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Erik Allen, raised in a broken home, battled addictions, jailed at 18, bankrupt at 21 only to turn everything around. Gave my life to Jesus at 24 and now 17+ years sober, beautiful wife, two kids, Host of The Erik Allen Show, John Maxwell Certified Coach, help men of faith feel confident in sharing their redemption stories & help entrepreneurs get known and noticed online!

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Today we're talking about my #1 Key to a life of IMPACT: Mindset

Specifically, Growth VS Fixed Mindset

We'll talk about:

• Why Mindset is Important
• What is a fixed mindset
• What is a growth mindset
• Growth VS fixed mindset

What’s the number one factor that determines whether or not someone succeeds at achieving a goal? Do you know? Is it genetics? Luck? What about skills or natural talent? Hard work has to be in there somewhere, right? How about networking and getting the right degree?

All of these factors are important, some more so than others, but none hold the number one spot. So, what’s number one? If you guessed mindset, you’re right. Research has shown that mindset is a better predictor of future success than every other factor you can consider, including working hard and natural talent.

There are two basic types of mindset: fixed mindset and growth mindset. Of the two, growth mindset is the preferred one, but that’s not to say there is anything inherently wrong with having somewhat of a fixed mindset; it’s just a different way of viewing the world.

Furthermore, few people have a pure fixed mindset or a pure growth mindset. Most people have a combination of the two, and they might have different aspects of each in different parts of their lives. A person’s mindset is also changeable and changes naturally through time or due to conscious effort.

A growth mindset is one that believes in change and improvement. Someone who has a growth mindset believes that their skills and talents can be improved through hard work, practice, and dedication. Natural talent is a gift of genetics, but it alone is not enough to make someone a master of their craft, and even the most talented person can get better through practice.

People with a growth mindset have a love of learning and never stop trying to learn new things, even many years after they get out of school. They’re always trying to understand the latest methods in their field, improving their skills at a sport, or learning something new.

Growth mindset and fixed mindset might seem like opposites, and in many ways they are, but there’s more to it than that. These mindsets are different ways of looking at the world and of processing and using the information that we are presented with.

From a personal development standpoint, a growth mindset is preferred, but that doesn’t mean it’s better than a fixed mindset in other ways. Both have their advantages and disadvantages and having more of a fixed mindset or more of a growth mindset doesn’t determine what type of person someone is.

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Welcome to this week's episode of Constructive Liberty, where we explore ways to live a more fulfilling and meaningful life. Today, we'll be discussing the five keys to an impactful life: purpose, mindset, relationships, health, and wealth. These are the five core areas that can help you live a life filled with impact, joy, and happiness.

In this segment, we'll talk about the importance of having a clear purpose in life and how it can shape your decisions and direction. Understanding your purpose can help you find meaning in what you do and give you a sense of direction. We'll discuss practical ways to uncover your purpose and how to align your daily actions with it.

A growth mindset can have a significant impact on your life, and in this segment, we'll talk about how to cultivate it. We'll discuss the difference between a fixed and growth mindset, and why having a growth mindset can lead to more success, happiness, and impact. We'll also talk about practical ways to shift your mindset and make it a habit.

The relationships we have with others can have a profound impact on our lives. In this segment, we'll talk about the importance of nurturing healthy relationships and how they can contribute to our overall happiness and well-being. We'll also discuss how to build strong relationships, maintain healthy boundaries, and communicate effectively with others.

Our physical and mental health plays a critical role in our overall well-being and can impact every aspect of our lives. In this segment, we'll talk about the importance of taking care of your health, both physically and mentally. We'll discuss practical tips for maintaining a healthy lifestyle, managing stress, and prioritizing self-care.

Having a solid financial foundation can provide stability and security, and can also contribute to a sense of independence and freedom. In this segment, we'll talk about the importance of financial literacy and smart money management. We'll discuss practical ways to build wealth, manage debt, and plan for the future.

In conclusion, the five keys to an impactful life – purpose, mindset, relationships, health, and wealth – are interrelated and can have a profound impact on your overall well-being and happiness. By prioritizing these areas, you can live a life filled with purpose, joy, and impact.

Today I'm talking all things perfectionism.

The problem with perfectionism, the characteristics of perfectionism, and the three types of perfectionism. (Who even knew there were three?)

But we don't stop there, we talk about the upside of perfectionism as well.

The problem:

• it's portrayed as both a strength, AND a weakness, which is confusing
• no one and nothing can be perfect
• impossible to attain
• can cause stress, anxiety, and depression

5 Types of Perfectionism

1. Unrealistic or Impossible Standards
2. Being Extremely Critical Towards Oneself and Others
3. Focusing Only on Results
4. Fear of Failure
5. All-or-Nothing Thinking

The Three Types of Perfectionism

1. Socially Prescribed Perfectionism
2. Other-Oriented Perfectionism
3. Self-Oriented Perfectionism

The Upside of Perfectionism

• Big Dreams and Drive
• A Desire for Excellence
• Dedication
• Extra Attention to Details
• A Refusal to Accept Failure

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Lorene Hochstetler is someone I've know since I was a wee little lad.

She is a healer, entrepreneur, and mother.

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1 Live With Purpose 

If there is one way to override doubt, fear, and apprehension it's with purpose. Your doubt might actually be a symptom of your lack of purpose. The why of what you do is important because the why is what provides you with momentum. If you hone in on that this will help you weather any rough road you encounter. 

From here on out, when you feel self-doubt creeping in, check your purpose. Fear, doubt, and apprehension can be crippling. To start overcoming yours, find your purpose, determine your values, and get to know yourself. 

