Bonny Scott is an Adult Child Relationship Coach. She specializes in working with moms to create a healthy, meaningful connection with their adult child after struggling with a strained or broken relationship. This is an incredibly eye-opening, vulnerable, and insightful conversation that millennials and baby boomers alike can gain a lot from. It left Kailea in tears and gratitude.
In this episode, Kailea and Bonny discuss:
Bonny’s most life-changing moment that started her on this path.
The challenges between millennials and baby boomers in understanding one another and how to build bridges of communication (vs. estrangement as the only option).
What makes baby boomers reluctant to go inward? How can adult children step back and better understand their parents’ context and why it’s hard for them to do this work.
How do we build the self-worth we need to have the capacity to handle it when our adult child tells us something we find hard to hear? And how can parents see the opportunity to love more deeply through making space for their adult child’s perspective?
The generational shifts happening in terms of expectations around ‘being grateful and respectful to our parents.’
Fears about “airing dirty laundry” and how challenging it can be for boomers to feel self-compassion.
How, in the past, productivity and survival were the driving forces and emotions were seen as ‘in the way’ and what this looks like today.
PTSD and its requirement of loyalty and how this effects family systems.
The leap of faith parents must make to connect in the way their adult children are craving, and how incredibly challenging and brave it is to take this step.Bonny’s Website: https://getyourlightback.com/
Bonny’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bonnyscottlifecoach/
*Movie referenced in the episode was “Band of Brothers”
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In This New Season is recorded and produced by Greg Alsop at Don’t Wake Baby Studio: https://www.gregalsop.com/