In This Moment

We can only be defeated by an attitude of intolerance or belligerent denial.  Worse yet, this self-deception can be so powerful that it can trick the sufferer into destructive drinking and other addictions. Enter the realm of awareness with Toby C. and reconnect with your uncomfortable feelings – with good purpose! Someone who knew what he was talking about once remarked that “pain is the touchstone of all spiritual growth.” Come out of hiding and feel your humanity. You’ll be glad you did.

Life is full of personal DEMONS. Recovery gives us a fighting chance, with the assistance from a power greater than ourselves, to cast them out! Prepare yourself to have the merciless obsession you suffer from lifted right out of you!  Start cleaning house with Toby C. and expel this dead weight you’ve been carrying around all these years. Prepare to open your mind and heart to let God enter you and drive out your spiritually crippling handicap.

The crux of the relapse lies within the mental states that is driven by SELF-WILL and our survivalist instincts. Quite often our emotional mental state blocks us from real happiness - it’s called a dry drunk. Slip back into consciousness with Toby C. and examine why these unhealthy emotions, if left unchecked by anger, boredom, and the like, can sabotage our precarious sobriety. Experience the self-destructive urge being lifted right out of you … and in this moment, you will know that all is well.    

Scratch a drunk or a drug addict and a CODEPENDENT bleeds. Do we even really know what CODEPENDENCE is and all of its destructiveness? No, probably not. Let’s gather together with Toby C. in a journey of self-discovery – learning to love the self! Find out why we attempt use others as our sole source of identity, value, well-being. Take a hard look at this deeply rooted, compulsive behaviors that emanate from our dysfunctional family systems. Come experience healthy and loving relationships with others – precious and free! 

Do you ever feel at times like its “me (us) against the world?” Almost without exception, most of us who end up in recovery are tortured by loneliness. Is it possible to get rid of that terrible sense of isolation we've always had? Join Toby C. and get ready to rejoin the human race. Contemplate the open-mind and the open heart for emotional, physical, and spiritual protection. For if we are not sorry, and our behavior continues to harm others, we are quite sure to remain in our own personal living hell! Break out now! 

Are you under constant fear and tension? Are all your failings, real or imagined, generating a soul-sickness that is the summation of your anxieties? Are you having trouble pointing your imagination away from darkness and despair? Come with Toby C. on a fantastic voyage of the soul and feel a new power flow in, enjoy peace of mind, and discover that we could face life successfully so long as became conscious of a Power greater than Ourselves.  Prepare your yourself to begin to lose your fears of today, tomorrow or the hereafter.

Ah, the besetting evil of SELF righteousness. This dubious form of anger can at times be very enjoyable for some – but it has its consequences. Curiously, our natural disposition, rooted in self-centered grandiosity, will reject any rebuke- always finding some form of justification. Uncover with Toby C. the reasons why this most perverse form of soul sickness and its subtle, elusive sense of entitlement, can underlie even the smallest shameful act or thought. Examine together our blind spot to the very thing that we had contemptuously condemned in others - self-righteousness. 

Doubt, self-doubt, and uncertainty are all close cousins. Time after time, uncertainty blows out any flame of life and hope – the light of reason difficult to re-establish.  Come join Toby C. and stop questioning whether the hen or the egg came first. Come listen and realize that may of our pains, fears and despair are tests of something called faith – the ultimate antidote to every conscious state of uncertainty.  Be prepared in good measure to transcend all the defects of your frail craft and finally come ashore. 

Deception and Fear are not among the 7 deadly sins. Any idea why?  Perhaps deception is simply one of many character defects. We come to learn that the chief activator of ALL these character defects is FEAR! The opposite of fear is faith – and faith is the truth!  Come hear the truth from Toby C. as to some of the reasons WHY we practice deception.  Could it be that overcoming fear, through faith, is the only way to conquer dishonesty?  Are you ready to pull the covers off your insecurities and low self-esteem? 

Do you know why you’re selfish and self-centered? Toby C. does and he want to share the secret with you. Examine the index of maladjustments that define our personal bondage of needs, drive our shallow ambitions, and are synthesized by a hundred forms of fear. By now you’re convinced that it’s a one-way ticket to loneliness and despair.  There is a solution! Listen for a clue. Here’s one…. There is path and beside it a sign which reads: This is the way to a faith that works!!!