Dying to Self DAILY | Deny Yourself, Take Up Your Cross & Follow Jesus

Jesus didn’t say to deny yourself once. He said to take up your cross DAILY and follow Him.

In this episode of the Discipleship Series, Kayla and Elwood talk about what it truly means to die to yourself and surrender your life to Jesus Christ.

Following Jesus isn’t simply adding Him to the life you already wanted. It means laying down your own will, crucifying the desires of the flesh, and choosing to follow where He leads—even when your flesh wants something different.

Jesus said:

“Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.” — Luke 9:23

That word DAILY matters.

Yesterday’s surrender doesn’t replace today’s obedience. Every day we have a choice: Will our flesh lead us, or will we surrender again and follow Jesus?

In this episode, we talk about:

• What it actually means to deny yourself

• Why the flesh and Spirit are at war

• What Jesus meant by “take up your cross”

• Why dying to self must happen DAILY

• Crucifying the desires of the flesh

• Obeying God when you don’t feel like it

• What we may still be unwilling to surrender

• Jesus’ example: “Not my will, but Yours be done”

• What dying to yourself looks like in everyday life

The question isn’t simply, “Do I believe in Jesus?”

The question is:

Have I surrendered my life to Him?

“Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.” — Galatians 5:24

Deny yourself.

Take up your cross.

DAILY.

And follow Him.

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God has been writing a story here in Kentucky that we never could have planned.

In this episode of In the Water Podcast, Kayla and Elwood sit down to talk about everything that has been happening at our new Kentucky home base — from purchasing the farm and preparing the property, to opening the gates for our very first revival on the land.

What started as a vision became a place where people could gather, hear the Gospel, repent, be baptized, and encounter Jesus. And when the first revival finally arrived, we watched God move in ways only He could have orchestrated.

Kayla and Elwood share the story behind the farm, what it took to get ready, what happened during those first two days, and some of the moments that we'll never forget.

This isn't just a piece of property.

It's a place set apart for what God wants to do next.

Welcome to the Kentucky Revival Farm.

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In this episode of the Discipleship Series, Kayla Gabbard and Pastor Elwood dive into IDENTITY and what it truly means to find your identity in Jesus Christ.

The world constantly tries to give us labels. Our past tries to define us. Other people’s opinions can shape how we see ourselves. Even the enemy will try to make us question what God has already declared over our lives.

We see this clearly with Jesus. At His baptism, the Father declared, “This is my Son, whom I love…” (Matthew 3:17). Then, almost immediately, Satan challenged that identity: “If you are the Son of God…” (Matthew 4:3).

The enemy still uses the same tactic today.

2 Corinthians 5:17:

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”

Stop introducing yourself by what Jesus died to free you from.

You are not your worst day.

You are not your failure.

You are not your rejection.

You are not what someone said about you.

You are not your past.

If you are in Christ, you are a NEW CREATION.

Open the Word. Find out what God says about you. And start walking in the identity He has given you.

#IdentityInChrist #DiscipleshipSeries #WhoDoesGodSayYouAre #JesusChrist #BibleTruth

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In this powerful episode of the Discipleship Series, Kayla Gabbard and Pastor Elwood confront one of the enemy’s most subtle and destructive weapons — the spirit of offense.

Offense feels justified. It feels righteous. But if it’s not dealt with, it turns into bitterness, division, pride, and spiritual stagnation. Many believers don’t fall because of obvious sin — they fall because they refuse to let go of hurt.

Offense will come. Jesus said it would.

But it does not have to control you.

If you’re carrying hurt, resentment, or bitterness — this episode is for you.

Freedom is found in humility, forgiveness, and obedience.

Be sure to subscribe and follow the full Discipleship Series as we continue breaking down biblical truths that transform lives.

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In this episode of the Discipleship Series, Kayla Gabbard and Pastor Elwood dive deep into the powerful stories of the Women of the Bible.

This isn’t just a history lesson—it’s a wake-up call for today’s generation. Discover how women like Deborah, Esther, Mary Magdalene, Ruth, and Priscilla walked in faith, boldness, and truth. We also debunk the misused scriptures that try to silence women and reclaim the biblical reality: God has always used women mightily.

