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from social studying to watching shows people tend to compare themselves to the falsity of pixels and visuals. knowing the importance of taking a step back from the comparisons and being able to implore and implement a sense of 'social media' to romanticise your life is important. it allows you to enjoy waking up a bit better everyday. having a routine, goals and a checklist, alone time and SOLO DATES!!!! will further grow you to become a better and confident individual with your anxiety lessening in due time.

surrounding yourself with great company and a great social media feed can sometimes lead to you having negative thoughts of comparison, to which you'll start to devalue your blessings that you take for granted.being able to accept the fact that what works for others and what others get may not have the same reception towards you is a skill you need to master and a thing you need to appreciate. its okay if all your friends reach a certain goal in life and you're behind. everything has a purpose and a reason, head over to one of my episodes where I speak about the beauty of delays and goals in life for more on that. accepting that disappointments is okay will lead you to have a proper breathe in and breathe out moment where you won't be bothered or be in despair when you do face moments of disappointment.

from life experiences that I had no control over to being able to take myself out the country, it taught me a lot about independence, self love and growth as well as being able to be confident and hold conversations without the heart sinking stomach drop feeling before opening my mouth. including parts of my 2023 and 2024 trip to Greece and how its opened my eyes in hopes to inspire the ones who struggle with confidence, anxiety and low self esteem like I once did. being able to understand the problem and the dilemma, navigating how to use your fears such as anxiety and fear of rejection to your best, you'll go far. only time can tell. start weaponising your fears and use the adrenaline behind it to take risks.

happy vee day! and a big happy valentines to the single ones who are spending it alone. self love and admiration is the greatest gift one can give to themselves that another can't. in todays episode I briefly touched upon the topics of loneliness, the daunting process of sitting with your feelings, forgiving and letting go as well as learning new skills that can shape you and your mind to become a better loving radiating energy and human in the long run. you don't need to always be around your friends and boyfriend girlfriend or whoever to feel love, the most significant and powerful force is within you, so make sure you always show up for yourself and be your biggest supporter as no ones going to completely fill that part for you.

when one thing turns south, we tend to wallow and sit in the disbelief, frustration and annoyance. but that in itself consumes our energy far more than it should. instead sit and appreciate what once was and what it could've been, let yourself feel those feelings but then pick yourself up and go. do not sit and wait any longer as if that's going to change the outcome. have the 'it is what it is' approach and keep it moving.

from experiences in the past that have shaped you as a human, learning more and more about what you love what you need and what you are meant to do to further enhance who you want to become its essential to take a step back and really evaluate what brings you fulfilment and excitement as well as what empties your cup. self awareness and self love are both important tokens that one needs to grasp onto and take care of when manoeuvring through this scary crazy way that we call, life.

ever wondered why there's a lingering feeling of its okay im destined for better when you don't get what you want? because delayed gratification and learning has its long term benefits. maybe what you're working towards is taking longer than usual because god and the universe is preparing you for something but bigger and better than what you asked for. protect your mental peace and sanity and stop being so overran by the thoughts of pessimism and the concept of 'why not now?'

being aware of your surroundings is an important attribute one must have to further elevate either bringing your circle of friends with you or letting go of them, or bad habits. patience is a virtue and one must understand the true value and beauty in it to understand the importance of timing and being at the right place at the right time. coincidences, universal alignment and spiritual healing and growth can shape you into becoming the person you want to be but within all that action is required.

there is a lot of power and beauty in letting go of things that once served us fulfilment and joy, but holding on can cause a lot more damage than we think. discussing briefly about the negatives of obsession and limerence in a relationship to letting go of the past, pessimistic habits and more. this episode briefly talks about letting go, which will be split into further episodes with more descriptive narratives and approaches to further solidify the art and concept of letting go.

In life we overlook the blessings within being in the present; the now. And when time goes onto the next we tend to look back on certain points in our life and reminisce as well as miss what life once was. Grasp onto reality, appreciate your surroundings and make the changes you need to further grow and glow into being the human you want to become one day. Tomorrow isn’t promised. Live the moment like its your last and watch the blessings come in ten times more.