Betrayal by a loved one--especially sexual infidelity--can be one of the most traumatic events a person experiences. And if you've been betrayed by a romantic partner, you know firsthand how devastating the blow can be. In fact, those who are betrayed often find themselves drowning in a sea of endless questions, overwhelming anxiety, and doubt. Despite the trauma they've endured, the betrayed individual often feels pressured to accept a partner's apology, invest in the relationship, and move on. But what if true recovery requires--first and foremost--rebuilding of the self? Today, we're joined by a renowned betrayal trauma specialist and author, Beth Fischer, who is the creator of The Betrayal Trauma Healing Method and The Integrity Journey. Beth will guide us into the art of healing from the deep pain of betrayal.
Topics discussed include sexual betrayal, emotional betrayal, financial betrayal, infidelity, loss, grief, pain, trauma, PTSD, shame, marriage, relationship\s, intimacy, trust, self-trust, nervous system, dysregulation, betrayer, betrayed, marriage therapy, relationship therapy, individual therapy, healing, divorce, and self-work.
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Additional Resources:
On the Other Side of Pain: Healing After Betrayal: A Gentle Trauma-Informed Guide to Truly Heal Betrayal Trauma and Rebuild Your Life After Infidelity
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