Intimacy Evolution

Known to her clients as the magical fairy godmother, sex and sensuality coach Hannah Deindorfer certainly has a lot of superpowers. She has sprinkled her fairy dust all over this magical interview, where we learn about her approach to sexuality that blends healing with having epic sex. 

After experiencing more trauma than most by the young age of 21, Hannah decided to make her messy both her magic and her mission. She now uses her own journey of healing to help burned-out, perfectionist people-pleasing women create alignment, self-love, and have amazing sex.

In this episode, we discuss:

• How Hannah helps women navigate the societal image they are constantly held to
• The trauma Hannah experienced that brought her to this space
• How to get to a place of self-love
• How Hannah’s relationship with sex has impacted her life 

If you are looking to transform your relationship to self through the vehicle of sex and intimacy, you will gain a lot of insight from this enlightening chat.

Hannah’s story is one of courage and hope, and we just know you’re gonna get so much from it.

Note: Hannah and I discuss suicide in this episode. If this is something that triggers you, please refrain from listening. If you need any mental health or suicide support, please call or text the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988.

Connect with Hannah:

Insta: @hannahdeindorfer

Tik Tok: @iamhannahthered

Get Hannah’s FREE sexploration checklist here

Grab your FREE 4 Step Guide to connect with your partner  here 
(*note: the guide says for new parents, but the tips are a great foundation for any couple-there's just extra tips in there for new parents)

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Connect with Bri:
Instagram: @_brianna_carey_

Connect with Mark:
Instagram: @mark_carey_

Website: IntimacyEvolution.com

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Many of us have found ourselves responding to a child or a loved one in a much more reactive way than we would have liked. Your emotions are hijacked and the response is…well…less than desirable…

Mark found himself in exactly this situation with his son last week and opens up about the feelings he experienced and the strategies he now uses to improve his emotional regulation.

In this episode, you’ll find out:

• How parents can respond to a child in a loving and caring way when they find themselves being neurologically hijacked
• What it takes to interrupt a pattern
• What has helped Mark to show up better for his loved ones
• Tips and tricks to take back control of your nervous system

This is definitely worth a listen as the answers are easier than you might think…

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Join our next Live Workshop! Wednesday, October 28 @ 7pm CDT
We'll walk through everyday relationship moments, practice a simple reframe together, and you'll get to ask questions and receive live coaching from us.
Most couples wait six years to work on their relationship. You don't have to. Take action today, and join us live.🤍 Register to get the replay.

Save your spot: https://intimacyevolution.kit.com/0e38198aec

Connect with Bri:
Instagram: @_brianna_carey_

Connect with Mark:
Instagram: @mark_carey_

Website: IntimacyEvolution.com

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The world of kink is often portrayed as a dominatrix, dressed head to toe in leather, beating somebody. That’s why we’re delighted to be joined by special guest Kimi Inch, to set the record straight. Kimi is a professional dominatrix, BDSM educator, published author and somatic healer. She shares her different perspective on the kink world, which is one of consciousness, healing and empowerment.

Hosts Brianna and Mark first met Kimi at the couples retreat they recently attended. They were blown away by her work in teaching individuals and couples how to deepen their connection to themselves and their relationship to others. 

This episode will reframe what you think of as ‘kinky’, so that you can finally leave the shame behind and fulfill your desires.

We cover:

• The healing powers of kink
• Conscious kink journeys
• How to start incorporating kink as a couple
• The link between sexuality and creativity
• Self pleasure practices for women to explore kink

Connect with Kimi:

Website: www.kimiinch.com

Instagram: @kimiinch

Free Kink Checklist

Dom(Me) Mastery Training  use code: BRIANNA to receive 10% off!

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Join our next Live Workshop! Wednesday, October 28 @ 7pm CDT
We'll walk through everyday relationship moments, practice a simple reframe together, and you'll get to ask questions and receive live coaching from us.
Most couples wait six years to work on their relationship. You don't have to. Take action today, and join us live.🤍 Register to get the replay.

Save your spot: https://intimacyevolution.kit.com/0e38198aec

Connect with Bri:
Instagram: @_brianna_carey_

Connect with Mark:
Instagram: @mark_carey_

Website: IntimacyEvolution.com

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Society has painted this picture of parents having just one ‘sit down talk’ about the birds and the bees when their kids hit puberty. But is that all there is to it? Is one awkward conversation over the kitchen counter really going to empower our kids with the tools and resources they need to make proper choices?

While the internet acts as an enormous wealth of knowledge for our tech-savvy children, it can also be a vast assortment of misinformation. This makes it even more important to educate parents about how to navigate these conversations in the most positive way for their kids.

