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Mike Way sleeps with women but identifies as bisexual - which he explores through fantasies acted out in the fetish community. We talk about not liking blowjobs, what it’s like to explore bisexuality as a man, and how to use kink and fantasy to explore his attraction to men. We also get deep in the man feels when we discuss how society’s ideas of masculinity keep guys from exploring their sexuality, pressure to “be a man” (whatever that means), and how guys just really want to talk about their feelings.

Heather Barnes-Flint is an artist and substance abuse counselor based in Florida - and host Kate Warren's childhood best friend. We get into the nitty gritty of conquering substance abuse, MMF threesomes, pegging, and pansexuality. What's the final frontier for someone who has tried everything? Listen and find out.

Raised in a prominent Muslim and Catholic family, Italian Moroccan artist Kamal Jauad Abdelilah experienced a traumatic coming out that led to struggles with substance abuse, love and sex addiction, and finding peace in his masculine softness and vulnerability. We discuss how toxic masculinity restricts and hurts men, why meth is so common in the gay community, and how being brave enough to be who you are sets you free.

Iranian-American artist and data enthusiast Najva Sol talks about early life experimentations with women, what online data tells us about women’s desires (it’s not what you think!), and navigating consensual non-consent safely and, well, consensually.

What happens when someone you’re dating gets called out by the #MeToo movement? Veronica shares stories from one of tech’s most male-dominated industries. We discuss how toxic masculinity impacts building a career as a woman in a field rife with harassment, separating work from play, and how sex is weaponized in a power-hungry sprint for venture capitalist funding.

Mundy Spears is a DC area native who is a gender non-binary artist, musician, and teacher making work that creates inclusive spaces and overcomes labels. We discuss why humans love labels around gender and sexuality, what it means to be gender non-binary, and tackle the whole pronoun thing. Mundy also drops some serious knowledge about the five (!!) genders used by indigenous cultures, and walks us through their own journey from “she” to “they”.

Babealicious trans nightlight performer Ana Latour joins us to discuss her experience as a young trans woman. We explore what it’s like to have sex as a gay man versus as a trans woman, what it’s like to date (including some serious fetishization), and what it means to be a female in predominantly gay male spaces. A performance artist at her core, Ana uses surrealism and humor to explore sexuality and gender identity.

Storyteller and performance artist Jinahie bridges the gap between art and activism to drop the realness about the myth of virginity, how it’s leveraged to subjugate and control women by governments, and why virgin porn is the most highly searched for terms on PornHub.

Femme dom Sarah Massey discusses her love for dominating men, the finer points of using a strap on (fun for everyone!), and being in a triad relationship. She’s the sergeant of hotness in a women’s LGBTQ motorcycle club called Outriders, runs an aphrodisiac supper club called Yes Please More Please, and is active in the poly community...so you know she left us begging for more, like any good dom would.

You can’t ask for what you want until you figure out what that is. Enter masturbation as a tool for self discovery! Artist Rose Jaffe talks about how masturbation helps her level up her sex life on this week’s episode. We also discuss how to have a rich sex life without penetrative sex, the role of toys, and dismantling the the patriarchy via solo female pleasure.