Whether you’re a man or woman, this episode will challenge you to walk in your calling, regardless of tradition or opinion.

#DiscipleshipSeries #WomenOfTheBible #Deborah #KaylaGabbard #KGMinistry #MeetMeInTheWater

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John Wayne never planned on becoming part of the front lines of revival. He hesitantly showed up to serve coffee at our Oklahoma baptism revival… and never left.

John was adopted at a young age after CPS removed him from his birth mother who was struggling with drugs. Growing up with a difficult start, God still had a plan.

What began as a simple act of obedience turned into a calling.

From baptism assistant to becoming our main EMS on site at revivals across the country, John shares how God redeemed his story, strengthened his faith, and placed him exactly where he was needed.

This episode is a powerful reminder that God can take any past and turn it into purpose.

🎧 Watch or listen now on In The Water Podcast.

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We break down the definitions of religion and relationship, expose the dangers of empty religious systems, and explain how Jesus came not to establish another religion, but to restore personal fellowship with God.

Topics Covered:

What is religion? What is relationship?

Why Jesus rebuked the Pharisees

The trap of legalism and self-righteousness

How to walk closely with God through faith, repentance, and obedience

The role of the Holy Spirit in transforming your life

Whether you've grown up in church or are just now learning about Jesus, this episode will challenge, equip, and encourage you to pursue the relationship God desires with you, not dead religion.

#DiscipleshipSeries #RelationshipWithJesus #ReligionVsRelationship #KaylaGabbard #PastorElwood

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Do you know the gifts that God has given you through the Holy Spirit?

In this episode of the Discipleship Series, Kayla Gabbard and Pastor Elwood break down what Scripture teaches about the Gifts of the Spirit—what they are, how they operate, and how every believer is called to use them for the glory of God.

From prophecy to discernment, tongues, healing, and more, the Body of Christ is equipped with supernatural gifts—but many Christians either don’t know they have them, or don’t know how to activate and steward them.

🔥 Learn:

What the Bible says about spiritual gifts (1 Corinthians 12, Romans 12, Ephesians 4)

Why some gifts are misunderstood or neglected

How to discern your personal spiritual gifts

Why the Church must walk in power and humility

How these gifts edify the Body and advance the Gospel

📖 This episode will stir your spirit and challenge you to seek a deeper walk with the Holy Spirit.

👣 Step into your calling. Activate the gifts. Serve the Kingdom.

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In this powerful episode of the Discipleship Series, Kayla Gabbard and Pastor Elwood dive deep into the gift of spiritual discernment—what it is, why it's essential, and how to grow in it.

🎯 Are you able to recognize the voice of the Holy Spirit?

🧠 Do you know how to test spirits, avoid deception, and guard your heart and mind in today’s confusing culture?

🔥 In a time when many are led by feelings or opinions, this teaching will equip you to anchor yourself in the Word of God and walk with spiritual eyes wide open.

📖 Topics Covered:

What is discernment?

The difference between human wisdom and Holy Spirit wisdom

How to test spirits and avoid false teaching

Discerning God’s will vs. your own desires

Growing in spiritual maturity and biblical knowledge

Real examples from Kayla and Pastor Elwood’s walk in ministry

📜 Key Scriptures:

1 Corinthians 2:14 | Hebrews 5:14 | 1 John 4:1 | Romans 12:2

This is one of the most important episodes we’ve done. You cannot walk in power without walking in discernment.

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In this deeply moving episode of In the Water, Kayla sits down with Cryste — a mother who faced unthinkable loss just days before the Tennessee Revival.

Her daughter passed away, yet she and her husband still showed up to serve Jesus. Through their grief, they found peace, purpose, and a renewed fire to minister to others.

This is more than a story of loss — it’s a testimony of faith that endures when everything else falls apart.

If you’ve ever walked through pain, grief, or heartbreak, this conversation will remind you: God is still near, and His purpose still stands.

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