The topic of when and how to have ‘the talk’ is a very present issue for hosts Brianna and Mark, which is why they want to create safety for children through educating parents around this topic. They want to reduce the stigma of talking about sex and encourage parents to feel comfortable talking to their kids about it.

In this episode, you will learn:

• The link between using proper terminology and sexual abuse
• When to approach boundaries and body safety with your kids
• Age appropriate ways to answer common questions
• When and how to do the ‘sex talk’
• How to conduct conversations around self-pleasure with teens

If you’ve avoided these conversations until now or want to feel more prepared about how to tackle them, don’t miss this episode!

Sources referenced:
IG: @consentparenting

Books:
Sex Is A Funny Word
What Makes A Baby

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Join our next Live Workshop! Wednesday, October 28 @ 7pm CDT
We'll walk through everyday relationship moments, practice a simple reframe together, and you'll get to ask questions and receive live coaching from us.
Most couples wait six years to work on their relationship. You don't have to. Take action today, and join us live.🤍 Register to get the replay.

Save your spot: https://intimacyevolution.kit.com/0e38198aec

Connect with Bri:
Instagram: @_brianna_carey_

Connect with Mark:
Instagram: @mark_carey_

Website: IntimacyEvolution.com

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Mark & Bri recap their trip to Costa Rica for their friends surprise 40th birthday!
They share the excitement of connecting with their friends and meeting new ones, they share the adventures they went on during their trip & some crunchiness that came up between them and how they worked through it.



Resources:
 Are you ready to make some changes in your health, wealth & relationships? Are you ready to embrace your masculine, to show up fully, to make a big impact not only in your life but for others? Are you ready to achieve those big goals?
Click the link to learn more! Men's Work Info

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Join our next Live Workshop! Wednesday, October 28 @ 7pm CDT
We'll walk through everyday relationship moments, practice a simple reframe together, and you'll get to ask questions and receive live coaching from us.
Most couples wait six years to work on their relationship. You don't have to. Take action today, and join us live.🤍 Register to get the replay.

Save your spot: https://intimacyevolution.kit.com/0e38198aec

Connect with Bri:
Instagram: @_brianna_carey_

Connect with Mark:
Instagram: @mark_carey_

Website: IntimacyEvolution.com

Get cozy with 10% off your Love Blanket!

Code: Intimacy10

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When Ashley Weller, a human sexuality professor, joins Intimacy Evolution to discuss her beloved Five Love Languages, she and Brianna discuss how they can be used to strengthen any relationship by better understanding your partners needs & how they receive love.  Ashley explains that the five love languages are culturally different, are heteronormative and can change on any given day. She encourages couples to take the love language test to better understand their partner and how to show love.

"The Five Love Languages is such an imperative framework or a great tool in any relationship. It's not just about romantic relationships, but it's a beautiful place to start to get to understand your partner." - Ashley Weller

Ashley explains that the five love languages are culturally different and are heteronormative and can change on any given day. She encourages couples to take the love language test to better understand their partner and how to show love.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. Uncover the power of the Five Love Languages to better understand your partner.
2. Discover how cultural differences influence the way people express and receive love.
3. Learn how giving gifts, acts of service, quality time, physical touch, and words of affirmation can be used to show love.

Resources:
5 Love Languages Quiz

Connect with Ashley:
What's Your Position Podcast
IG: @whatsyourpositionpodcast
Mylorals.com  use code: WYP

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Episode 3: Discover Your Erotic Blueprint
Episode 4: How to Fight: Effective Communication to Use During Conflict
Episode 14: Expectation and Trust in Relationships

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Join our next Live Workshop! Wednesday, October 28 @ 7pm CDT
We'll walk through everyday relationship moments, practice a simple reframe together, and you'll get to ask questions and receive live coaching from us.
Most couples wait six years to work on their relationship. You don't have to. Take action today, and join us live.🤍 Register to get the replay.

Save your spot: https://intimacyevolution.kit.com/0e38198aec

Connect with Bri:
Instagram: @_brianna_carey_

Connect with Mark:
Instagram: @mark_carey_

Website: IntimacyEvolution.com

Get cozy with 10% off your Love Blanket!

Code: Intimacy10

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After a lifetime of self-sabotaging behaviors, Scott Holliday bravely takes a hard look at himself and chooses to end a draining relationship, creating a newfound sense of self-love and respect.

You will learn:
1. How Scott's childhood impacted his relationships and the self-sabotaging behaviors he developed. 

2. How Scott used his intuition to create a powerful men's group and transform his life.
3. How Scott uses gratitude, meditation, and body positioning to connect with his higher self.

