Self-harm is one of the most misunderstood behaviors when it comes to Borderline Personality Disorder — and it’s about so much more than “attention seeking.” In this episode, I break down what self-harm really means, why it happens, and how to support someone who struggles with it.

We talk about:

• Why self-harm is about survival, not drama

• What it actually communicates when words fall short

• How to show up with compassion instead of judgment

• Practical coping strategies that really help in the moment

• How to shift from shame to understanding — whether you’re the one struggling or the one trying to support

This isn’t a lecture — it’s me talking with you, the way I’d explain it to a friend, with real talk, examples, and honest conversation. If you’ve ever wanted to understand the “why” behind self-harm in BPD and how to respond in a way that helps, this episode is for you.

👉 If you’re struggling right now: You are not alone. Please reach out for support — call or text 988 (in the U.S.), or look up your local crisis line.

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This resource is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for therapy, counseling, medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Downloading or using this material does not establish a therapist-client relationship with the creator.

If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or thinking about suicide, please call your local emergency number immediately. In the U.S., you can dial or text 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.

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In this episode, Rachel discusses the phenomenon of religious psychosis and extreme apocalyptic beliefs, particularly in the context of the failed doomsday prediction for September 23rd. She explores the psychological and emotional fallout for families affected by these beliefs, including financial instability, generational trauma, and mental health issues. Rachel also offers coping strategies for those dealing with loved ones in such states, emphasizing the importance of acceptance, boundaries, and support.

Takeaways

• Some people genuinely believed this would be the end of the world.

• Religious psychosis occurs when faith-based ideas detach from reality.

• Extreme beliefs can lead to financial chaos and emotional turmoil.

• Families experience broken trust and fear due to apocalyptic beliefs.

• It's important to connect with others for support during crises.

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The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

Borderline Personality Disorder is one of the most misunderstood and stigmatized mental health diagnoses out there. In this episode, I’m breaking down the biggest myths—like “people with BPD are manipulative,” “BPD is untreatable,” or “they’re just attention-seeking”—and explaining why these stereotypes are flat-out wrong.

As a DBT therapist, I’ll walk you through what’s really going on beneath the surface, how BPD actually shows up, and why recovery is possible. Whether you’re living with BPD, love someone who has it, or just want to better understand the disorder without all the stigma, this episode will give you compassion, clarity, and hope.

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• Florida Borderline Personality Disorder Association
  

The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In today's episode, we're going to unpack the Sadia Khan scandal and use it to discuss a wider problem: when influencer brands borrow clinical language, how does that harm clients and licensed professionals? We'll will give you practical tips for verifying credentials and protecting your mental health online. Rachel is talking about allegations reported in public sources — not claiming any court or regulator has convicted anyone here.

🔗 Show Notes & Resources

📰 News Sources

• India Times – Sadia Khan dating coach controversy: Viral voice note sparks cheating claims — Coverage of the affair allegations and leaked audio fueling the current drama.

• Primetimer – Profile on Sadia Khan — Background on her brand, social media following, and positioning as a dating coach.

✅ Verify Credentials (UK & US)

• HCPC Misuse of Title — Why certain psychology titles are legally protected in the UK.

• APA Services – State Psychology Licensing Boards — U.S. listeners: find your state board and check licenses.

📊 Research & Guidance on Misinformation

• APA – How to Address Misinformation About Mental Health — Tools for clinicians and consumers to spot false claims.

🧭 Coaching Industry & Boundaries

• International Coaching Federation – Ethics & Professional Standards — Shows the limits of regulation in coaching.

👉 If you want to protect yourself when looking for help online: check the registers, ask for evidence, and don’t confuse charisma with credentials.

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The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

Nobody warns you about the chapter of life where the roles flip—when your parent becomes the one who needs you. In this episode, I share my own story of navigating life as an adult child caring for my dad: the late-night hospital calls, the constant “clean up crew” work of canceling scams and subscriptions he never needed, and the emotional rollercoaster of balancing his independence with his safety.

It’s raw, messy, and sometimes even a little funny—because if you don’t laugh about being on hold with customer service for the fifth time this week, you’ll cry. If you’ve ever felt the weight of parenting your parent, this episode will remind you that you’re not alone, you’re not failing, and it’s okay to admit that this is one of the hardest parts of adulthood.

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The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

We’ve all heard people say, “I’m so OCD about my closet” or “I’m OCD about my desk.” But here’s the truth: liking things neat is a preference, not a disorder. In this episode, I break down the real difference between enjoying organization and living with obsessive-compulsive disorder.

We’ll talk about what OCD actually is — the cycle of intrusive thoughts and compulsions — and how it can seriously interfere with daily life, relationships, and even something as simple as leaving the house. And we’ll look at why casually using “OCD” as shorthand for tidiness waters down the reality of a serious, often painful mental health condition.

If you’ve ever wondered where the line is between quirks and a disorder, this episode will set the record straight.

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The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

What happens when you’re the friend who stays home while everyone else leaves for college? This episode dives into the quiet heartbreak of watching your best friends live out their “college dream” while you’re still in your childhood bedroom. We’ll talk about the grief no one acknowledges, the loneliness of feeling left behind, and why staying home doesn’t mean you’re falling behind. If you’ve ever scrolled through your friends’ highlight reels and wondered, “Am I missing out on life?”—this one’s for you.

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The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

A real-time mental health crisis is unfolding on TikTok, and the internet can’t look away. In this episode, I break down the viral Kendra saga—her multi-part story about falling in love with her psychiatrist, the sudden involvement of AI “Henry,” and the signs that point to a possible psychotic episode happening in public view.

We’ll talk about why watching these breakdowns as “entertainment” is dangerous, how social media algorithms reward the spiral, and the very real harm that comes from enabling someone in crisis—whether you mean to or not. Most importantly, I’ll share what we can actually do as a community when we see something like this online.

This isn’t tea. This is someone’s mental health on display. And we have to start handling it differently.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline (U.S.): Call or text 988

In this episode of Perfectly Imperfect Me 365, Rachel shares her personal journey with postpartum depression, discussing the confusion, shame, and isolation she felt after the birth of her first son. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing the signs of postpartum depression, seeking help, and taking small steps towards recovery.

Rachel also highlights the significance of support systems and the duality of motherhood, acknowledging that it is possible to love your child while also feeling overwhelmed and lost. The episode serves as a reminder that new mothers are not alone in their struggles and encourages them to be gentle with themselves.

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It's crucial to emphasize that the information provided is not a replacement for the services of a trained therapist, doctor, or other health professional. 

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Ryn Sloane is a Certified Integrative Healing and Cancer Resilience Guide, and a breast cancer survivor who understands firsthand the invisible battle that begins after treatment ends. She specializes in guiding cancer survivors through the emotional, mental, and spiritual Aftermath of their diagnosis, helping them reclaim their power, identity, and achieve profound wholeness.

Through her signature Sloane Healing Method™, Ryn's soul-led approach blends trauma-informed coaching with practical tools for emotional processing and deep self-reclamation, providing a roadmap for living unapologetically beyond cancer. She empowers individuals to move past feeling lost in their bodies and unsure of their future, towards an unshakeable sense of self and purpose.

You can find Ryn's work, including her free community Ashes of Courage and her high-impact coaching programs, at https://www.sloanehealing.com.