Anthony Kidd encourages our souls (23:50) Is this real Black preaching? (43:42) Your ethnic impact on your worship style (47:49) American Christian music is still very white tho (55:48) Bookie reminisces about his Christian Hip Hop Management days (1:16:49) Jerrold has a special announcement (1:19:54)

This week the guys into a discussion about the assassination attempt of former President Trump. Jerrold shares how the Secret Service women don’t scare him but Bookie thinks it’s because of DEI (20:32) James took a look at Project 2025 and gives us insights (32:19) How ugly women make attractive men fall for them (1:08:38) Men are becoming more healed what does this mean for the ladies? (1:16:26) James teaches us that a lot of relationships would be working better if we just listened to R&B (1:28:37) 

In this episode James thinks he may need to break up with his accountability partner. Do we truly celebrate the holidays properly? (17:45) I remember the time we almost got jumped at a rodeo (26:08) How would you really act if you were homeless (32:20) Jerrold opens up about some recent challenges in his marriage (52:18) Hey young world date your age (1:23:38) 

In this episode Jerrold kicks things off talking about how marriage groups have helped his marriage for more than 20 years. We reminisced about our first Really Bad Marriage Group (3:58) I can go to Disneyland by myself (26:08) Was our predictions correct about the first presidential debate? (38:58) The 10 Commandments should we put them back in schools? (52:32) Is going for coffee a “cheap” first date? Are you a “Food Digger” if you think so? (1:08:06) How soon should someone you’re dating tell you they’ve had a same sex relationship? (1:23:09) Have you ever talked “Body Count” with your spouse? (1:38:25) Being on the Blade is a regular occupation now (1:45:30) Jerrold actually dated someone who had a same sex relationship before he was married (1:48:39) Jerrold is giving off “Extra Dexter Vibes” (2:03:23)

Bookie on FB https://www.facebook.com/lamar.b.douglas 

Bookie on Treads https://www.threads.net/@bookie98 

Bookie IG

https://www.instagram.com/bookie98?igsh=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

James on FB https://www.facebook.com/JamesN0games

Jerrold on FB https://www.facebook.com/Jerroldwithajay

Is Bill Gates making meat? (4:53) How the Kdot concert really impacted Juneteenth (10:20) What is the culture? (13:47) The Presidential Debate (40:53) If your spouse cheated would you stay? (1:03:53) I think God wants you to upgrade, I meant downgrade (1:15:07) Do you see dead people? (1:29:15)

Bookie on FB https://www.facebook.com/lamar.b.douglas 

Bookie on Treads https://www.threads.net/@bookie98 

James on FB https://www.facebook.com/JamesN0games

Jerrold on FB https://www.facebook.com/Jerroldwithajay

Jerrold on Instagram @JerroldwittaJay

This episode the guys gave their initial thoughts on the Tony Evans announcement (8:25) RIP Red Lobster (14:27) What’s Juneteenth? (17:59) Angela White/ Blac Chyna only answers to the trinity (21:12) Can Christians work together with other religious groups? (32:20) Neil Degrasse Tyson say’s astrology is wack! (46:25) Pastor apologizes to the LGBTQ+ community (1:00:26) Is this Step-Father being stepped on? (1:24:09)

Bookie on FB https://www.facebook.com/lamar.b.douglas 

Bookie on Treads https://www.threads.net/@bookie98 

James on FB https://www.facebook.com/JamesN0games

Jerrold on FB https://www.facebook.com/Jerroldwithajay

Jerrold on Instagram @JerroldwittaJay

Does it take 10 years to really start a marriage? 20 plus years later here’s our thoughts (1:30) Juneteenth Kendrick Lamar concert predictions (26:45) Compton Official Pride (28:58) Do the children of today need more struggle in their lives? (33:20) There are not a lot of good single men? (44:25) Is the “Mega Church” a good place for community? (1:04:36) Preston Perry’s book testimony (1:22:37) Are we still talking about church clothes? (1:26:38) Ex-Christian rapper turned pornstar? (1:38:16)

Bookie on FB https://www.facebook.com/lamar.b.douglas 

Bookie on Treads https://www.threads.net/@bookie98 

James on FB https://www.facebook.com/JamesN0games

Jerrold on FB https://www.facebook.com/Jerroldwithajay

Jerrold on Instagram @JerroldwittaJay

In this episode of IRBAT the guys talk about how church community is vital (9:35) Listen to YouTube prayers instead of coming up with your own (12:23) How long does it take for your devotional time to kick in? (14:33) Andre 3000 are we just not cultured enough? (24:06) Are you working up to your potential or just making excuses? (31:15) Are fatherless homes still a bad thing? (56:31) Is it ok to “chase” my wife? (1:15:40)

Bookie on FB https://www.facebook.com/lamar.b.douglas 

Bookie on Treads https://www.threads.net/@bookie98 

James on FB https://www.facebook.com/JamesN0games

Jerrold on FB https://www.facebook.com/Jerroldwithajay

Jerrold on Instagram @JerroldwittaJay

In this episode the guys discuss Diddy Friend Silence (4:45) Church Discipline (13:37) The Pastor didn’t help me so I didn’t help him (24:14) Preston Perry’s new book How to Tell the Truth (53:01) We pray that horrible things happen to you (63:06) If my child was LGBTQ or not (79:30) 

Preston Perry’s YouTube page: https://www.youtube.com/@apologeticswithprestonperr4060

Bookie on FB https://www.facebook.com/lamar.b.douglas 

Bookie on Treads https://www.threads.net/@bookie98 

James on FB https://www.facebook.com/JamesN0games

Jerrold on FB https://www.facebook.com/Jerroldwithajay

Jerrold on Instagram @JerroldwittaJay