Scott Holliday is a Jefferson City, Missouri native who has been learning a lot about himself in the last two years, including healing from childhood wounds and exploring his romantic relationships. He is the founder of Mentality, a men's group for men to be open and vulnerable, and has experienced the power of gratitude, meditation, and body positioning to get back in touch with his authentic self.

Connect with Scott:
Instagram: @hollidaybam

Previous episodes mentioned:
Men's Work: Embracing Masculine Energy with Jordan Bowditch

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Join our next Live Workshop! Wednesday, October 28 @ 7pm CDT
We'll walk through everyday relationship moments, practice a simple reframe together, and you'll get to ask questions and receive live coaching from us.
Most couples wait six years to work on their relationship. You don't have to. Take action today, and join us live.🤍 Register to get the replay.

Save your spot: https://intimacyevolution.kit.com/0e38198aec

Connect with Bri:
Instagram: @_brianna_carey_

Connect with Mark:
Instagram: @mark_carey_

Website: IntimacyEvolution.com

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Code: Intimacy10

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This week Brianna has a conversation with Dr. Kelsey Beach, a pelvic floor physical therapist who specializes in supporting women during pregnancy, birth, and postpartum. Her passion is educating women on the biomechanics of how their body changes during the perinatal phase.

You will learn:
1. What are the stages of birth prep and what can you expect during the postpartum assessment and healing process?

2. How can you prepare for the first postpartum sex session and make it enjoyable for both partners?

3. What are the optimal times to seek pelvic floor therapy during pregnancy and postpartum?

Connect with Kelsey:
IG: @encoretherapykc

Resources:
Check out a book club that goes beyond reading. It helps you tap into your wants & desires, how to release limiting beliefs and enjoy more fulfilling intimacy!
It begins January 11th!  Click here for more info

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Join our next Live Workshop! Wednesday, October 28 @ 7pm CDT
We'll walk through everyday relationship moments, practice a simple reframe together, and you'll get to ask questions and receive live coaching from us.
Most couples wait six years to work on their relationship. You don't have to. Take action today, and join us live.🤍 Register to get the replay.

Save your spot: https://intimacyevolution.kit.com/0e38198aec

Connect with Bri:
Instagram: @_brianna_carey_

Connect with Mark:
Instagram: @mark_carey_

Website: IntimacyEvolution.com

Get cozy with 10% off your Love Blanket!

Code: Intimacy10

Newsletter: Click here to enjoy weekly newsletter with juicy tips we can't share on social media. Plus be the first to know when we launch new events & programs!

This week Mark & Bri chat with Jordan Bowditch about all things masculine & the importance of men's work.

They talk about:
1. How to embrace the masculine energy in a healthy way
2. The relationship between masculine and feminine energy in a healthy relationship
3. The power of expression, particularly through body psychotherapy and somatics, for men to tap into their intuitive leadership.


Connect with Jordan:
IG: @conscious.bro

Resources:
Women's Group Coaching Program begins January 11th!  Click here for more info

Send us Fan Mail

Join our next Live Workshop! Wednesday, October 28 @ 7pm CDT
We'll walk through everyday relationship moments, practice a simple reframe together, and you'll get to ask questions and receive live coaching from us.
Most couples wait six years to work on their relationship. You don't have to. Take action today, and join us live.🤍 Register to get the replay.

Save your spot: https://intimacyevolution.kit.com/0e38198aec

Connect with Bri:
Instagram: @_brianna_carey_

Connect with Mark:
Instagram: @mark_carey_

Website: IntimacyEvolution.com

Get cozy with 10% off your Love Blanket!

Code: Intimacy10

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Do you need time away from your partner to miss them and appreciate them?
Mark & Bri both took trips this past month and share their reflections on how having time apart actually brings them closer together.

In this episode you will learn:
1. How taking time away from your partner can actually help your relationship
2. The importance of communication in relationships
3. How to create a healthy balance between time spent together and time spent apart
4. How to support your partner while integrating back into the home life after having been away.


Resources:
Relationship Check-In Guide
Women's Group Coaching Program begins January 11th!  Click here for more info
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Join our next Live Workshop! Wednesday, October 28 @ 7pm CDT
We'll walk through everyday relationship moments, practice a simple reframe together, and you'll get to ask questions and receive live coaching from us.
Most couples wait six years to work on their relationship. You don't have to. Take action today, and join us live.🤍 Register to get the replay.

Save your spot: https://intimacyevolution.kit.com/0e38198aec

Connect with Bri:
Instagram: @_brianna_carey_

Connect with Mark:
Instagram: @mark_carey_

Website: IntimacyEvolution.com

Get cozy with 10% off your Love Blanket!

Code: Intimacy10

Newsletter: Click here to enjoy weekly newsletter with juicy tips we can't share on social media. Plus be the first to know when we launch new events & programs!