That's part of the personal development process, but it's also something you can start separately from self-improvement. That process should help you ease some of those doubts and fears you feel about personal development. 

2 Your Inner Circle Matters 

Who do you spend the majority of your time with? The company you keep can heavily influence you, whether that is positive or negative. If you spend your time with Debbie Downers, then there's a good chance you are going to turn into something of a Debbie Downer yourself. If you are constantly surrounded by Positive Pattys, then it stands to reason you will also start being a more positive person. 

Moods are contagious. Think about it. Have you ever worked somewhere that everyone is on tenterhooks waiting to see what mood the boss is in? If they breeze in with a good morning everyone breathes a sigh of relief and it's a normal day. If they storm in with a face of thunder the mood in the entire building shifts. 

Your inner circle has that much sway with you and if they are negative, miserable, or unkind, then they are going to stimulate those fears, doubts, and apprehensions you feel about personal development. Moreover, they might want to hold you back because they won't want to be left behind by your growth. 

What you want in your inner circle is people who lift you up, encourage you, motivate you, pick you up, brush you off, and run alongside you cheering you on when you need it most. 

Nothing is more important to your journey to overcoming fear, doubt, and apprehension than a strong social network that will support you through anything. It isn't a one-way street, of course, you should be that kind of person to your inner circle as well. 

Strong, positive relationships are important so nurture them. Those are the people who will be with you always and it's beneficial to both your personal development and your mental health to take care of those relationships. 

3 Avoid Making Comparisons 

You cannot rely on other people to make your decisions, nor can you expect them to steer you in the right direction. The only person who knows which direction is right for you is you. Your personal development journey is your own and only you know what is right for you.

 With that being said, you cannot grow by making comparisons. It doesn't matter what your next-door neighbor is doing. It doesn't matter what your siblings, best friends, or arch-nemesis is up to either. 

Their judgment of you does not matter, their accomplishments do not matter, and if you think they do you will always feel inadequate. That inadequacy will immerse you in fear, doubt, and apprehension, and with those weighing you down, how will you grow?

So many times, and so many ways, our personal development can get derailed. Sometimes it never even gets railed to begin with.

Creating a personal development plan can help people unlock their potential and make a lasting impact on their lives. It can help people find their purpose, develop their strengths, and gain the confidence to step outside their comfort zone. Additionally, it can improve their awareness of themselves and how life events affect them. Having a personal development plan can help people live up to their God-given potential and lead a more intentional life. Such plans can also help them discover their purpose and become more fulfilled. Creating a plan can help set goals and define a clear path towards achieving them, giving people the motivation and determination to work towards their goals and make a meaningful difference in their lives.

Today I give you 5 benefits of creating a personal development plan.

A personal development plan assists you in finding your purpose and developing your strengths. It also gives you the confidence needed to get out of your comfort zone. A good personal development plan will also help you improve your self-awareness. This combination will ensure that you know your potential and live up to it with intention.

1 Discover Your Purpose

On the road to self-discovery, most people want to know why they are here. If you want to know your purpose in life, focus on your personal development and create a written personal development plan to help you find it.

As you discover what makes you think the way you do, challenge your thoughts, and decide what facts you’ll use to make sound decisions. When you do this, you may come across additional information that will lead you to closer to your purpose. You are more likely to feel good about the ideas you have and actions you take each day because you know they will have a particular impact.

2 Develop Your Strengths

Once you discover your strengths as you study yourself and pay close attention to how you feel about your actions, you’ll know what to develop. Focusing on what you are already good at is always preferable to focus on where you are lacking.

Getting additional training, practicing, and learning from others regarding the things you’re already good at doing is a much more pleasurable and successful way to approach your life. You’re naturally good at something that gives you joy and makes you better. So, you may as well use your natural gifts.

Get Out of Your Comfort Zone

While you do want to focus on what you are already good at doing, sometimes it takes time to see what that is. Getting out of your comfort zone has nothing to do with forcing yourself to focus on things you aren’t good at doing. Instead, it may mean simply showing someone else what you’re good at.

Boost Your Confidence

As you develop yourself, you’ll start experiencing success, and that experience will boost your confidence exponentially. Part of personal development is focusing on learning to have a positive mindset, taking the best care of yourself, and reveling in your skills and experience. When your confidence is strong, you’ll free yourself from paralyzing self-doubt and negative thoughts and emotions. You can’t help but become strong when you craft and follow a plan based on self-discovery and your goals.

Improve Your Self-Awareness

Since personal development is all about you, getting to know who you are is especially important. Knowing who you allow...

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In this episode I talk about purpose, and what it is that makes life fulfilling.

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In this episode I share 9 tips to help you make the most of each.

1. Wake Up 10 Minutes Earlier
2. Keep the Same Sleep Routine Every Day
3. Eat a Healthy Diet
4. Exercise Daily
5. Accomplish One Task Toward a Larger Goal
6. Make a Daily Big 3 List
7. Take Regular Breaks
8. Be Present with Those You Love
9. Prep Your Day the Night Before

1. Sit down and review your goals. What steps can you take in

your daily schedule to progress towards accomplishing your

goals?

2. Take 15 minutes this evening to tidy your living room and

kitchen. Take a moment to pick an outfit for tomorrow, even

if you are staying home.

3. Set your morning alarm for 10 minutes earlier than usual.

Enjoy an unrushed morning as you get ready for the day.

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How you see yourself, your identity, contributes majorly into your goals and goal setting process.