Intimacy for Working Moms | Desire, Relationships, Sexuality, Romance, Marriage

Are summer vacations stressful? Do you have a hard time finding a moment to connect with your partner while traveling with kids?

Summer vacations with children can be a lot of work, and may not be as relaxing as we intend them to be. In this episode, I'll share my number 1 strategy to ensure that your summer vacation is supporting you as a family, and fueling your connection and emotional intimacy with your partner!

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Business travel can be a strain on your marriage or your relationship.

Whether you are the one who travels for business or your partner is the one who travels, this episode will give you tips of how to ensure that trips aren't a drain on your connection. 

In addition, you'll get some tips on how to keep your sexual energy charged while one or both of you is traveling so you can keep up your desire for when you're together again!

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Ever wondered what the male perspective is on the importance of intimacy? What does a lack of intimacy do for men? 

In this episode, Luciana's husband speaks about how men suffer from a lack of intimacy more broadly in their lives. This creates problems for both men and women and spills into relationships and friendships.

Both Luciana and her husband give tips on how to create more intimacy in our lives so that intimacy is not scarce, but rather in abundance for the benefit of all!

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Looking for some creative ways to expand your sexual repertoire with your partner? Curious about BDSM? Ever wondered where to start as a couple interested in BDSM?

In this interview with artist and facilitator Zen Steady, he shares his passion for Sacred Kink, BDSM, Neo-Tantra, Shibari and Kinbaku. 

Zen explains the differences between mainstream portrayals of BDSM, such as in '50 Shades of Grey,' and the more intentional, presence-based approach of sacred kink, which emphasizes communication, boundaries, consent, and the receiver's experience. He details practical steps for couples new to BDSM, including discussing boundaries, desires, and fears, and starting with simple rituals and safe words (traffic light system) to ensure safety and comfort.

The conversation covers creative ways to introduce kink, such as role play and different types of touch inspired by the elements (earth, water, air, fire), and recommended starting with accessible tools like feathers or household items before progressing to more advanced implements like ropes or paddles.

Zen also highlights the importance of aftercare and feedback following scenes, and addressed concerns or fears newcomers might have, suggesting a gradual, communicative approach.

Zen notes that the core principles of presence, communication, and intentionality are universally valuable for deepening intimacy. 

Follow Zen or book a session with him at: 

https://www.instagram.com/zensteady/

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Ever wondered how tantra and kink can benefit your relationship? Curious to learn more about tantra and kink (BDSM) to see what it's all about?

In this exclusive interview with Lucia Gabriela, Somatic Intimacy Leader, creator of the Tantrikink® Methodology, she explains how both tantra and kink together can improve relationships by helping you gain clarity, confidence and passion. 

Lucia Gabriela is also the visionary behind Sol y Luna Festival and Sol y Luna Retreat—immersive gatherings devoted to embodiment, ritual, nature connection, and conscious community.

Through Sol y Luna, she guides individuals, couples, and families into a direct experience of the body as a pathway to emotional integration, relational depth, and authentic expression.

Follow Lucia Gabriela at Luciagabriela.com 

Interested in participating in her events? Check out the Sol y Luna Festival 

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Interested in how men can support their female parter's desire? What challenges do men face with intimacy and desire? How can you communicate better with your husband? What can men learn from tantra?

In this exclusive interview with Luciana's husband (named "love" for confidentiality) he shares his perspective into the male brain on things like intimacy, desire, communication and tools for long-term relationships.

This episode will give you tips on how to talk to your male partner and what to be sensitive about as you approach conversations about intimacy. 

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Do you struggle with jealousy in your relationship? Do you wish you didn't feel jealous so often?

Although jealousy is a natural human emotion and everyone feels it, this episode teaches tips and techniques to stop feeling jealous, for good. 

These tips worked for me where I very rarely feel jealous anymore in my marriage, and I used to consider myself a very jealous person! With these tips, you can stop the struggle too.

If you need more support on desire, relationships or working through jealousy, sign up for my 1 on 1 desire coaching. 

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In this exclusive interview with Board Certified Sexologist and Certified Sex Coach Jennifer Summers, we explore topics of female orgasm and anatomy, increasing female pleasure and desire and making it all do-able for busy working moms!

Jennifer shares her number 1 recommendation for improving female pleasure and gives actionable tips for our daily lives!

Follow Jennifer and book one of her signature toy parties at www.selfmadediva.com.

Listen to her podcast SIP with Summers, and

You can reach her at [email protected]

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Do you have sexual desire within you, but not for your husband? Do you feel shame or guilt by not having a sense of desire for your husband? 

This is a very difficult truth to admit and an easy one to swipe under the rug as unimportant, especially relative to other priorities like family, kids and our jobs.  This episode normalizes fluctuations in desire in long-term relationships, and creates a safe space to invite women to explore the root cause of a lack of desire for their husbands.

The episode gives some solutions for moving forward that are sustainable for all relationship structures including traditional monogamy, ethical- non monogamy (ENM) and polyamory. 

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Does sex still feel like an obligation at the end of the day? Ever wonder why?

According to relationship expert Esther Perel, female desire dies faster than male desire in a marriage due to lack of seduction. Women still crave romance and an interesting story to keep desire alive for them, and therefore keep them WANTING sex instead of just performing it. 

Listen to this episode for 4 tips on keeping seduction and desire alive for you in your marriage or long-term relationship! 

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